Pain began in the early hours of the morning. I have a stomachache all day, but I can't give birth. I can't eat or drink water all day. Doctors and nurses go to the delivery room after work at 5 pm. At the beginning, the house we lived in was less than 10 minutes away from the hospital. My parents saw me enter the delivery room and hurried home to make me something to eat, while my wife was still on her way from Jiujiang to Wuhan to Kaifeng. Soon after I entered the delivery room, I gave birth to 1 7 kg baby boy. The nurse held the baby to my side, and I only took a vague look when I was exhausted. The crying baby was so loud that it was carried to the nursery by the nurse.
17, the nurse came to nurse the baby with her arms. This is the second time I have seen the baby. I clearly remember that the child had erythema on his face, his eyes closed, his limp head tilted, he couldn't wake up by gently pulling his ears, and he didn't even feed his mouth. This memory is very clear, because the couple, who were new parents at that time, were very anxious, and the nurse next to us reminded us to pull our ears. Finally, we took them back to the nursery without feeding the nurse. Guo Wei was born with 3,500 grams, and Yao Ce was born with only 3,200 grams. When we left the hospital, the nurse wrapped the clothes we prepared for my wife, and my husband and I left the hospital with the child with red spots on their faces. We especially trusted that well-known hospital in Henan Province, but I didn't expect that in 10, the baby I gave birth to after a whole day of pregnancy pain was changed.
Yao Ce, who was wrongly held, is the only daughter in our family. We are both the youngest in our respective families, so Yao Ce has been taken care of by the stars and the moon, and food, clothing, housing and transportation are the best in the family.
At the age of two and a half, Yao Ce will attend the best municipal kindergarten in Jiujiang. When he entered the park for a physical examination, he was found to have hepatitis B virus. The whole family was scared at that time. I don't know where the virus came from. Our husband and wife are in good health, and there is no history of hepatitis B at home. My mother blames me for not taking good care of my baby and suspects that I was infected when I went to immunization. I blamed myself, specially took a one-year long vacation to take care of Yao Ce wholeheartedly, and later invited relatives of my lover's hometown to take care of Yao Ce at home.
Since Yao Ce was diagnosed with hepatitis B, everyone in the family has suffered greatly. My wife and parents went to Beijing, Shanghai, Nanchang, Henan and other places to find the best experts for Yao Ce's treatment. During this period, when my husband and wife's salary was only a few hundred yuan, I bought Yao Ce several thousand yuan of medicine for treatment. In order to protect Yao Ce and make him grow up happily, we hide the pain in the deepest place. Don't let anyone know that the child has hepatitis B, take good care of it and take care of it in detail. Afraid of cold in winter, heat in summer, dryness in autumn and wind in spring. Yao Ce has not been hospitalized for more than 20 years, and the whole family has taken good care of him. The whole family has been highly nervous about Yao Ce's physical and mental health, doting on him and obeying all his demands and ideas. In addition to our husband and wife's income, my father's salary was also given to me. I'm afraid I wronged Yao Ce and let him grow up happily and healthily. Everyone in my family is willing to give everything.
We take good care of his life, carefully cultivate and study, send him to the best primary school and junior high school in Jiujiang, send him to the key class of Jiujiang No.1 Middle School at a high price, and send him to summer camps such as Tsinghua Peking University in winter and summer vacations. He was brought up to like reading from an early age. The two bookcases on one wall of the house are used by him to buy all kinds of books. His grandfather, who loves him most, gives him whatever he wants. He may be the first person among his classmates to use a tablet and an Apple phone.
For more than 20 years, we have exhausted money and hard work, and turned Yao Ce's hepatitis B virus from a big three-yang into a small three-yang hepatitis B carrier. Like normal children, he studies, works, gets married and gives birth to a healthy baby.
After graduating from Yaoce University, I worked in the Medical Insurance Bureau, and my work was stable and relaxed. After working for a period of time, Yao Ce chose to start his own business, but it was not smooth. Yao Ce lost money, and Yao Ce's wife stopped working after she got pregnant. The living expenses of a family of three still depend on us, and I help him pay back his credit card every month.
Yao Ce needs a wedding room to get married. We use all the money and loans to buy a new house. And reluctantly sell the school district house at a low price, find the best decoration company with all the income from selling the house, and go to various home improvement markets in the city to buy decoration materials, furniture and various home improvement supplies. I also contacted the wedding company and found the best hotel in the city according to Yao Ce's requirements, so that Yao Ce successfully held a grand and luxurious wedding.
I accompanied Yao Ce's lover from pregnancy test to delivery, and the husband and wife took good care of our daughter-in-law. We take care of the baby's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and take care of our grandchildren all day on weekends. Although I feel very hard, I think that in order to reduce the burden of Yao Ce, the husband and wife are willing to pay, with no regrets. On the evening of February 15, 2020, after 12, I received a phone call from Yao Ce's lover, saying that Yao Ce had a backache and couldn't sleep, and it was useless to take medicine. I asked Yao to ride up for the exam. On February 17, Yao Ce called me and said it was the advanced stage of liver cancer. I didn't believe it at all. I'll take him to Jiangxi Provincial People's Hospital for examination immediately. Experts say that his condition is very serious. If he is not treated, he may only have three months. At that time, I made up my mind to cut my liver to save my son and trade my life for his.
Unexpectedly, fate played a joke on me again. In mid-March, when we rushed to Shanghai Hospital to prepare for liver transplantation, doctors and experts asked Yao Ce to do a comprehensive examination first, especially reminding us to check the blood type. The next day, the results showed that Yao Ce's blood type was AB, and my husband and wife didn't believe it. We are all type A blood. Finally, the results of DNA identification showed that I was not the biological mother of Yao Ce. At that time, my husband and I felt that the sky was falling.
To save Yao Ce from serious illness as soon as possible, we can only find his biological parents. My wife took my child's birth certificate at that time and went to Kaifeng Huaihe Hospital to find medical records to find Yao Ce's biological parents to see if there was any hope of preparing a parent-child liver source. At that time, I was taking care of Yao Ce in Jiangxi, keeping everything from him and not wanting him to know. I bear great grief when I think of the inexplicable disappearance of the baby born in October. I quickly contacted CCTV's "Wait for Me" column and made up my mind to find my own flesh and blood living abroad.
My 90-year-old father died in September, 2065438+2009, which is my greatest motivation to survive. My father is highly respected. Before his death, he was in excellent health. There are many army chiefs of staff among his comrades. He also often attends the annual party of the military academy. His father, Ye Luo, is bent on cultivating his only grandson by Jiujiang. He loved Yao Ce for twenty-seven years, retired with Yao Ce in one hand and bought medicine, nutrition and clothes for Yao Ce in the other. Sponsor him to go to school for further study and train him wholeheartedly. My father died suddenly last year, and he never saw the real grandson he hoped to cultivate.
I feel extremely depressed. I can't save Yao Ce from the illness. I wanted to conceive in October, gave birth to my only son in my life, and was forced to separate my flesh and blood. I am helpless and desperate. My eyes are swollen every day and my eyesight is poor. During that time, I often spoke to my father's portrait and felt that I really couldn't live. I don't know who to tell. My wife is worse than me, and she can't show sadness in front of Yao Ce, so she can only suffer alone. At that time, the husband and wife had a little distrust of the world and decided to find the truth.
With the help of the public security department, the national big data DNA comparison of public security and criminal investigation found Guo Village, lankao county City, Henan Province. The local villagers said that Guo and his wife didn't know where they had gone, and the ages of Guo Xikuan and Du Xinzhi's sons didn't correspond to what we were looking for. With the help of Kaifeng police station, the hospital and we ran around and found Zhumadian. After arriving in Zhumadian, I called Mr. and Mrs. Guo Du in Henan. The dialogue is as follows: "Hello, was your child born in Huaihe Hospital? Did you find anything wrong with your child? Can we meet and talk? " But Ms. Du received a phone call and said, "I am ill, so don't come to me, come to me when I die!" " "Guo's father answered the phone and said they were not in Zhumadian. The hospital staff and their families were present on the phone, and what Guo's family said surprised those who went to see them at that time. Later, I heard from Du Xinzhi and Guo Xikuan that at first I thought it was a fraudulent phone call, because I had received similar calls. She also said that she would come to Zhumadian to find them, and she was a little scared. Her cell phone was turned off and her calling card was uninstalled.
After Guo Wei's DNA identification was my own son, I had mixed feelings and cried at home. I decided to see my own son. The next day, my wife and I took the high-speed train to Zhumadian. As soon as we got out of the train station, my wife pointed at me and told Guo Wei that this is your mother. I never want to let go when I hold my son. When I was pregnant, I bought all kinds of parenting books and gave him prenatal education. I imagine training him to be an officer like my father in the future. I have placed too many dreams and expectations on my son. I cried my eyes out. I asked him how you have been these years. Let me have a good look at you Let me touch your face. My son is very tall. Holding his neck will make him uncomfortable. I put my hand under his arm again. Dare not let go, for fear of losing my son as soon as I let go.
For 28 years, Yao Ce is the only child in our family, and we have devoted all our lives and efforts to him. Finally, I tried to cut his liver with my own life, only to find that it was not my own son. My own children have lived in another country for 28 years. Who can feel the same with me? In order to see Yao Ce, the family has spent hundreds of thousands. My husband and wife have been working for more than 30 years, and they have fallen from a well-off family to a poor family.
For the future, I dare not think that my son who was pregnant in October went to Zhumadian, Henan. My wife and I are still at work and seldom see our son. We don't know what to do in our later years. If Yao Ce hadn't been sick, both children would have been healthy and reunited with their biological parents. The wrong remittance incident has dealt a great blow to our family, and I am determined to find out the truth.
I believe that in the new year, in this society ruled by law, the relevant departments will be able to fairly and reasonably solve the world's most serious injuries that we have suffered innocently, thoroughly investigate the causes of the major medical mistakes in the hospital that year, find out the truth, and give an account to Yao Ce, who is seriously ill, and also to all the people and news media in the country who are concerned about the wrong life, so that ordinary people can live a normal life.