There are many ways to marry, the most important of which is the horoscope marriage. Bazi is the time of birth of a person, which records the state of the five elements of Qi at the moment of birth. The Qi of the Five Elements is also an invisible biological aura. Everything in the world has an aura, including plants, animals and even objects. For people, the strength and balance of the five elements in the aura of each person are different. When two people live together for a long time, the auras of both parties will have an effect, and the result of the effect will be: beneficial or harmful, etc., so Their respective destiny trajectories have also undergone changes for good or bad. We can see this from twin brothers or sisters. When two people with the same horoscope are unmarried, their luck will go in many similar ways. For example, the same year will bring good luck and the same year will bring bad luck. They will take exams in the same year and get rich or lose money in the same year. Kefu and so on. Once married, the difference in good and bad luck will become relatively obvious. For example, the year of childbirth may be different, and the year of divorce may not necessarily be the same if the marriage is not going well, etc. This is because although two people have the same horoscope, their spouse's horoscope is not exactly the same, and their auras are also different, which interact with each other, resulting in differences in luck. Therefore, it is feasible to adjust people's marriage through horoscopes. But we also need to comprehensively analyze, judge and view the marriage. Nothing is absolute. Even if the outcome of the marriage is not good, as long as the two people have a good relationship, they can still achieve benefits, avoid evil and live in harmony through many solutions. On the contrary, even if the result of the marriage is good, if you don't pay attention to communication with each other, the feng shui of the house, and the quality of the friends you associate with, the relationship may break up and the marriage may disintegrate. At present, there are generally four types of horoscope marriage situations: 1. The man's parents arrange the marriage between their son and his partner. 2. The girl’s parents agree to marry their daughter to her partner. 3. After the marriage, one or both parents do not agree that their child will marry his partner. 4. One of the men and women or both parties get married, and the result of the marriage is not good, leading to hesitation or breakup. Therefore, I suggest that every man and woman who has already been married, or is about to get married, must have a correct concept of marriage. Marriage is only a means, not an end. The purpose is to enable men and women who love each other to Better discover each other's strengths and weaknesses, so as to learn from each other's strengths and live better together. Of course, after getting married, it is found that the two parties have very serious conflicts in personality and conflicts, and it is very cumbersome to resolve them. In addition, the relationship between each other is not that deep, then it is recommended that the two parties calm down for a while before breaking up or reconciling. . Friends need to be reminded that many so-called numerology experts or so-called fortune tellers in the society now only make simple judgments about marriage based on zodiac signs, or horoscopes, likes and dislikes, which often lead to wrong marriages, just like quack doctors. The disease causes unnecessary tension between men and women, and even the disintegration of relationships and marriages. This is not only a very unethical behavior of "quack doctors", but it also needs to be recognized by both men and women themselves, and we must not "seek medical treatment in a hurry". Two days ago, a friend sent me a letter asking for a signature. It read: "People from Feng Pavilion and Long Tower look at the bright moon and the cool breeze. The mandarin ducks scatter to east and west. It is difficult for the flowers to bloom again at the end of spring." ” She was worried about whether she would face divorce. Simply speaking, the meaning of this sign is not actually divorce, but that two people who truly love each other cannot be together, so they have to bear the pain of separation, and they cannot renew their relationship if they meet again. This is what we usually mean by "fate but no destiny".