Everything in this world is always tortuous and endless.
Water can reach the sea because it cleverly avoids all kinds of obstacles and keeps turning around;
People can succeed because they can be flexible and turn things around in time.
On the long road of life, we need not only the courage to go forward, but also the wisdom to turn.
Cui Yongyuan interviewed linguist Zhou Youguang and asked the old man the secret of longevity.
Mr. A: "Look forward to everything and be open-minded."
Cui Yongyuan joked: "What should I do if I can't think of it?"
The gentleman said, "you just want to drive around when you turn a corner!" " "
Sometimes, life is not hopeless, but I think too much; Sometimes, life is not the end of the road, but you worry too much.
Read such a story:
An old lady gave birth to two daughters. The eldest daughter married an umbrella seller and the second daughter married a straw hat seller.
When the weather is fine, the old lady will pull a long face and say:
On rainy days, she began to worry about her second daughter:
So whether it is sunny or cloudy, the old lady always sighs.
Later, a wise man knew the old lady's heart and encouraged her:
The old lady thought it was true, and she was no longer worried.
People who like to walk into a dead end often bypass themselves.
As a result, the more I think about it, the more annoying it is.
There is an old saying:
There is no dead end in the world, only dead brains that cannot be turned around.
At sunrise, the East China Sea sets in the West Mountain, and there is also a day of sadness and joy;
People are comfortable when they are not entangled in things.
Look on the bright side, the position of a heart is so big, and less thinking can make it simpler and better.
Vincent Fang said in The Wonderful Congress: "Dreams can actually turn."
In his early years, he always had a movie dream.
Unfortunately, the market was small and the movies were depressed.
Even though he spent a lot of time and energy in the screenwriter training class and got the director's certificate.
I have written many scripts for filmmakers, but I still failed to enter the film circle.
So, he began to change his mind and tell stories with words combined with music.
He wrote more than 100 lyrics and sent them to various record companies.
Finally, he was appreciated and became a songwriter of a record company.
Later, I got to know Jay Chou and wrote songs such as Qi Li Xiang, Blue and White Porcelain and Direct Answer for him, which gradually became famous.
Even Gao once praised:
Difficulties in life are inevitable. Many people fail not because they are not smart enough, but because they are too stubborn.
Stick to what you shouldn't, go your own way, and stick to your own opinions.
Those who don't hit the south wall and don't look back, although a little brave, may end up black and blue.
Sometimes, turning is not retrogression, but wisdom.
Cartoonist Zheng Xinyao once said:
As the saying goes, "God won't close one door, but he will open another." The road is blocked, you might as well turn around.
Only in this way can we find "another village with a bright future" when "there is no road to doubt".
Ren Quan, a graduate of Shanghai Theatre Academy, is well known to the audience for his Young Bao Qingtian.
Just when everyone thought he had a bright future, Ren Quan made a decision that surprised everyone:
Fade out of show business and start your own business.
In his view, being an actor is too passive, always waiting for the show to come, with unstable income and insecurity.
Over time, he had the idea of doing business. At least he has a fixed income and won't worry about where to live and what to eat next month.
Despite the strong opposition from people around him, he took all his savings, plus 60 thousand borrowed from his friends, and started his business under pressure.
After many twists and turns, restaurants in Ren Quan opened.
He is also very concerned about this restaurant.
We make our own menus, try our own dishes, set our own prices, and do our own decoration. ......
Happily, the restaurant made a profit in the first month and gradually became famous.
A few years later, they opened branches in other cities.
Since then, Ren Quan has gradually expanded its commercial territory.
Not only set up a studio, but also invested in a number of companies and became a top investor in China.
There is more than one possibility in life. There is no need to hang from a tree, put all your hopes on it.
Trees move to death, and people move to life.
People should not just stare at one place, but learn to be flexible.
If you think this road is not easy to walk, you might as well change it.
Once you get rid of the dark clouds, you can see another colorful world.
As the old saying goes, "the mountains don't turn, the water turns; Water does not turn, people turn. "
As long as you turn a corner in your heart, you will follow your heart, thus surpassing yourself and opening up a new world.
Speaking of Li's birthday, everyone knows that he is a talk show actor, but few people know that he is also a writer.
In high school, he spent most of his spare time reading literary works unrelated to his studies.
He and Jiang encouraged each other, exchanged letters in the original way, and agreed to become two stars and write separately.
Although Li Dan insisted on reading and writing for so many years, his published books received a mediocre response.
The writer's dream has been hopeless. Li Dan, who claimed to be a "famous slow-moving book writer", turned around and started a talk show.
Unexpectedly, it worked.
As a resident guest and planner of a talk show, the topics he planned were frequently searched;
As the resident tutor of "The Story of Qipa", his novel ideas often attract the audience's amazement.
Clinton once said:
Sometimes, giving up at the right time does not mean cowardice, but stopping loss in time to open another possibility for life.
The art of giving up wrote:
Don't put all your eggs in one basket, go all the way to the dark.
At present, when the road is full of valleys and canyons, you might as well turn a corner, maybe you will meet a wide road.
Life is not all persistence, and there will be rainbows after the rain.
Some roads are impassable, and some hurdles are impassable.
If you go your own way, you will only hit a wall. Stubborn, will only be blocked.
Sometimes, success means less paranoia and more flexibility.
As Plato said:
When the dream can't reach in a straight line, what can achieve you is the turning force behind the dream.
Turn a corner when you are at the end of your rope, and turn back when you are at the end of the road. There are often unexpected surprises.
What determines the height of your life is not the starting point, but your turning point.
And the person who can really reach the top of the mountain is always the flexible person.