1. Be open-minded
xū huái ruò gǔ
1. Explain emptiness: modesty; Valley: Valley. My mind is as deep and wide as a valley. Describe is very modest, can accommodate other people's opinions.
2. From: Chapter 15 of Laozi: "Dunxi is simple and spacious." Valley: Valley.
3. Example: He is open-minded on this issue.
Second, take advice like a stream
nà jià nú rú liú
Explain acceptance: adopt and accept; Remonstrance: the old term refers to persuading the monarch or elder to correct his mistakes; Rush: quickly. Accepting advice is as natural as running water. Describe being very willing to listen to other people's opinions.
Out of the office: The third fold of Yuan Jin Renjie's Chasing Han Xin: "Open-minded and generous, accept advice like a flow, and stop punishing meat for the sake of obedience."
Example: Duke Xuande accepted advice and respected the virtuous and courteous. The fourth fold of Ming Anonymous's Four Counties of Pang
Third, listen to good advice
cóng shàn rúliú
Explain from: obey; Good: good, right; Ruliu: It's like running water flowing downwards, which describes rapidity. Describe being able to accept other people's good opinions quickly.
Chu: "Zuo Zhuan became a public official for eight years": "A gentleman says: It is appropriate to follow good advice."
Example: "Eight hairs!" He also immediately understood that it was really "~" to give away five cents, which was a gentleman's demeanor. (Lu Xun's
Diary of a Horse
Fourth, listen to good advice
cóng shàn ruò liú
Explain that you can accept other people's good opinions quickly. With "good advice".
Chu: Biography of Zhang Xuansu, a Book of the New Tang Dynasty: "If you follow the good advice, you may not be able to catch it. If you don't refuse to remonstrate, will it be a disaster?"
Example: Grandpa always takes good advice.
V. Learn from others and discuss with others
bó c ? iqú n y?
Interpretation of idioms: Bo: Guang; Discussion: Suggestions. Widely adopt the suggestions of the masses.
Out of the office: Biography of Wei Shu and Liu Fang: "Textual research on graves, learning from others."
example: engage in scientific research, and gather ideas every night.
Extended information:
Chapter 15 of Laozi: "The ancient good is a scholar, subtle and mysterious, and profound. The husband is only unknowable, so he is strong: if he is involved in Sichuan in winter, he is still afraid of his neighbors, and he is a guest;
If you are indifferent to ice, you will release it; if you are anxious, you will be simple; if you are open, you will be indifferent. " Again: "Go to the Valley of Deruogu." Wang Bi's note: "If you don't have virtue, you have nothing to worry about." Later, it was described as "open-minded" and very open-minded.