In terms of love, you are a person who emphasizes equality and respect, and is considerate and funny. Therefore, when you usually get along with the opposite sex, you should communicate more, try to integrate the ideas of both parties, gather mutual understanding, and be moderate. Let the other person know that you care, and you should be careful when joking, so that you can effectively spread your charm.
From the perspective of the horoscope, the key palace is "Hai", which is the innate husband and wife palace. Wu Qu and Po Jun sit in this palace. In terms of personality, they will be practical and cheerful. , the chemical science triad is shining, which means that the attitude towards learning will also be strengthened, and the bell star will enter this house again, which will promote the advantages of divergence. Furthermore, Lucun, Tianma and other stars interact with each other to form "Lu Ma" "Jiaochi" pattern has the influence of "lively and rational, appropriate movement and quietness".
These stars and patterns are showing your innate love advantages:
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Principled qualities, the ability to be emotionally strict You have to ask yourself to solve difficulties step by step. Relationships often come from hard work and require a long time of communication and running-in. Therefore, the way of free love is more suitable than the orders of parents or the words of matchmakers.
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Although it is not easy to show a warm side with an emotional attitude that is more righteous than sentimental, you can stick to your position, self-supervise and demand, and work hard to manage and protect your feelings. Life. Sometimes when you take a break or escape, you will feel guilty and create your own pressure.
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Emotions are often expressed wholeheartedly, so once you meet someone you like, you will work hard at any cost so that the other person can clearly feel your intentions. But once changes occur, it will put a lot of burden and pressure on yourself.
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A cheerful emotional attitude is more able to escape the constraints of the environment or tradition, so it is more suitable for an unfettered emotional life. In addition to the fact that it is best for the other party to give you a looser independent space, free love is often more suitable than matchmaking. Both parties can have more time to understand each other and make up for the shortcomings of poor communication.
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The attitude towards dealing with feelings is moderate. Although I value love and have the desire to control feelings, I can also try to see it from the other person's perspective and make my own actions better. More mature. When faced with problems, a compromise solution acceptable to both parties will be found. When you meet the person you like, although you are not sure, you will still try to win their favor. When things don't go as expected, I occasionally have extreme ideas, but I don't know how to do them.
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The pace of handling relationships is slow and slow, which can effectively reduce emotional impulses. There is not too much nagging or complaining in the interaction, and it is not complicated or passionate. It’s not necessary to be allergic, so the range of emotional changes is relatively reduced, and it’s easier to maintain a quiet love life.
As for the shortcomings, you are more likely to misjudge the situation and be at a loss. You often lack confidence in unconfirmed love and are overconfident in stable relationships. If you take the initiative, you will Worried that I am not dignified enough, I want to be more stable, but I am also worried that I am not active enough.
Since your shortcomings and energy in love are much weaker than your advantages and are almost incomparable, you should be able to show your charm, and as long as you are willing to work hard and pay, you will easily see progress, so you are facing You should be optimistic and positive about love. You should not only seize opportunities, but also create opportunities, so that you can effectively use your strengths and abilities.
Although the impact of shortcomings is relatively small, you should still pay a little attention to it to avoid the gradual accumulation of knots and the gradual erosion of feelings:
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Principle If your attitude is too insistent, it will make the other party feel that you are not fake, unkind, or even cold and harsh. In addition, the expression of feelings is often lack of modification, making it even more difficult for the other party to understand your intentions, and it is easy to get along with each other. difficulties, so you can consider getting married later to avoid marital fluctuations.
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The essence of emotional perseverance is that it is often easier to deal with things than with interpersonal relationships. I am often unable to communicate effectively with the other party, which not only easily causes misunderstandings, but also causes setbacks and damage to the relationship. If I insist on going my own way, I will hurt myself at least, and hurt others at worst.
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For the feelings that you are fully devoted to, you naturally hope to be perfect, and this mentality of demanding perfection will form an emotional attitude that controls the other person. In addition to making the other person feel more In addition to great pressure, each other can easily become impulsive, causing frustrations in the relationship.
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The cheerful emotional attitude often also contains a willful element. They often disdain traditional moral standards. As long as they like it, they will do whatever they want, so they usually They are not honest and upright, and it is easy to meet unkind people or choose the wrong partner because of insufficient understanding. Therefore, if there are more twists and turns before marriage, experiences trials, and even separation and reconciliation, it will make the relationship after marriage more harmonious.
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The emotional responsibility is still not strong enough, and occasional negligence or shirk may cause changes in the emotional life. When it comes to choosing a mate, we are both afraid that the other person will be too good and also afraid that the other person will be too bad. We think carefully, but it is easy to miss opportunities. Your own opinions will still be influenced by relatives and friends or adjusted as you grow older.
If you feel that the other person is not suitable, you will not be able to tell him because you are concerned about the other person's feelings, which will not only increase your own troubles, but also delay and make things awkward.
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Communication does not require depth, does not pay much attention to etiquette, is obviously insufficient in thoughtfulness, and lacks enthusiasm. It lacks an attitude of active pursuit or performance, and may feel at a loss when facing problems. , even complains, and rarely shows the intention to break through or try, it is probably fine, and the considerations are often not thorough.
Your basic fortune this year will be the best at the end of the year (lunar calendar). Your implementation ability is ideal and you can effectively adjust yourself and exert your strength. Therefore, you should seize the end of the year (lunar calendar) period and try your best. Get yourself moving, have the courage to act and show up. The beginning of the year (lunar calendar) is the weakest time of the year, and you become a little unstable and less able to exert your strength. Therefore, at the beginning of the year (lunar calendar), you should be slightly more conservative in your attitude towards doing things. As for the mid-year (lunar calendar) period, it is not good either. The stability is slightly insufficient and the performance space is compressed, so the attitude should be a little conservative and cautious.
If we look at it by month, the best time of performance was October 2012 (10/14-11/13). I have very strong implementation ability, can exert my strength, and have the ability to control the situation. ability. If you work hard at this time, it will bring great help to other fortunes such as career, love, etc.
The time when my fortune was at its weakest was in August 2012 (8/16-9/15). I seemed to have ups and downs, was very unstable, had a great sense of frustration, and had a huge gap. If you insist on going your own way, it will cause obvious damage to other fortunes such as career, love, etc.
Teacher’s advice
Although you should be more aggressive in your daily actions, you must be aware that once a problem occurs, it will easily erode most of your good luck, so you still need to take steps step by step and watch for any signs of trouble. , you should pay attention immediately and switch to cautious defense to avoid the occurrence or expansion of damage.
In terms of approach, the approach of "balanced integration and action adjustment" should be adopted. Show that you are able to balance subjective and objective characteristics, and effectively integrate your own ideas and external information to guide correct practices or plans. When doing things, you should pay attention to agile actions. First try to seize opportunities and make some attempts, and then adjust your methods appropriately according to the action situation to seek breakthroughs, which can better improve results.
Good Luck Tips
Basic Fortune: Good luck during this period is mainly related to "leisure" and "love". As long as the stability of leisure life and love life can be maintained, it will be beneficial to the basic fortune. Therefore, you should get together with your spouse and lovers more often, and refer to their opinions, which will help you give full play to your own strengths and show your strength to reverse your fortune! If the other person seems bold and enthusiastic, and sometimes a little rebellious, that's the best! In addition, if you can have more leisure and entertainment, it will also help your basic fortune, so you should pay more attention!
Basic auspicious colors
You have a "gentle" personality in terms of basic fortune this year, able to stabilize your emotions and seek a more compromise approach to things. The attribute of this personality trait is "fire", so the basic hue (hue) should be red, and because its intensity is strong this year, the color concentration (saturation) should be thicker, and action and creativity are obviously strong Be calm and patient, so the brightness should be brighter.
Based on the above analysis, if you want to enhance your ability to change the status quo this year, the color tone should be mainly dark red