First, the family contradiction that is difficult to alleviate Ge Yifeng is from Chizhou, Anhui Province. On February 5th, 20 14, he married his hometown Chen Xiaomei and became a son-in-law. After marriage, I followed my parents-in-law and wife to live in Beijing and lived in a rented house in the suburbs of Beijing. Although Ge Yifeng and Chen Xiaomei got married after free love, family conflicts became increasingly prominent within a few days of their happy life after marriage. Ge Yifeng said that before he got married, he worked in Yantai, Shandong Province with a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan. After arriving in Beijing, he earned five or six thousand yuan a month. "To be someone else's pug, money alone is not enough. I spend four or five hours on the subway every day. I can't adapt and I am very depressed. " My income is less, but my wife's living standard has improved since she came to Beijing, and she often can't meet the demand. He wanted to take his wife to Yantai, but she didn't agree. To this end, the two sides have quarreled many times. ?
Sensitive inside, he felt that his wife looked down on him and even thought that he was just his wife's "spare tire" and didn't really love him. Ge Yifeng once complained that his wife said: "You said that you broke up with other boys and took me as an emotional sustenance, so I fell in love with you;" I'll be engaged to you if you say engagement; You said let me be a door-to-door son-in-law, and I will be a door-to-door son-in-law; You told me to quit my job and come to Beijing, and I came to Beijing to accompany you. "He thinks that he has made many compromises and concessions for his wife, but he still can't get his wife's true feelings back. ?
The key is that he also has great contradictions with his parents-in-law. His father-in-law said that Ge Yifeng had always been regarded as his son at home. If he had no money, he gave him money to spend and gave him money to learn to drive. Ge Yifeng, on the other hand, is not enterprising, idle, likes playing cards and even beating his wife. Ge Yifeng thought that his married life in Beijing made him depressed, and his parents-in-law looked down on him, even being scolded by her mother-in-law on their wedding day. When his wife filed for divorce, Ge Yifeng also discussed it with his mother in Anhui, but her mother did not support his divorce. His mother opposed this marriage at first. His mother thought it would be embarrassing to plug the door backwards. If it is even more shameful to let others drive out of the house, tell her, "Don't go home if you are divorced. Our family can't afford to lose this person." ?
2. The bloody case occurred more than two months before the marriage. Ge Yifeng, who felt desperate, had plans to retaliate against his wife and family. He also prepared tools such as scissors, hammers and fruit knives to hide in the car, but his heart was still contradictory and he could not make up his mind. 20 14 In the early morning of April 26th, Ge Yifeng didn't get up when she heard her mother-in-law constantly criticizing him and his family, saying that he was lazy and couldn't earn money. Hearing this, Ge Yifeng was very angry. When his wife came home, she told her about it. I want to find some comfort from my wife, but I didn't expect her to look at him. During the quarrel, I threw his clothes outside the door and told him to leave the house.
Ge Yifeng walked out of the house, hid in the car and sulked, and the idea of revenge reappeared. He called his wife to the car and wanted to talk to her again. He is eager for her to understand his difficulties, give him an apology or some kind of psychological comfort, and don't push him to the wall. Chen Xiaomei was very angry. Where could he realize the pitfalls? He quarreled without saying a few words. When Chen Xiaomei was ready to get off the bus and leave, Ge Yifeng's emotions were completely out of control. He stabbed each other dozens of times in the neck, chest and back with scissors, and then hit her on the head with a hammer, killing his wife. Seeing his wife lying in a pool of blood and no longer struggling, he clearly realized that he had made a big mistake and knew the punishment he would face. He called his mother and brother in Anhui and told them that he had killed his wife, but his family didn't believe him. He took a photo and sent it to a circle of friends, saying that it was finally over. He took a taxi to the local police station and surrendered himself, and asked the police to shoot him immediately.
The Beijing No.2 Intermediate People's Court held that Ge Yifeng's failure to correctly handle family conflicts and brutally killing his wife constituted a crime of intentional homicide. In view of his surrender and other circumstances, he may be sentenced to death and not executed immediately, because his criminal circumstances are particularly bad and his sentence may be reduced. At the same time, the court ordered him to compensate Chen Mou's family for economic losses of more than 58,000 yuan. Ge Yifeng is currently serving his sentence in Bengbu Prison, Anhui Province, and his death sentence has been reduced to life imprisonment.
3. What caused this bloody case? The main reason for this bloody case is Ge Yifeng's inner sensitivity and extreme personality, and the objective reason is family conflicts that are difficult to alleviate. Although Ge Yifeng and Chen Xiaomei are in free love, their emotional foundation is not solid. After Ge Yifeng went to Beijing to live, it was difficult to adapt to the new living and working environment in a short time and he felt very unhappy. When he needed understanding and support, Chen Xiaomei didn't give him much help, but stood in the same camp with his parents, making him feel lonely and helpless. Ge Yifeng said that his parents-in-law looked at him, but they said he was lazy and lazy, and each said his own reasons. There is no need to make textual research on who is right or wrong between them, because family conflicts cannot be completely blamed on one party. Family conflicts are difficult to reconcile, and Chen Mou's parents, as the elders in the family, should bear the main responsibility. If you have a bad relationship with your wife, you can get a divorce and leave Beijing to create a new life. Ge Yifeng was deeply involved in family conflicts, which eventually led to a bloody case.
Fourth, how should "adopted" families get along? Influenced by traditional ideas, there is still the prejudice that son-in-law is inferior in today's society. If you don't have a big mind, don't say "son-in-law" easily in marriage. The new family concept has been deeply rooted in the society. It is not necessary for a son-in-law to define his obligation to support his parents-in-law, and it is not necessary to give him the status of "adopted". Even if the son-in-law lives with his parents-in-law, the parents-in-law's family should treat the daughter and son-in-law equally, and even give the son-in-law a higher family status, so that the son-in-law can provoke the family beam in the future. Once a family conflict occurs, the most taboo is that the woman's family stands in the same camp and isolates her son-in-law. This will make the adopted son always feel that he is an "outsider", and the family relationship is difficult to be harmonious, which will eventually lead to family breakdown.
Conclusion:
Emotionally, Ge Yifeng loved his wife wholeheartedly and made many sacrifices and concessions. In the end, it was his wife's incomprehension and indifference that made him feel cheated into a "spare tire", but he could not clear his grievances. This gift is another reason for his mental breakdown.