The man should prepare some gifts in advance. In the north, cigarettes, wine, sugar and tea are generally four-color gifts (in some places, clothing may replace cigarettes). If it is a blind date in different places, you can bring some special products. ?
3. It may be necessary to finalize the wedding date on the day of blind date (this is the main purpose of blind date in some places), and only the elders of both sides will decide after consulting the opinions of both sides. In addition, we can also determine the specific number of women attending the wedding and the specific requirements for the wedding, which can be agreed according to local customs. ?
4. The amount of bride price given by the man to the woman depends on local customs and personal tolerance. ?
First, propose marriage.
When both men and women talk about marriage, the parents of the man must ask the matchmaker to propose marriage to the parents of the woman. If allowed, ask the other person about the zodiac signs of China. If the zodiac thinks you can't get married.
Second, matters needing attention
1. Pay attention to the appearance of clothes: clothes must be decent and tidy.
Go to the woman's house to propose, don't forget to bring some small gifts! This is a courtesy and a respect for the elders. Although they will say you're welcome, they will be very happy.
3. Smile: Never frown, but show your sincerity and smile. This will add a lot to the score!
4. Show respect: show respect to the woman's request or opinion as much as possible, and handle it according to its regulations, otherwise the atmosphere at the scene will be too stiff if there is disagreement.
5. Be punctual for appointments: Never be late. If it's really because of traffic jam or other force majeure factors, be sure to call to inform you that you will arrive a little late.
6. The woman's clothing appearance: dress neatly and neatly, leaving a good impression.
7. Clean the environment: the home environment should be cleaned in advance and cleaned up.
8. Good attitude: Your daughter will marry the man's family in the future. Don't be too hard on this man. The two sides should establish good relations.
9. In addition, if the man's parents are not eloquent and don't know much about customs, find a middle coordinator to propose marriage. This person may not be a matchmaker! A matchmaker, or an elder friend he knows, depends on his parents' personality and needs. On the day of marriage proposal, the woman usually tells the man the requirements and customs on the day of engagement. After some discussion, it is a good idea to find someone to be the middle coordinator. The scene will be more lively and easier to communicate.