Li Lianglei's words undoubtedly ignited the pain in many people's hearts about the treatment of housewives after divorce, and also broke the impression of Wang Leehom's previous favorite in the entertainment circle, which undoubtedly cast a ray on the silent entertainment circle.
Later, as the divorce storm in Wang Leehom intensified, the commercial value of Wang Leehom gradually collapsed, and major brands canceled their contracts one after another. The loss of endorsement contract alone is as high as 50 million, not including the claim of the brand.
Why did this man, who used to have many jobs and was praised as a genius in music, step by step collapse? Did marriage ruin him, or did he ruin his own marriage?
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Speaking of how Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei met, Li Lianglei mentioned in Weibo:
"At that time, I was a minor, and when you were 26 years old, you called me and said I was beautiful and ambiguous. It took more than an hour to make a phone call and chat with me ... "
Li Lianglei wrote in detail that when Wang Leehom asked him out, he was operated by one person and many lines. On the surface, he is gentle and considerate to you, but in fact he just wants to find a harbor to talk to.
Later, although the two had a relationship, they did not communicate. At that time, Li Lianglei was in love, thinking that Wang Leehom might be hurt, she recognized it thoughtfully, and then volunteered to be Wang Leehom's translator for a long time.
This process was later dug up by netizens. In 2003, Taiwan Province media reported that Wang Leehom was accompanying a girl to see gynecology in Taipei. The girl who was photographed was obviously Li Lianglei, then 17 years old.
Later, Li Lianglei also found that although Wang Leehom was very kind to her, the two seemed to be madly in love, but Wang Leehom had many "Xie Yuhua" like her.
Take different girls home; Drinking with "friends" and taking photos such as licking lips and milk stickers; I even admitted to Li Lianglei that I was a prostitute, and these were all premarital behaviors.
Wang Leehom's chaotic private life before marriage was unacceptable to Li Lianglei, so she broke up. So Wang Leehom called for staying for a few weeks, promising that Li Lianglei would be the "only one" for her future.
At that time, Wang Leehom made a high-profile gesture of love, and he would take Li Lianglei with him wherever he went. 12, Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei appear in the Shanghai Hotel. Later, at the concert in the Bird's Nest in May, Li Lianglei also attended. At that time, Li Lianglei was in new york, and Wang Leehom made several trips to new york. Before he left, he left a sentence in Weibo:
"I'm not finished yet. I will miss Central Park today. "
13 years, when their wedding day approached, Wang Leehom announced his love relationship with Li Lianglei in Weibo, which was regarded as a formal recognition of Li Lianglei's "official palace" status.
In fact, Li Lianglei was pregnant at that time.
In June165438+1October of the same year, Wang Leehom's agent admitted that they had registered their marriage in the United States. Later, their wedding was announced. In the video, Wang Leehom still looks affectionate, and even shed tears when taking the oath, which looks very loving.
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At that time, no one praised Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei as a golden couple, not to mention that there were many female fans in Wang Leehom at that time, and many girlfriends and cp fans said that they were lovelorn. Unfortunately, there is an unknown story behind this "touching" marriage.
Wang Leehom is not "quiet" after marriage. Li Lianglei said that the "friends" who drank and reveled with Wang Leehom in the middle of the night actually did not sever contact with him, and later received a series of nude photos of "friends" to celebrate his birthday;
When Li Lianglei was pregnant, a dancer "friend" sent a message to Wang Leehom crying that they were together, and even an ordinary female friend found Li Lianglei crying for an hour, saying that she was with Wang Leehom.
Even a "friend" who is married and has children seduced Wang Leehom, asking Wang Leehom to lie with her husband to hide their proper relationship. Li Lianglei doesn't feel well and doesn't want to invite her to his house. Wang Leehom even said angrily, don't have a party at home.
Even Li Lianglei found that Wang Leehom recorded the characteristics of prostitutes and found that many of them were like the staff around him;
Wang Leehom's behavior embarrassed and insulted Li Lianglei.
However, married women can easily accept their fate, especially Li Lianglei, who has been having children since marriage, because Wang Leehom said that she likes children and is constantly in a state of pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth, so she has no time to enrich herself and can only be used as a production tool.
Li Lianglei's words: Many housewives around me don't have their own savings or income in their accounts, so they will feel embarrassed to use the money earned by their husbands, and they will look at their husbands' faces when they use it ... This is a heartfelt speech.
Even spending money depends on the husband's face. It is a through-train behavior for a woman who has been imprisoned for many years to tolerate and forgive her husband's infidelity.
So Li Lianglei did the opposite of falling in love at that time. She began to stop asking her husband to be "unique" to her, hoping to rely on her own tolerance, accompany him, and not expect to change him, so that Wang Leehom would come back if she wanted them, and never quarrel again.
Li Lianglei compromised in this way, thinking that this is the free life that Wang Leehom wants, and this kind of life will continue.
Until Wang Leehom filed for divorce. Because he has another important person, he doesn't want them to be together. The man's name is Xiao San.
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According to Wang Leehom's father, the divorce between Li Lianglei and Wang Leehom dragged on for two years, so 18 is actually a crucial turning point in the relationship between Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei.
Wang Leehom participated in Lu Yu's talk show this year. Because Li Lianglei gave up his doctorate to marry him, Lu Yu asked a question: What are you getting married for, for love or because you should get married when you are old?
Wang Leehom thought for a moment and replied, I told my parents when I was very young that I would get married early, because I love my children so much that I want to be a father. I didn't expect twenty years to pass like this. One of them didn't mention Li Lianglei.
So Lu Yu asked again, haven't you met anyone who made you want to settle down in these twenty years? Wang Leehom replied: I didn't meet the right person, which means I didn't reach the right state.
When asked by Lu Yu what you think is wrong with you, Wang Leehom took a glass and drank a mouthful of water in disguise, and then said that he was always absent-minded. When Li Lianglei talks to him, he often doesn't even hear him face to face, and he is often told by his wife that he is perfunctory.
Wang Leehom described his daydream as thinking about lyrics. Lu Yu said I could accept it. As long as I don't miss others, Wang Leehom immediately said, No, I'm not a playboy. Playboy is immature.
Speaking of the importance of love in his heart, Wang Leehom picked up water and began to talk about his parents. In fact, he has been married for several years, but when it comes to love, his first reaction is that his parents have walked hand in hand for 70 years, and he never mentioned himself and Li Lianglei.
Later, when it comes to the craziest thing in love, when it comes to having a baby, Wang Leehom's first reaction when she saw the baby in the delivery room was that she was too tired. I am really tired. At that time, Li Lianglei lay on the side and said wearily, "You didn't give birth to the child."
Then there was a classic answer. When Lu Yu said that Li Lianglei was backstage, she told her that her recovery was not good. After giving birth to the second child, she felt that her internal organs were in the wrong position. Wang Leehom's expression did not show pity for his wife, but immediately retorted:
"I can't understand this, but neither can she as a father."
In fact, we can see from here that you didn't mention your wife because you got married for love; Talk about whether there is love without mentioning the wife; I have no experience of complaining about my wife's pain; At the moment, there is no love in marriage.
This is why Li Lianglei later said in an article: "You said you loved me then, and now you say you love your children."
Women know everything, they just play dumb. If Wang Leehom hadn't insisted on ending the marriage, she would have pretended for life.
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It is worth noting that the dancer mentioned in Li Lianglei's essay used "he", and then he said, "I hope you can be honest with yourself, don't care about secular vision, and be with the right person."
On April 1 April Fool's Day this year, Wang Leehom, who had not appeared for a long time, deleted a Weibo from the Weibo. There are only two words: love you, followed by a heart with a girl in national costume painted on it.
Although after the divorce war between Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei, everyone was tired of their incident, Wang Leehom suddenly sent photos of others, which surprised many people who ate melons.
Besides, this girl looks like the person who once had an affair with Wang Leehom. Combined with the clues in Li Lianglei's previous articles, this is doubtful.
In fact, Wang Leehom also vaguely likes men. 200 1, there is a hint in Wu Zongxian's Variety Flag. In the program, the guest once said that this person has thick eyebrows, looks super handsome, has studied abroad, and has endorsed many advertisements, all of which are consistent with Wang Leehom.
Later, Wang Leehom and Di Yun collaborated on a song in the Spring Festival Evening, which had a great influence. At that time, "Di Hong cp" was not a blind crack. I don't know if two people did it on purpose. That year, they often performed on the same stage, and Di Yun was a guest in Wang Leehom's concert twice.
At that time, there was a movie "Love in Camouflage" written, directed and acted by Wang Leehom. Coincidentally, Wang Leehom is a pop idol, and the female host is a folk music student who plays the guzheng. Also: you are my bosom friend; I want to play the piano for you.
Di Yun doesn't like pop music, but he is willing to accompany Wang Leehom on stage. Wang Leehom changed the lyrics on the stage, saying that I still love you by fate, and sang "I am chasing you in the clouds".
Also in 13, Wang Leehom wanted to marry Li Lianglei because she was pregnant, so she first clarified on Weibo that she and Di Yun were straight men, and then Di Yun also said that he and Wang Leehom were buddies and could never be together again, ending this "love" in the noisy dust.
Later, it was because Liu Qian said on the stage that Di Yun was looking for Wang Leehom, and that Wang Leehom slapped rashomon event in the background. But since then, the two have completely turned a blind eye.
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In February this year, the divorce lawsuit between Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei in the United States was finally settled. Although divorced, the issue of children is still controversial. According to the news, the two spoke in court for a total of seven hours and no consensus was reached.
Divorce between two people is a big drag, a long front, and it's not over yet.
However, Wang Leehom announced on the Internet that he would quit the entertainment circle for five years and agreed on a deadline, so he never gave up the act of wooing fans.
In March, Vietnamese fans in Wang Leehom will celebrate the 6th anniversary of/kloc-0. Presumably, after what happened to my favorite brother, the rest of the fans should be true fans, so this birthday celebration officially said: No matter how stormy the road ahead is, we will accompany you!
Later, in order to thank the fans for their continuous follow-up, Wang Leehom specially recorded an audio. I personally sent my best wishes to the fans, sang the English version of the birthday song, and finally shouted:
"Come on, let's spend it together and love you."
When fans heard their idols give face like this, they all said in Weibo that they would cry when they heard the voice of their second brother. Very touched; Miss him so much; Wang Leehom has never forgotten everyone. It is very warm.
For Wang Leehom, it is imperative to have fans to follow him and fight for custody by himself. In order to better exercise the right of visiting, Wang Leehom specially rented a bigger house, specially designed rooms for children, and turned them into recreation rooms, game halls and so on.
I didn't stop working as scheduled. Some people even reported that Wang Leehom had a haircut, shaved his beard and made an advertisement in a printed suit. In the video, Wang Leehom is very happy.
In the face of Wang Leehom's test of water, the following comments not only shouted that he was Neptune, but also many expressed their willingness to give Wang Leehom a chance to turn over a new leaf, and said: We have the right to dislike him, and he also has the right to work hard.
Although this video was later rumored to have been shot before the divorce, it was not released because of an accident. However, after constantly testing the water, we can also see that netizens are tolerant and generous to Wang Leehom. Maybe five years later, Wang Leehom's comeback is not a dream.
Conclusion:
Wang Leehom's label in an interview is: I have no one to set it up.
However, the car overturned and people's assumptions were thorough.
Throughout the entertainment circle, men's infidelity is always easier to be forgiven, while women who serve their families wholeheartedly are not respected and understood.
As Li Lianglei said in his article: I hope my sharing can bring you some thoughts that you are deeply involved in or about to enter this journey.