Let's just say there is a generation gap between you and your dad. Filling this generation gap depends on how to deal with it. I suggest you think from the standpoint of your parents, because even if what your parents say is not nice, it is still a "dream of success." It is important that you have confidence in yourself, analyze your own advantages and strengths, plan your life well, and don't be easily influenced by what others say. Sometimes it is better to say more than to do it, until your efforts and efforts bear fruit.
As for your family, please don't think you are the worst. There are still many people starving to death in the world. Do you want to open your eyes, open your eyes ~ ~