First of all, congratulations. I personally think that the most accurate and understandable answer to fate is the version you provided. It just so happens that I am also Yansu Lujiangge. You are a sincere and kind-hearted person, and the phrase "the original intention remains unchanged" can be applied to you, although 90% of people do not have this character. Generally speaking, you have paid a lot in your life and gained little. The first half of your life is wandering, and the second half of your life is a little more stable. You are a late bloomer with great ambitions. No matter where you are or what your position is in life, there will always be sweetness and bitterness, and it will never be too smooth. First marriages are often tragedies, but they have good consequences in the end. Loving your relatives and friends may not be what you want, but in the end your relatives will be unreliable and may even turn against you. Generally speaking, you should stick to your heart's wishes, do more good deeds, and accumulate more blessings. Communicate more.