1, ancient
Two sugars, two cigarettes, two bottles of wine, two sugars, two bags of tea, two red dates, two fish, and money and jewels.
2. Modern
Two cigarettes, two bottles of white wine, two cans of tea, two boxes of candy, two boxes of wedding cakes, two noodles, two crucian carp and two pork.
The rules of a man's first visit
1. Pay attention to the time of the first visit. Generally speaking, China pays attention to doing important things in the morning. Therefore, it is best for the parents of the man to visit the woman's house in the agreed morning to show their respect and attention to the woman, that is, the parents. Remember, you can't visit at night.
2. The man's parents should pay attention to "don't complain about others" as a gift, which is what China has always paid attention to. Moreover, when the parents go to the woman's house for the first time, some necessary etiquette still needs to be done. Bringing more gifts can show that you value and love the woman, and her parents will like it when they see it. Otherwise it will leave a bad impression on the woman's parents.
3. Whether the man and his parents pay attention to clothes and whether they are carefully prepared can also be seen whether they pay enough attention to the woman. Generally speaking, when you meet your in-laws for the first time, the man and parents definitely need to dress up. Although they don't need to be particularly grand, they should at least be clean and tidy.
4. Pay attention to the dialogue. Although it's the first time we meet, try to keep a relaxed attitude, pay attention to basic polite expressions and sincere attitude, and don't be arrogant or arrogant, which will leave a bad impression on future in-laws.
5, it is best not to stay at the first meeting. Even if it's a long way, it's best for the man and parents not to stay at the woman's house, but to accept it when it's ready. And there are many families who are afraid of others staying.