As the saying goes, a thousand miles of marriage will never meet. In marriage, fate is very important, but personality and other factors are also very important for disagreement. And the eight characters are born to everyone, so is marriage related to the eight characters? The answer is, of course, yes. If you are unhappy after marriage, you may be out of character. So how to stop you from marrying the wrong person? Let's have a look.
Many people are experiencing the distress of marital discord, and many people have experienced the pain of marital discord. Many people are asking: Can marriage be solved? Is there any panacea to solve my marriage problem? What magical measures can save our relationship or marriage?
The so-called marriage refers to the spouse of marriage, the pairing of marriage, the partner of life and the sustenance of love. The key question is not you, but whether the other half has a solid foundation with you, a harmonious personality and a smooth marriage. So the fundamental problem of marriage is to find the right partner for you.
How can we know who is more suitable for you and who is the other half of your life?
It is said that marriage depends on fate, but it is true. First of all, you should get to know each other, know each other and love each other, and then you can get in touch closely, come together, live together, and be happy and loving. This fate is the most important, so where did it come from?
It is said that fate was made in a previous life, and it was predestined in life, which makes sense. Although we can't see past lives, we can see this doomed thing from your fate, so as to judge whether you two are suitable for marriage and whether you live happily together for a long time.
The so-called eight-character marriage, first of all, must discharge the date of birth of two people, and have good luck. Look at the depth of foundation from the annual column, the good and evil of love from the moon column, the temperament from the sun column and the future development from the time column. On this basis, let's look at the direction of their marriage, whether the marriage news is synchronized, and some need to judge whether the pattern is fantastic and the eight characters like and hate, so as to see whether the two like to use each other. After so many complicated calculations, we can see whether their marriage is auspicious or fierce. If good luck is greater than bad luck, it means that the prospects are promising and can continue to develop; If it is worse than good luck, it means that the problem is serious and needs careful consideration.
If after calculation, it is found that the two are not married, is there any panacea or fairy prescription to solve this marriage disaster? This should also be analyzed from two aspects.
In the first case, if the result of the marriage is fierce:
1, then I advise you to go back to your mother's womb and be born again, and change the birth time, maybe there is still the possibility of resolving it.
2, or simply give up looking for someone else, don't hang yourself on this crooked tree.
3, there is no fairy prescription, and there is no magic prescription that can help you dissolve your marriage or save each other's hearts. Knowing that it can't be solved, we can only draw water with a sieve. Sometimes it's no wonder that people are deceived, but you are too stubborn and wishful thinking.
In the second case, if the result of marriage is more auspicious than fierce:
1, make up for it from their marriage.
In view of the problems existing in their marriage, we should make beneficial adjustments and supplements from the aspects of geomantic houses, five-element ornaments, colors and children's childbearing, so as to effectively resolve unfavorable factors and increase the stability of marriage.
2. Make up for it from personal marriage.
The quality of marriage depends not only on whether the marriage of two people is auspicious, but also on whether the marriage of one person is smooth. If there are also problems in personal marriage, such as the right time, the right place and the right person, the empty moon, hurting officials and robbing money, violence in Kui Gang, sheep blade and so on, we should take measures such as geomantic omen, five elements, psychology and religion to restrain or resolve these unfavorable factors and make them favorable.
3. Adjustment method
If the problem is not serious, you can make a written transportation and disaster relief plan and implement it yourself. If the problem is serious, it is necessary to survey and adjust the ancestral graves and home feng shui on the spot in order to play a corresponding role.
In fact, the most fundamental and effective adjustment is psychological adjustment. What is psychological adjustment?
First of all, you should change your mind and understand that fate is predestined, and you can only meet it, but you can't force it. Only when we get along can we be happy. No matter how good the beauty is, no matter how handsome the handsome guy is, it is not your dish, you can't eat it, or even if you eat it, it is not sweet, but it is extremely painful.
Secondly, we should change our ideas and understand that marriage and love are sometimes completely different things. Love is excitement and feeling, more of a kind of spiritual enjoyment, while marriage is life and dullness, more of a kind of material enjoyment. Those who have feelings are not necessarily suitable for living together, and living together is not necessarily emotional. The essence of marriage is partners, mutual dependence, mutual understanding and mutual concessions. If you stay together for a long time, you will become dependent, reluctant to part with each other, and will love each other for life.
Third, as a woman, finding someone who loves you as a partner is ten times happier than finding someone you love.