On September 7, 2017, at around 5 o'clock in the morning, many people were still sleeping. At this time, 37-year-old Su Xiangmao fell into an extreme struggle in his heart. , he is making a life-or-death choice.
In the end, his inner collapse defeated his rational desire to survive, and he jumped from a 15-story building.
After his death, everyone found this sentence in his suicide note:
'I am leaving today. I never thought that I would end up like this. I was actually forced to death by my extremely vicious ex-wife Zhai Xinxin'.
This short paragraph reveals the endless helplessness and sadness. Life is so precious. What happened to Su Xiangmao must be solved in an extreme way such as suicide.
Who is this Zhai Xinxin? What methods did she use to drive an IT elite with a net worth of tens of millions to death?
01. The ‘snake-hearted’ hidden by beautiful skin
Zhai Xinxin was born in 1986 in a wealthy family in Shandong.
Her father is a professor at Shandong University of Science and Technology, and her mother is a finance official in a state-owned enterprise. Her family is half an intellectual family.
Ordinarily, children who grow up in such a family environment, who have no worries about food and clothing since childhood, and live a prosperous life, should not have serious money worship, but Zhai Xinxin is an exception as an adult.
Zhai Xinxin has been a beauty since she was a child. She is a "school belle" in school and has many suitors.
When she grew up, Zhai Xinxin became a "female eighteenth change". She was charming and beautiful, with a slim and well-proportioned figure, delicate facial features, fair skin, and a sweet voice. She was like a "goddess" in the eyes of many boys. existence.
Zhai Xinxin not only has outstanding appearance, but also inherited her parents' studious genes in terms of study. After graduating from university, she was admitted to graduate school and became a female master.
In college, unlike other girls, she chose an engineering college. There were more men than women in engineering colleges.
Coupled with Zhai Xinxin’s innate condition of ‘white skin, beauty and long legs’, she is a ‘unique scenery’ on the university campus and has become the object of many opposite-sex alumni’s pursuit.
Faced with many suitors, Zhai Xinxin has always been dismissive and focused on her studies.
In the eyes of everyone, Zhai Xinxin, who was in college, was a 'big beauty' with upright views, ideals, ambitions and ambition.
Judging from her various performances after entering the society, the reason why she rejected many suitors during college may be that these suitors did not have the 'material strength' to impress her.
So, after she left campus and entered society, she revealed her money-worshiping side, and she completely became a typical 'money-worshiping girl'.
Forcing her ex-husband to death for money, she became a 'femme fatale' with only a good skin.
02. The IT male has a successful career and becomes Zhai Xinxin’s ‘prey’
After introducing Zhai Xinxin, we must also get to know the protagonist of this article, Su Xiangmao.
Su Xiangmao was born in an ordinary rural family in Fujian in 1980. He is the eldest of five brothers and sisters.
Although the family is poor, the whole family still takes good care of the youngster. The elder brother and sister do not have to study, but the whole family must ensure that Su Xiangmao can receive a good education. Su Xiangmao has lived up to the expectations of the whole family. I cherish the hard-won learning opportunities, and my studies have always been among the best.
Since he was a child, he has known that his study opportunities were obtained by his brothers and sisters who "gave up on themselves".
The family situation at that time did not allow all five children to go to school. Because he was the youngest and was 'taken care of' by the whole family, he was able to successfully complete all his studies from elementary school to university.
After graduating from university, Su Xiangmao was recommended by the school to study for a master's degree at Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications due to his excellent achievements in school.
Not long after he entered the society after graduating with a master's degree, Su Xiangmao used his professional expertise to develop a communication software WePhone with international Internet phone functions.
With this software, he established his own company. Soon after, there were tens of millions of registered users of this software. Su Xiangmao also relied on this software to bring him huge returns.
In a few years, Su Xiangmao accumulated a net worth of tens of millions and became a typical 'single diamond king'.
Although Su Xiangmao, who is in his thirties, has a net worth of tens of millions, he is still single. This aspect has something to do with his busy career all year round.
On the other hand, it also has something to do with Su Xiangmao's personal conditions for choosing a spouse. According to Su Xiangmao's brother:
'His requirements are also relatively high. He likes people who are more virtuous, preferably those who are virtuous. Beijing household registration is to solve the problem of children's education in the future.
After having a successful career, Su Xiangmao is still single, all of which paved the way for his encounter with Zhai Xinxin.
03. The two met, fell in love, and their relationship quickly heated up
In 2017, Su Xiangmao, who had a successful career, began to pay attention to his marriage issues under the constant persuasion of his family.
He directly registered a VIP membership account on the Century Jiayuan dating website, hoping to find his favorite ‘other half’ as soon as possible.
With his status as a ‘Diamond King’, he has won the favor of the ‘matchmaker’ on the platform.
The platform’s ‘matchmaker’ recommended Su Xiangmao’s equally excellent ‘other half’—Zhai Xinxin.
The evaluation of Zhai Xinxin by the platform ‘Matchmaker’ is:
‘I believe every man will be moved by her when he meets her online or in real life’.
On March 30, 2017, the two met through the matchmaking platform.
When they met for the first time, the two didn't talk much. They just looked at each other briefly and politely left each other's contact information.
After the two separated, Su Xiangmao was directly 'captured' by Zhai Xinxin's beauty. She was a young and beautiful woman with a master's degree and a registered permanent residence in Beijing. She was simply the embodiment of the 'perfect goddess' in her heart.
In front of Zhai Xinxin, even though he has a net worth of tens of millions, he even feels a little inferior in his heart. He feels that Zhai Xinxin may not like him, so Su Xiangmao did not have high hopes for Zhai Xinxin at first.
The next day, Zhai Xinxin took the initiative to ask Su Xiangmao to have dinner together, which surprised Su Xiangmao. The woman took the initiative to ask the man out, which was basically a "play".
Although Su Xiangmao is a man in science and engineering and is not very good at emotional matters, he also knows what it means.
Su Xiangmao readily agreed. Before going to the appointment, he dressed up carefully at home in order to make himself more attractive to the other party.
When they met this time, they had dinner and watched a movie together, and also talked about each other's love history. Zhai Xinxin told Su Xiangmao:
'I only fell in love once after graduating from college. Because my work is in another place, I can no longer continue.'
At this time, Su Xiangmao felt that Zhai Xinxin was very honest and could tell him this, which made him like Zhai Xinxin even more.
After meeting again the next day, the relationship between the two began to heat up. After the two separated after watching the movie, they continued to chat on WeChat.
At this time, Su Xiangmao's liking for Zhai Xinxin turned into 'admiration' after meeting her on the first day. In just 2 days, he had gradually begun to fall in love with her.
During the chat that night, Zhai Xinxin intentionally or unintentionally sent a video of birds flying over the villa. Su Xiangmao was shocked after watching it. He did not expect that this highly educated single beauty would still live there. with villa.
In other words, Zhai Xinxin is a typical "white, rich and beautiful", which makes Su Xiangmao's only sense of material superiority disappear during their relationship.
Su Xiangmao did not calm down and think seriously about why this highly educated, fair-skinned and beautiful "Bai Fumei" who lives in a villa is still single.
On the contrary, he was dazzled by 'love' and began to 'fight for wealth' with Zhai Xinxin. In order to prove that his strength matched Zhai Xinxin, he gave away all his deposits and stock accounts to Zhai Xinxin. Zhai Xinxin.
It is Su Xiangmao's straight-man style of doing things that gives a 'scheming girl' like Zhai Xinxin certain opportunities.
After Zhai Xinxin found out the "industry" of Su Xiangmao, she took action and accelerated the "feeling" between the two.
After learning about Su Xiangmao’s ‘hard power’, Zhai Xinxin stopped being reserved and directly started to ‘attack’ proactively.
Zhai Xinxin began to tell Su Xiangmao on WeChat: 'I don't know why, I really liked you, it was love at first sight'.
Su Xiangmao was a little overwhelmed for a moment when he received such a reply from the 'goddess'. In the eyes of the simple Su Xiangmao, this was love that could last for ten thousand years.
Su Xiangmao quickly replied to the other party and expressed that he also fell in love with Zhai Xinxin at first sight. At this time, Su Xiangmao did not know that he was showing true feelings, and the other party just took a fancy to his 'hard power'.
Seeing that Su Xiangmao was already moved, Zhai Xinxin went a step further in chatting. She said:
'Why do I think we should get married when I see you, and I will give birth to a child for you? Is the father of my child'.
As the saying goes, 'Men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the street.' Faced with Zhai Xinxin's naked confession, no normal person could resist, let alone Su Xiangmao, a simple man in science and engineering.
Su Xiangmao didn't even think about why she would fall in love with him, an older single man with an average appearance, based on his conditions.
Su Xiangmao was completely smitten. He was so attracted to Zhai Xinxin that they established a romantic relationship after only two days of knowing each other.
If you love her, you have to "buy, buy, buy" for her. After only two weeks of dating, Su Xiangmao gave Zhai Xinxin a million-dollar car.
The brand-name bags and clothes they bought were worth hundreds of thousands. They also traveled to Hainan and Hong Kong, spending more than 100,000.
In other words, just two weeks after they met, Su Xiangmao spent more than 1.5 million for Zhai Xinxin. At this time, Su Xiangmao did not realize that the other party was interested in his money.
Su Xiangmao was completely blinded by love. He thought it was worthwhile to spend some money on her. At that time, he did not realize that she was a 'bottomless pit' that could not be filled with money.
After two months of love, Zhai Xinxin could no longer satisfy her appetite for brand-name luxury goods. She told Su Xiangmao that she liked Hainan and hoped to have a house there.
Su Xiangmao directly spent 3.2 million to buy a house in Hainan. When buying it, Zhai Xinxin asked for his name to be written on the property certificate. Su Xiangmao thought that this was their home together, so he wrote The names of the two people were given.
In two months, not to mention the 3.2 million yuan to buy a house, the cost of just buying things for Zhai Xinxin and traveling around for the two of them reached nearly 3 million yuan, plus the 3.2 million yuan to buy a house.
In other words, Su Xiangmao spent more than 6 million in the two months he met Zhai Xinxin. No matter how rich he was, he couldn't afford such a thing.
However, after spending so much money, the two finally reached the point of discussing marriage. At this time, Zhai Xinxin accidentally revealed that he had been married before, and he and his ex-husband agreed to divorce. .
This made Su Xiangmao feel cheated for the first time. Although Su Xiangmao felt very sad, he had already paid too much for her and there was no turning back.
After the pain, Su Xiangmao chose to forgive Zhai Xinxin. At this time, Su Xiangmao imagined that Zhai Xinxin could live with him after marriage, and the two of them could build a happy family together.
The two agreed to get a marriage certificate together in a few days. During these few days, Su Xiangmao asked Zhai Xinxin to see the divorce agreement between her and her ex-husband.
Su Xiangmao wanted to know why Zhai Xinxin’s ex-husband insisted on getting a divorce even though he had such a good ‘daughter-in-law’.
Zhai Xinxin claimed that the divorce agreement with her ex-husband was her privacy and that if Su Xiangmao wanted to see it, he would have to pay 880,000 yuan.
Su Xiangmao cared too much about Zhai Xinxin, so he wanted to know everything about her. This time Su Xiangmao agreed again and gave Zhai Xinxin 880,000, and finally saw the agreement.
After seeing the agreement, Su Xiangmao discovered that the ‘ex-husband’ had a different name than what Zhai Xinxin told him, and the two broke up. The man paid Zhai Xinxin 200,000 yuan in compensation.
Faced with many doubts, Su Xiangmao began to feel that Zhai Xinxin was not a simple woman, and the two had a quarrel.
But he has given too much. He naively hopes that he can exchange his sincerity for his sincerity, and exchange his repeated tolerance for Zhai Xinxin for the other party's true love for him. This time he compromised again.
However, his compromise did not win the other party's forgiveness, because Zhai Xinxin broke up after this quarrel.
This was unacceptable to Su Xiangmao. At this time, Su Xiangmao did not know that if he had stopped his losses in time, he would not have to die for it later.
Faced with Zhai Xinxin's indifference, Su Xiangmao decided to 'recover' Zhai Xinxin again. The other party expressed his sincerity and would transfer 50,000 yuan a day until the other party was willing to marry him.
Su Xiangmao actually agreed, and he did so, transferring 50,000 yuan to the other party every day. At this moment, Su Xiangmao was so humble in love that he was as humble as dust.
04. Humble to the extreme, with no way out
His continuous transfers finally 'touched' Zhai Xinxin, and the two received their marriage certificate on June 7, 2017. Su Xiangmao breathed a sigh of relief. He felt that all his efforts were worth it and he was able to hold the beauty back.
At this time, Su Xiangmao did not realize that this was the beginning of his nightmare. After marriage, Zhai Xinxin asked Su Xiangmao to buy a new house and insisted not to live in Su Xiangmao's original house.
And asked Su Xiangmao to give him sufficient living expenses every month, starting at 50,000 yuan.
Faced with Zhai Xinxin's endless demands, Su Xiangmao realized that her marriage to him was based on his own money.
Su Xiangmao could no longer afford to support this 'gold-eating beast', so he filed for divorce. At this time, he seemed to know why Zhai Xinxin's ex-husband divorced her, and he paid 200,000 yuan in compensation.
Seeing Su Xiangmao take the initiative to propose a divorce, Zhai Xinxin succeeded. This was the result she wanted. She immediately told Su Xiangmao that the divorce was okay and she wanted the breakup fee.
Zhai Xinxin asked for a breakup fee of 10 million, plus the 3.2 million house she bought in Hainan.
For this reason, Zhai Xinxin threatened Su Xiangmao that if he did not agree, she had already found a lawyer and was preparing to sue Su Xiangmao's company for illegal operations and tax evasion.
Su Xiangmao was forced by Zhai Xinxin to have no way out. His spirit was almost on the verge of collapse. He did not expect that this woman he had been with day and night would be so ruthless to him.
Under Zhai Xinxin's repeated pressure, Su Xiangmao signed the "divorce agreement" by mistake. This paper agreement became the last straw that broke his inner defense.
After the agreement was signed, Zhai Xinxin began to ask Su Xiangmao for money endlessly, which made Su Xiangmao unbearable.
In the past few months of dating Zhai Xinxin, Su Xiangmao has spent more than 13 million. How could he have so much money to pay for the breakup fee of 10 million.
Su Xiangmao asked Zhai Xinxin to pay the breakup fee slowly, but Zhai Xinxin refused and insisted that he must pay it quickly.
In desperation, Su Xiangmao transferred all the last more than 6 million in his stock account and paid it to Zhai Xinxin.
After paying, Su Xiangmao was completely out of money. He didn’t have a penny in his hand. He thought Zhai Xinxin would let him go, but he was too naive.
Zhai Xinxin demanded that the remaining more than 3 million yuan must be cleared within 2 months, otherwise he would be sent to prison.
Su Xiangmao finally couldn't bear it anymore. His inner emotions had collapsed. A few months ago, he was a successful man worth tens of millions.
For a woman, he became a "debt person" with millions in debt within a few months, and was threatened with being sent to prison. He had never suffered such a big blow in his life.
In the early morning of September 7, he chose to commit suicide by jumping off the building after writing a suicide note.
After Su Xiangmao's death, his suicide note fully exposed Zhai Xinxin's "money worship" scandal.
Righteous netizens have launched a campaign against Zhai Xinxin. No matter how she defends herself, she cannot cover up the fact that she cheated on marriage and money.
Su Xiangmao’s family is also actively collecting information and vows to take her to court and make her pay the price she deserves.
Now Zhai Xinxin is like a rat crossing the street, everyone is shouting to beat her up. If the materials collected by Su Xiangmao's family can prove that Zhai Xinxin belongs to a "marriage fraud gang", she will also be punished by the law.
As the saying goes, 'One slap can't make a difference.' Su Xiangmao's final outcome has something to do with his own naivety.
Su Xiangmao believes in beautiful love too easily. It is said that a person's wealth is directly proportional to his IQ. When it comes to love, Su Xiangmao is obviously carried away and behaves irrationally.
Every one of us must have enough mental endurance in life, because we have to face many 'humps' in life. Even if it is extremely bad, we should find a way to get over it instead of Use extreme methods to 'go around'.