I read every word you wrote carefully. Let me tell you a little bit about myself. Women may not know much about men, but when men look at them, they usually know exactly what they stick their butts out and what they poop. From your description, one thing can be confirmed, he doesn’t like you as much as you think, or your boyfriend is too incompetent and unreasonable (if this is true, I don’t think he will sit on the car) Director position, so I prefer the former point). If a person really loves you, you will definitely feel it very, very truly! If he loves you, he will love your parents and family very much and take great care of their feelings! Because I have loved and been loved. And you have described so many things. From some things, all I can see is that your boyfriend seems to despise or look down on your family, and he does it deliberately. This is not something a person who truly loves you can do. It was like this before marriage, but what about after marriage? It can be seen that you love him very much and don't want to let him go. That's because his achievements are due to your hard work. First of all, find out whether you can't let go of him, or if you can't let go of the relationship you've spent so long on? Is he really the person you spend your life with? There is a saying that goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than ruin one marriage.
But what I want to say here is to be fair and not to blindly match up! Please think twice before you act! I wish you happiness!