In The Small Window, it is said:
It means that people have made mistakes in their behavior all their lives, mostly when they are socializing with others; Always blaming others, probably out of love; And for some things, can't let go, can't see it, it is the obsession of greed.
So, in the stormy life, you are obsessed with social intercourse, with "educating" others, with "unattainable" acquisition ... You are so persistent that you probably get nothing.
it's just a fate drive.
In your spare time, you can look at yourself in the mirror and find out what your once "persistence" has deposited on your face. Is it full of joy? Or is it sad? Or is it abnormal anxiety?
Everyone, from babbling and stumbling, to youth and high spirits, to middle age, calm or restless, your once "persistence" will leave deep or shallow marks on your face.
You will find that your appearance reveals your fortune, the road you have traveled, the things you have experienced and the people you know ...
Your face is a mirror that reflects your life at any time.
In A Dream of Red Mansions, after Baoyu was beaten, Qingwen was asked to send two old handkerchief to Daiyu, Qingwen unknown so, but Baoyu smiled mysteriously.
When Dai-yu received the two old handkerchief, she was stunned at first. Later, when she thought about it, she understood Baoyu's good intentions and advised her not to cry, so as to reassure her. She couldn't help writing two love poems on the handkerchief.
When I finished writing, I felt my face was on fire. I went to the mirror and saw that "my cheeks were red, and my self-admiration overwhelmed the peach blossom".
when a woman is emotional, she must see it from her face first, just as a man always has red ears.
At this time, Daiyu, although suffering from illness, was in a happy mood and in good health under the nourishment of love.
Therefore, the color of your life can be seen in people's faces.
You are happy, and your face is rosy and happy. You are sad and miserable, and your face is dull.
The world doesn't look at your face, but when you chat and meet people, others can know what your life is like now by looking at your face.
So, don't always put so much pressure on yourself, and smile when you have nothing to do.
most of the time, the first side of people will often determine their future contacts. If they have a good impression on the first side, they will have dealings from then on, and then there will be deep cooperation.
a bad first impression is probably the fate of this side.
So, you know, no one likes to deal with someone who is sad and lifeless all day, and no one likes to listen to other people's complaints and nagging all day.
So, no matter how hard the day is, always bring yourself a "hopeful smile" and tell yourself "You can" in front of the mirror.
You have to believe that your smiling face will definitely bring you good luck, and your hard work will definitely be rewarded.
Zhang Ailing said: In your temperament, there are the roads you have traveled, the books you have read and the people you have loved.
The temperament on everyone's face is not fixed from birth. It will change with your experience, leaving a mark.
For a woman, perhaps the most important thing is her appearance. However, time is fair to everyone, but it will use the "temperament" to make women more and more charming and fascinating, and finally make age a number, so that women will always be in the most beautiful years.
For a man, although his appearance is not the most important thing, there are always some men who are more attractive as they get older, and some men who are more obscene and "evil-looking" as they get older, just because his past experience has reshaped his face.
Therefore, temperament is most related to the road you have taken.
everyone will experience joys and sorrows in his life, and will taste the bittersweet and sweet. However, the road under your feet is a part of your temperament precipitation.
If you are ambitious and ambitious, your temperament must be wise, charming, intellectual and elegant.
if you are kind and compassionate, your temperament must be kind-hearted and calm.
So, no matter how old you are, you should be happy and positive, don't think about things, don't envy and hate.
in this way, you can walk well, you can live more practically and have no regrets, and your beautiful temperament can always accompany you.
people, only with excellent conduct, can you walk high steadily.
Only with a normal heart can we accept what has happened indifferently, and with a tolerant heart can we tolerate those who are sorry for us.
You will find that when you live in a beautiful and joyful mood, your face will change with your kindness, and your destiny will turn for the better.
In a long life, many things can't be seen at a glance. The "spring breeze" in the present is nothing. If you don't have good thoughts, then fate will not always shine on you, but let you see the karma.
as the Buddhist saying goes, life is made by oneself, and each other is born by heart.
like planting a grain, it grows with the seeds. If you plant a good crop, you will get a blessing; if you plant an evil crop, you will get a bad crop.
so, the causal cycle, the result is only because, it must be the result of that thing.
Only by making yourself in a good mood can you accumulate popularity and plant good causes for yourself, and you can also usher in a day of flowering and fruition;
Only in this way can your face, in the joys and sorrows, and in your words and deeds, carve out a shocking good face.
as the saying goes, the road is easy if there are people in the eye; Only when there is love in the heart can things be done.
You should know: your inner goodness, evil, beauty and ugliness seem to be covered up on the surface, but in fact, they will all be exposed in your face.
your face is your destiny.
Conclusion:
I still remember someone who said: Your appearance before 4 years old is decided by your parents, but after 4 years old, your appearance is decided by yourself.
In the world, there will always be unfairness, betrayal, dishonesty, pain, resentment and unhappiness ... But if you give up on yourself because of this, you will cling to your obsession and spend the rest of your life in inexplicable anger.
then, you have given your life to your emotions and given up the opportunity to control your own destiny.
the face is born from the heart, and the fate depends on yourself.
whether your face is sad or happy determines whether you meet good or bad in your life; Your temperament, whether rigid or soft, determines whether the road under your feet is right or wrong; Whether your face is good or evil determines whether your life is good or bad.
So, give yourself more smiles and let your heart have more sunshine.
Take care of your "face", and fate will surely return you hope and happiness.
The world of mortals is rolling, and time is running like water. Believe that if you are kind, you will be rewarded!
let's * * * encourage!