Destiny is so mysterious that some people believe it and others sneer at it. Successful people will say that "fate is in their own hands", but people who encounter setbacks often understand the power of fate better. So some people say that they should believe in fate, some people do not believe in fate but believe in themselves, some people accept fate and some do not. Everyone has their own opinions, but often with the changes of age and circumstances, the understanding of the word destiny will gradually change.
So how should we view fate? Let’s discuss it with Teacher Yang Qinghua.
How to understand this sentence? We know that our old ancestors have been exploring the relationship between man and nature. Whether it is Feng Shui, birth horoscopes, facial appearance, crape myrtle and other methods, they are all studying and calculating the development trajectory or development rules of human beings. Thousands of years of cultural accumulation have summarized a relatively complete set of prediction methods of destiny, which we often call "magic numbers". So we can use these methods to calculate people's development trajectory, that is, "destiny."
Is fate fixed? If we don't make any interference in the journey of life and let it develop naturally, then the wealth, poverty, nobleness, ups and downs of this person's life will be completely based on the trajectory of his destiny. Confucius said: He who does not know destiny cannot be called a gentleman. We should understand the development trajectory of our own destiny. Only by truly believing can we understand and grasp the trajectory of our own destiny and development, and know when to have twists and turns, when to be bumpy, when to go smoothly, when to speed up, and when to slow down. When to keep a low profile and when to go all out, this is what we call going with the flow.
After we understand the development trajectory of destiny, we will find that people always have ups and downs, and it is inevitable that there will be disasters and ups and downs. So what should we do? Accept your fate? What if our destiny reaches a certain stage and we make conscious changes? Will it be effective? The answer is - probably.
Give two simple examples. First, when some friends go to fortune telling, they will meet some people in the world who will say: When will you get divorced, or how many marriages are you destined to have, etc. Some people will accept their fate and divorce or remarry, but in reality? The vast majority of so-called "divorces" are actually just marital crises. As long as you can predict them in advance, take measures, change yourself or change the environment to deal with it, you can basically get through it. Of course, the premise is that you can't wait until things get too bad to handle. solve. Secondly, a friend once consulted me and asked if he could invest in a logistics base. I told him that the past few years had been unfavorable and he would definitely lose money. As a result, he failed to resist the temptation of his friend and still invested. As a result, he suffered a huge loss. Very big. And if he believes in his destiny, does not engage in unnecessary "struggle", and instead uses the money to purchase real estate or a house, after this low period, when his wealth increases, he will actually gain something. Fate.
In addition to the above examples, changing yourself can also change your destiny. Each of us has our own temperament and aura. However, some friends do have defects in these aspects that hinder success or affect happiness. If Being able to understand and face it, and having the courage to improve or change yourself, or improve yourself through the power of faith, the power of Feng Shui environment, or the power of learning knowledge, can often change unfavorable situations. This is quite difficult. It is said that a country is easy to change but its nature is hard to change. This is what it means. Only by making up your mind and finding the right direction and using the right method can you achieve results.
Destiny is not only the study of predicting the future development trend of life, but more importantly, based on the prediction results, through the calculation of yin and yang and the five elements, properly utilizing the power of restraint of the five elements, from the perspective of numerology and direction. In terms of business, career, interpersonal relationships, etc., choose the direction and path that is most beneficial to you, and take targeted measures to change or improve, either to add to the cake, or to return from the lost path, or to accumulate more experience, or to choose the good. And so on, that is to refuse to accept fate on the basis of believing in and knowing fate, and actively changing fate. This is the true meaning of "fate is in one's own hands"!