? Over the years, I have summed up an experience. The best way to solve difficult problems is to wait and see what happens and go with the flow.
? ——Mo Yan's "Frog"
? This passage by Mo Yan is very classic, with only 34 words, but it has made many people know the best way to solve difficult problems.
01? Waiting and watching for changes will help us avoid detours
? Today’s society is too impetuous, fast-moving consumer goods have become the mainstream of the market, the pace of life is accelerating, and everyone is burdened with huge challenges. Pressure rushes forward. We are constantly pursuing speed and high efficiency, but we don't know that when we move forward in a hurry, we take many detours.
? The person who rushes to the front always gets a bloody head and becomes a sacrifice. And the people hiding at the back are submissive and look down upon. When we want to do something, we must do it rationally. We cannot rush for success, otherwise it is easy to make mistakes.
It is a kind of wisdom to wait and see. When facing things, we must first observe quietly and then think about solutions. It is not advisable to do things blindly. Thinking first and then acting is the most effective way to find the best solution.
? The most important thing in leading troops to fight is methods and strategies. A general who knows how to fight will never let all the soldiers rush forward. Instead, he will quietly watch the changes on the battlefield and wait for opportunities to move. They are calm and calm, and remain unchanged in response to all changes. This is great wisdom and the highest state.
? Two brothers who were also going to cut firewood, one picked up an ax and went up the mountain. They worked hard for a day, but the result was not satisfactory. The other one looked at his ax quietly first, then sharpened it before going to chop wood. The result is self-evident. This is also true of Mo Yan's idea of ??just waiting and watching for changes. When the knife is sharpened, it is also a matter of following the current.
02? Everything has its own destiny, let everything take its course
? As spring goes and autumn comes, day and night change, everything in the world has its own development rules and its own rules to follow. There are flowers in spring, cool breeze in summer, fruits in autumn, and white snow in winter. They all run and develop according to their own life trajectories.
? There are some things that some people can’t force, and we have to believe that they won’t be filled if they force themselves to do so. What is yours can never run away, and what is not yours can never be kept. The best state is to be content and let nature take its course.
? A person has to face many things in his life, and there are many things that can be encountered but not sought. Therefore, as long as we do our best, we will have a clear conscience. There is no need to force things, and everything should go naturally.
? I believe that there will always be a way to end things when they come. There is no need for us to worry unfoundedly, and there is no need to make ourselves miserable. Be calm and let things develop on their own. So it’s better to follow Mo Yan’s eight-character mantra, wait and see what happens, and go with the flow! God’s way is right, not to survive for Yao, not to perish for Jie
? Destiny is always the same, everything flows, and everything goes according to its course. It develops naturally. God has his own arrangements for what we should gain and what we should lose. All we have to do is not to be happy with things and not sad with ourselves. We can just look at everything with an open mind.
? Life is still very long, we will always encounter happy or sad things, and life will always give us countless surprises and scares. Keep a normal heart and don't be overjoyed by gains and don't be sad by losses.
? Gains are calm, losses are natural, we are grateful when we get them, we don’t cry or make trouble when we lose them, everything goes as it comes, everything is beautiful. I am lucky if I get it, and I live my life if I lose it. I will live peacefully without fighting or grabbing.
? Waiting to see what happens teaches us how to solve things, and letting things take their own course teaches me to look down on gains and losses, honors and disgrace. If we can learn Mo Yan's eight-character mantra, then we can solve all thorny problems and live a simple and happy life.