Fighting wits and courage can't resist on their own, and they often choose a compromise strategy, which is original inside and outside.
But Hu Shi is consistent.
Some people say that this is because Hu Shi is filial, while others say that this is because Jiang Dongxiu is provocative.
First, the zodiac is still engaged.
As we all know, Hu Shi's engagement with Jiang Dongxiu was arranged by his mother Feng Shundi.
As a good mother, Feng Shundi should first look at her age and constellation when looking for a daughter-in-law for her son.
From the age point of view, Jiang Dongxiu is one year older than Hu Shi, which just hit "I would rather be a ten-year-old man than a freshman woman"; From the zodiac, one is a rabbit and the other is a tiger. The zodiac is similar.
Therefore, when Gu Jiang proposed that Jiang Dongxiu was engaged to Hu Shi, Feng Shundi hesitated.
Jiang Dongxiu looks clean and straightforward, and will be an easy-going daughter-in-law and wife in the future, but her eight-character incompatibility is directly related to her son's future happiness.
In order to choose a beautiful marriage, Feng Shundi put all the roles of a group of women, including Jiang Dongxiu, into the Kitchen God bowl. If after a period of time, the family is harmonious, then just take out a person's eight characters as Hu Shi's future wife.
At first glance, it seems that the kitchen god helped Hu Shi choose his wife, but in fact it was just a lottery.
After this procedure, Jiang Dongxiu was chosen as Hu Shi's fiancee, and they completed the engagement ceremony.
At that time, Hu Shi was not satisfied with Jiang Dongxiu, but he was not completely excluded.
First of all, Jiang Dongxiu somehow went to a private school for several years and hardly recognized a few words. Although he is far from Hu Shi who went to a nine-year school and doesn't know a word, he is much better than other women.
Secondly, Hu Shi didn't have many new ideas, and he basically agreed with the arranged marriage system of his parents.
However, when Hu Shi went to Shanghai to study, everything changed.
Second, although I am not satisfied with the engagement, I have no intention of changing my mother's life.
After coming to Shanghai, Hu Shi's thought changed.
He came into contact with progressive young women, who are full of energy and vitality, and even have a common language with themselves.
While Jiang Dongxiu and himself are at home, even communication is difficult.
In contrast, Hu Shi was dissatisfied with his engagement and sighed in marriage:
"China men and women's lives, one wrong parents initial heart, two wrong matchmaking, three wrong fortune-telling, four wrong civil. By the way, 40 million people in China have combined into many grievances. "
"No wonder those young men and women want to talk about family!"
Hu Shi's article caused an uproar.
At that time, almost all literary talents were faced with the dilemma of arranged marriage, and some people were on the verge of resistance. When Hu Shi came out, there were not a few people who directly engaged in family.
Mother Feng Shundi worried that Hu Shi would start to "marry" and urged him to go home.
When his mother spoke, Hu Shi put forward another point of view, he said
"Parents are more knowledgeable than children. It is beneficial and harmless for parents to be the masters of marriage, but they should consult with their children. "
Such remarks gave Feng Shundi a reassurance.
At this time, Hu Shi, although dissatisfied with the engagement, did not want to marry a woman, but if he wanted to resist his mother, he was definitely unwilling.
3. China's commitment is irrevocable once it is made.
Studying in Shanghai, Hu Shi had the idea of free love, and studying in the United States, Hu Shi put it into practice.
William is his good friend and the enlightenment of his free love.
In the past, Hu Shi only knew the transcendence of free love, but now Hu Shi really feels the spirit.
Perhaps at a certain moment, Hu Shi once thought of breaking off the engagement and becoming a lifelong companion with Wei Liansi.
But all this, after receiving a letter from his mother Feng Shundi, he suddenly woke up.
In China, Hu Shi also has a fiancee who has been waiting for ten years-Jiang Dongxiu.
Feng Shundi knows that Hu Shi is a measured person, but after all, the customs of the United States and China are far apart. Under the baptism of new ideas and customs, she is not sure whether her son is addicted to love.
So, Feng Shundi traveled to write to his son Hu Shi, repeatedly stressing-
"It is the custom in China that once you get engaged, you can't break it off."
Since then, Hu Shi began to communicate with Jiang Dongxiu through his mother, expressing the hope that Jiang Dongxiu could learn cultural knowledge freely.
Gradually, Jiang Dongxiu began to communicate with Hu Shi independently, and even published the vernacular under the guidance of Hu Shi.
However, due to Jiang Dongxiu's straightforward personality, the words in the letter are never polite, sometimes it can make Hu Shi laugh, and sometimes it can make people half dead.
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Hu Shi did not expect Jiang Dongxiu to become a talented woman in literature, nor did he expect her to resonate with himself ideologically.
What Hu Shi thinks is just to remind himself that there is still a fiancee at home trying to get close to him during countless lonely years of studying.
At this time, Hu Shi had love in his heart, and he was more responsible for Jiang Dongxiu's marriage.
The above is the content of a good couple who are incompatible in history, and it is about Hu Shi's sharing. I saw Huang Lei and Sun Li, I hope this will help everyone!