After two people get along, their words are not harmonious and there are contradictions everywhere. You think I'm uncomfortable, I think you're not pleasing to the eye. Men can do nothing, family conflicts intensify and deepen, and gradually move towards the edge of divorce. This kind of situation is mostly minor injuries to the official, the official star is weak, or the official is jealous of god, and the official is jealous of god. Most of them belong to this kind. This adjustment method is relatively simple. Knowing that your numerology has control over your husband, you can change your personality, not be particularly strong, avoid the intensification and occurrence of contradictions, and maintain family harmony as much as possible.
Methods: Change personality, accommodate each other, guide reasonably, behave well and step by step. Don't expect too much, lower your goals and simplify your life, which can alleviate the contradictions caused by this difference. In addition, choose children who can mediate. Have a baby that will help both of you. The birth of a child will definitely improve the family fortune as a whole and resolve family conflicts. In addition, if you know numerology, you can suppress your injured official star through home feng shui, so that your injured official star's role is weakened, and it can also play a certain role in resolving family harmony.
Second, moderate "grams."
Before marriage, my husband was lucky and healthy. After marriage, my body gradually declined, so that I was exhausted, groggy and ill every day. Some show that husbands don't follow the right path, cheat, eat, drink, gamble, commit all kinds of evils, and go to a dead end after marriage. In this case, most of the injured officials are more prosperous, and the injured officials are jealous, which is even worse for Fu Xing. In this case, the distance between the two people can be appropriately opened. The general method is as follows:
1, age distance, find young women with big age gap, find older men as husbands, and older women find younger men as husbands.
2, the distance of living, such as not being in a region, husband and wife do not live together for a long time, that is, people often say that holiday couples, and some even meet several times a year, so that the problem of husband and wife can be solved.
3, differentiated marriage, such as unmarried people looking for divorce, children, industry, hobbies, the gap is relatively large, you can also resolve some.
Of course, this degree of mutual respect can also be used to adjust the home feng shui and use the changes in the home atmosphere to suppress the power of Foucault.
Third, emphasize "grams".
After marriage, the husband was disabled by accident, lost the ability to work, died of illness or accident. Most of this situation is that the injury to officials is particularly strong. There is no marriage fate, and it can also be said that it is the life of a monk and nun. There is really no better way to solve this problem. If I marry you, the above situation will inevitably occur, but it can't be entirely your fault. Of course, some men are born to die young and have short lives, so there must be a female life in marriage corresponding to the message of Foucault. The husband's death is only his own fate, but the woman has inadvertently become the command of this cause and effect.
The solution to this situation is to know that his numerology is Foucault's proper numerology, so he just lives together, never marries, spends some time with whoever he likes, and breaks up if he is unhappy. It is also a good choice to live a chic life and escape from fate. Everyone may criticize this, but in reality there is such a relatively extreme fate. People often say that "life is short", and there is no way. Better than being alone all year round.
Fourth, check the husband and wife's room to see if there are any feng shui taboos.
For example, facing the mirror on the bed can easily lead to haggle over every ounce and nervousness between husband and wife; Irregular and irregular rooms easily lead to frank treatment between husband and wife, and many strange things happen; The orientation of the bedside does not conform to fate, and it is easy to have troubles, dreams and false alarms, which is reflected in the lack of patience in marriage life; It's not good for a couple's room to be too small or too big. Too small can easily lead to narrow-minded couples, too big can easily lead to weak feelings between husband and wife.
There are beams on the bed, which easily leads to dull and depressing life of husband and wife; The light between couples is too dim, which easily leads to confusion and mutual suspicion between husband and wife; The wires outside the husband and wife's room are messy, which easily leads to subtle relationship between husband and wife and cranky thoughts; When the husband and wife's door faces the bathroom, abnormal diseases may occur, leading to bad relationship between husband and wife, emotional disharmony, and so on. Under these circumstances, we should try to change. Sometimes living in one room feels that marriage is not smooth, so it may be better to change rooms.
Fifth, check the date of birth of both husband and wife to see if there is any conflict.
Is to see if there is conflict and punishment in the marital palace of husband and wife. For example, in the male horoscope, the Japanese branch is Hai, and in the female horoscope, the Japanese branch is Si, which is called the marriage palace. Men are ugly every day, and women are ugly every day. It's called marriage castration. Generally speaking, there is no external reason for the marriage palace to punish each other. That is, both husband and wife are irrational, unable to handle their feelings correctly, and even nervous about family chores. This problem is easy to solve. As long as both husband and wife are aware of this problem, self-avoidance can effectively improve the relationship between husband and wife. If both husband and wife are punished by other life support, such as monthly support and hourly support, it will lead to discord between husband and wife and even divorce due to other external factors. This situation can be solved by solving the five elements of the zodiac. But people who don't understand the five elements of numerology don't know how to do it, so they need to ask feng shui experts for guidance.
Both husband and wife should understand the marital problems they faced in those years in order to attract attention, and don't do anything to ignite or add contradictions. The tension caused by this situation is at most a time war, and generally it will be all right after that year or stage.
As for the contradiction between husband and wife caused by numerology factors, it is generally solved in the following ways:
1, go to a place that suits your five elements. This is called the Azimuth Feng Shui Dafa. If the five elements belong to wood, they will develop in the east; The five elements belong to fire and go to the south to develop; The five elements of life divination belong to the soil and go to the southwest or central part for development; The five elements belong to gold and go to the west for development; The five elements belong to the water and go to the north to develop.
2. Living and living in an environment suitable for one's own five elements is called home feng shui solution.
3. Arranging the geomantic array of Wang Ming's hexagrams is called the material solution of geomantic array.
4. Combining the personalities of both men and women, this is the popular Feng Shui Dafa.
5. Keep a good attitude and use your own ideas to resolve the contradiction between husband and wife. This is called psychological Feng Shui Dafa.
6. Wear ornaments to enhance or dissolve the energy of both parties, so as to avoid conflicts.
Sixth, choose a good wedding date to avoid unnecessary harm to the relationship between husband and wife.
1, it is more appropriate to choose leap month year. China people pay attention to the choice of wedding date, but not to leap year. Choose a wedding day, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there is no "Runyue Year", there is no need to force it.
2. Avoid the March, July and September of the lunar calendar. It is best to avoid the March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months meet the traditional "ghost festival" and are not suitable for joint happy events.
3. Avoid the evil day of San Niang and the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. It is said that Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for San Niang, so she can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang opposed Yuelao and ruined the couple's wedding, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of every month are not suitable for marriage. In daily life, people have taboo customs, that is, saying auspicious words instead of unlucky words, and there is also a saying that "being angry is not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen". No one needs the 13th lunar month to get married.
4. One principle of choosing the date should be based on the date of birth of the woman, and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries." It can be seen that the woman's choice of date is very important. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to marriage problems, which should not be underestimated.
5. Be sure to avoid parents' birthdays. In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. Otherwise, it's still bad for couples.
6. Registration date and wedding ceremony If you decide to separate the registration (the date when you apply for a marriage certificate at the marriage registration office) from the date of the wedding ceremony, it is best to do it on both days. If you have to choose, choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding ceremony and banquet. Because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day. In addition, many people put the wedding date and holidays together, which is also a good way to add joy to happiness. In short, the relationship between husband and wife can be effectively improved through the change of feng shui environment and the dissolution of the eight characters and five elements. Keke's wife is not terrible, as long as it is solved properly!