At birth, we can't express our thoughts to others, but we can only express our needs by crying. At that time, we had no right to resist, no room for appeal, and grew up with some unspeakable secrets.
When we go to school, we accept knowledge and deal with people, as if we had entered a small society. We have happiness, sadness and happiness, but we still have troubles, teachers' inexplicable grievances, inevitable contradictions between classmates, pressure of study and parents' nagging. We have the right to express ourselves, but we don't know how to deal with it freely. This is also a secret.
When we really step into society, fairness is less and less emphasized. We try our best to get what we want, but in reality, surprises and fears often coexist. Our ups and downs, uncertain life, parents, workplace, marriage and family, the ensuing problems, can not get what they want, jealousy, hatred, helplessness. We have the right to express ourselves and know how to tear things that bother us.
As time goes on, we get old and begin to assume another identity. In order not to worry about our children, but also for their future, we once again bear unspeakable secrets. Only at this time, when we are fully prepared, we begin to become calm and stop pursuing those things. We have seen too much in this world. If we were children, we might have the same experience. The world is not completely fair. Many times, no one can predict which comes first, accident or happiness. Burying those so-called hidden secrets in our hearts has gradually become our inner fortress. Again, not to let us learn to be tactful, but to let us know that we can't live in that utopia forever according to our own ideas, learn to accept those unfairness and firmly believe in our own strength and confidence.
Let us rest assured. What we can do is to turn the frivolous in our youth into the biggest benefit now.