What I want to say feels a bit nonsense, but friends who are interested can listen to it. Is a person’s life destined at birth? I think it is yes. People’s destiny is relative and destined. To put it bluntly, we have all heard of time travel, or have seen time travel movies. From a scientific perspective, we assume that time travel really exists. Then a person can freely travel through the past and the future. Then our life will be different for this time traveler. Our lives are doomed. Suppose a person time-travels directly from the moment we are born to the age when we die. Then our life, for this person who time-travels, we are just reliving our lives from beginning to end. We have acted it out again, but we don’t know it ourselves, thinking that the future can be changed, because for us, the future is unknown, but for the time travellers, everything is under control, just like the history we have learned Similarly, these histories are already in the past tense. We know what will happen in which year and who will appear. For us, the past has already been determined. However, people at that time did not know anything, so people’s Fate is destined by God and cannot be changed without the help of external forces. Live this life steadily and be happy. The most important thing is to be happy. If it is not yours, don't force it. Many people have a heart as high as the sky and a life as thin as paper. , still unwilling to give in, insisting on insisting, will eventually either commit a crime, become depressed, or have a mental breakdown.
I was a little skeptical when I was young, but after experiencing a lot, I agree with this statement.
Let me first tell you a true story about a colleague of mine. She lives across from me.
My female colleague’s surname is Li. She is not very beautiful, but she is smart and smart. She had a boyfriend when she was in normal school. Her boyfriend was very good to her and they had a good relationship. During this period, the man's family was poor and the woman often gave him tuition fees. She also made handmade shoes, knitted scarves, sweaters and pants for her boyfriend stitch by stitch.
It has to come to the point of talking about marriage. But the man married another rich girl. From then on, it was really strange that my colleague named Li began to decline. Later she married another man and gave birth to a boy. But the boy died in an accident when he was three years old. The female colleague was disheartened. When she was thirty years old, her husband fell ill and died.
Later, eight years later, she remarried, and she and her husband gave birth to a boy and a girl. The boy is now only 8 years old.
She is sincere, treats people well, speaks politely, and is open-minded. He is recognized as a good colleague in everyone's eyes. But fate is really unclear.
Once I had a chat with her, and she also said something about her experience. She said that it was really strange for every fateful arrangement. Some things happened just as they were told, without any explanation.
Let me tell you something real about me, a small thing and a big thing.
Let me tell you a little thing first.
When I was in junior high school, I had a good friend named Qiao. We were very good friends in junior high school, but in the third year of junior high school, she dropped out of school because of illness. I didn't see her afterwards. Five years have passed, and I have joined the workforce and gotten married.
The world is really big and small. We are in a big city, but our fate is strange.
One day, I actually met her face to face. It turned out that she was married here, and she was opposite my house. We had never met or communicated before. I think it is incredible. To this day I still wonder, how can things in the world be such a coincidence?
There is another important thing for me.
Five years ago, I encountered a big hurdle in my life. I took a very important exam in the city. A written test and interview are required. If I pass both, my job will also have a big and good change.
My scores in the written test were in the upper-middle range. If nothing else, once I pass the interview, I will pass.
A few days before the interview, a major change occurred in my family. I had never thought of it in advance. On the day of the interview, I got up at 5 o'clock in the morning and entered the pre-examination room. It was a lottery. How weird can you say? , I actually got the last place, my God, I worked from morning to 12 noon.
It was time for me to go for the interview at 12 o'clock. I was tired and hungry at the time. Coupled with the family accident before the exam, I was all emotionally and stressed. I take this interview very seriously. I felt dizzy during the interview. I persisted in answering two links seriously, but there was still one link missing. Unexpectedly, the examiner came and said it was too late and would not proceed, thus ending my exam.
When the test results came out, I failed by 0.1 points, and I was even chosen not to be admitted.
I am still thinking about that incident to this day. Why did so many things happen to happen at that time? Is this destiny? I was wondering myself, who did I offend whom? It just happened without any warning...
Since then, I have a deeper understanding of destiny...
What stories about destiny do you have, tell and share them. Down?
Let’s start with a story! It is said that there used to be a fortune teller who set up a stall on the roadside to tell fortunes. A man riding a tall horse and his two followers came to the fortune teller and asked the fortune teller to tell him his fortune. The fortune teller wrote down the person's birth date on a piece of paper. Year, month, day, and hour later, after taking a few glances at the person's clothes, and then at the entourage around him, he smiled and said: "From the horoscope of Mr., you are destined to be the Yima star. You must be doing this." Official, your destiny is very good, and you will be more prosperous in the future." Later, the visitor asked the fortune teller, "Is this determined by my horoscope?" The gentleman replied: "Yes, the horoscope of a person's birth determines him. A life of poverty, longevity and wealth." At this time, the visitor gave the gentleman a couple of silver and left the fortune teller's stall... Later, after a while, the fortune teller changed his clothes and came back again. Go to the fortune-telling stall and ask the fortune teller to tell the fortune by arranging the horoscopes. As usual, the fortune teller writes the year, month, day, and hour of the person's birth on the paper. Then, after looking at the torn clothes on the person's body, he shakes his head and tells the fortune. The man said: "Sir, the horoscope of your birth is too bad. Your destiny is to be poor and hardworking..." Before the gentleman could finish speaking, the visitor slapped the gentleman's fortune-telling stand with his palm and said angrily. He said: "I am the one who came just now. Why was my luck good just now and now it is bad?" At this time, the fortune teller said in fear: "I haven't finished speaking yet? Please calm down, you are lucky." Yima, sir, is a noble man, a noble man often jumps when a horse comes, while a lowly man often suffers disaster when a horse meets a horse, sir, he is a noble man, he is a man who jumps a lot..."
This story shows that a person’s destiny is not determined by God, and those professional numerologists dare not think that a person’s life is determined by God.