Nowadays, human society has entered an era of rapid development of science and technology, but many people still believe in certain horoscopes, gods of purpose, and gods of joy, which is really puzzling.
In fact, there is no direct and inevitable connection between "Bazi" and future (destiny). Destiny was originally explained as the predetermined course of things (referring to life and death, wealth and poverty, and all encounters). The controversy over the theory of destiny has been "protracted" in the past. There was a time when it was commonly believed that everything was predestined by God. At that time, fortune telling (astrology) was considered a science. However, as the times progress, the theory of destiny is losing its original importance. Nowadays, most people agree that "horoscopes" are a superstition. This is indeed the case, because science and technology are developing rapidly, and we have reached an era where we can reach the moon, travel in space, and clone stem cells. There is no evidence at all that there is an inevitable connection between destiny and zodiac signs (accidental coincidences may occur). Now, personal destiny should have its new concept, including everything such as career, marriage and family.
You should control your own destiny. I think:
The success of your career = the ability (skills) to make a living and serve the people + personal will (spirit of fighting and enterprising) + opportunities + good health
The success of marriage Whether or not = both men and women continue to work together + tolerate, respect and respect each other + after marriage, both partners will shoulder family responsibilities and social responsibilities, and have a permanent understanding and loyalty.
You can ask yourself: How capable am I now?