At almost every wedding, the newlyweds will be like statues, frequently switching guests to take photos. Each couple has to stand, move, and sit in full view of the public. No one can escape the thought of your actions. Are you feeling frightened by the gazes of everyone? Don’t worry, I’ll teach you some basic etiquette below, which will come in handy for safekeeping.
Sitting posture: lift the pants at the knees before sitting
When the groom sits listlessly, the trouser legs will automatically lift up, exposing his socks, which is unsightly, so pay special attention to sitting down. Before putting on your clothes, lift up your pants at the knees.
Standing posture: straighten your back naturally, and consciously form an 'eight' shape with each other
Whether you are greeting guests or taking commemorative photos, your standing posture is very important, so you must pay special attention to it. . There is a feeling of upward stretching in the back, the head, buttocks and heels are in a straight line, and the upper body feels like being lifted. The groom gently bends his left arm and asks the bride to put her hands in her elbow. It should be noted that the bride should not pull the groom's clothes, which will make people feel timid. In addition, the groom should not highlight his abdomen too much in order to straighten his back. It does not matter if he holds his arm with the bride to avoid stepping on the skirt, nor should he stay too far away. Don't hold the groom's arm tightly, as if you are afraid that he will run away.
Walking: An eye-catching entrance ceremony
The groom should always look straight ahead, and try to keep his sight 10 meters in front of him. This is conducive to taking pictures, and for the sake of For safety reasons, the groom's gaze can be slightly downward, but not too far so as not to affect the image.
Kissing: kissing naturally and generously, it feels weird to kiss shyly
Kissing in a ceremony has sacred meaning, the two should behave naturally and generously, and do not take vows at the wedding When kissing, inexplicable shyness, coquettishness or artificially protruding lips are disgusting. Whether in photos or videos, it will be quite unnatural. The correct posture is as follows. The groom gently holds the bride’s arm, and the other Putting his hand around her waist, the bride raised her face slightly as a hint, letting onlookers feel that the two of them were approaching in a natural manner, with a sense of mystery and beauty. The two of them agreed on the timing of the kiss first. In this way, there will be no mistakes. The bride should use a napkin to gently try off the bright lipstick on the surface in advance, so as not to leave a clear lip mark on the groom's face. Gently hug your arms and raise your face slightly to make it more natural, don't look like you are stamping.
Reading letters: Be sure to show sincere feelings
At the wedding, the bride and groom must be very serious when reading letters of thanks to family, relatives, and friends, because This is a very serious scene in the wedding ceremony. Sincere emotions are important. After writing the letter, I must practice it myself in advance to avoid deviations during the formal reading. The content should be true, able to make the guests excited, and try to create an affectionate scene.
Smile: A smile filled with happiness
The corners of the mouth are turned up, smiling softly. The happy smiles on the faces of the newlyweds are what the guests like to see, and many of them smile when taking photos. It was done deliberately. After the photo was taken, there was no smile on the face. Such a smile was very fake. The method of practicing a smiling face is: hold a chopstick horizontally in your mouth, turn up the corners of your mouth, and look like a smile. Keep the shape of your mouth unchanged, take out the chopsticks, and complete the smiling face. Then practice it repeatedly until you get a real and soft smile. The level is complete.
Bow: Smile while slightly bending the upper body and nodding to greet
It is inevitable to bow frequently at the wedding. Tips: First, the back should be straight, and the body above the waist should lean forward. Second, when bowing, you should be full of emotion. The bending angle should be about 15 degrees. The two people should cooperate and not 'one after another'. You can pause for one second, and when bowing to the officiant in the music, don't forget that your whole body must be facing him. Be careful not to protrude your chin. Just nodding in salute or bending over excessively will look rude. Be careful not to look up at others when bowing.
Changing rings: realizing the most romantic scene
I’m so nervous that I can’t even put the ring on! People who have had this embarrassing experience may wish to practice several times in advance. When the bride helps the groom put on the ring, the groom bends his elbow and extends his hand to the natural bending height. The bride holds the groom’s hand with her left hand and holds it with the thumb, index finger and middle finger of her right hand. Put the ring on the groom's ring finger. Usually, when it cannot be put on, the bride will unconsciously exaggerate, grab his hand tightly, put it under her eyes and carefully put the ring on his ring finger. In fact, this kind of The posture is very awkward and the photos taken do not look good.
Cutting the cake: an excellent photo opportunity
The most photographed scene at the wedding banquet is when the couple cuts the cake. Such a close-up shot can reveal the subtle movements of the fingertips. Both the bride and groom will feel nervous. The correct posture for cutting the cake is for the bride to hold a knife in her right hand, the groom’s right hand covering the bride’s right hand, the groom’s left hand holding the bride’s waist, and the bride’s left hand assisting the right hand in cutting the cake. This is the most beautiful posture, and still maintain an intimate figure-eight shape in the standing posture, and the line of sight of the two people is consistent, which is conducive to taking a more perfect photo. The bride holds a knife in her right hand, and the groom covers the bride's hand with his hand. The bride can also use her left hand to assist. The eyes of the two people must be consistent. When you look back, don't just turn your face, but your entire body. The groom's left hand rests lightly on the bride's waist.
Lighting candles: a picturesque scene, lighting wedding candles
Straightening your back is the most basic of basics. People often fail at this point, because the bride and groom hold the ignition stick and reach out to light the fire far away from the candle. This posture will make the two of them protrude their chins and open their mouths, which looks ridiculous, and the lengths of their arms are different. If the groom fully straightens his arms, the bride will lean forward. Therefore, the groom should consider the length of the bride’s arms when deciding where to stand. This is called 'groom leading'. The groom's other hand is placed on the bride's waist, like dancing, adjusting the distance through the hints of his fingers, leading the bride to be half a step away from the table. The bride should be careful not to forget to turn the bouquet in her hand facing outwards. . He stretched out his hand to light the candle from a very far away position. Due to improper posture, his chin was immediately raised and his mouth was opened. The image was extremely bad. He tried to get as close to the table as possible. The posture is beautiful, with the chin tucked in, the groom's hands are placed on the bride's waist, and the bouquet is held facing outward.
Revealing the veil: Steady movements and coordinated movements
Don’t let the veil be placed on the head in a mess. The groom should help to tidy up the veil while lifting the veil of his lover, so that no matter whether It will be quite neat when taking pictures from the side or the back.
Cheers: While raising the glass gently, pay attention to the way of toasting
First of all, when listening to the toast, the wine glass should be brought to the chest, and with the sound of the toast, you will be grateful. Lift the wine glass slightly upward. If the angle is not too large, the wine glass should not cover your face. It is OK to take pictures from any angle. If the chairs of two people are far apart, they can stand closer together and deliberately form a figure-eight posture, so that the whole thing looks beautiful. In addition, when holding the wine glass, arrange the position of your fingers and listen. When others are speaking, use your left hand to hold the bottom of the cup steady.