actually, Kun thinks that everyone should know some principles of horoscope combination, although there are many reasons why two people can be attracted to each other, and there are also many reasons for breaking up. However, the information obtained through the eight-character combination will also include quite a few reasons and results, and the accuracy is high.
In ancient times, most people's marriages were "arranged by blind date" and "dominated by parents", and even many men really knew what the other half looked like in the wedding night. (Speaking of which, Kun remembered that there was a saying called "seeing words like faces", so this sentence should actually be called "seeing eight characters like faces" hhh in ancient times.) Because of too little information, the eight characters of both sides almost became the only criterion at that time. Whether two people can go on or not is a decisive factor.
Of course, this method of combining eight characters directly in ancient times was too arbitrary. First, parents had too much right to speak at that time and didn't know much about the real situation of both sides. Second, because the judgment basis is not comprehensive, such as only looking at the zodiac. Third, because the level of ancient fortune tellers is also uneven, the results obtained are often different. These are the reasons why the eight-character combination was sneered at by most people before.
if in ancient times, the horoscope was a decisive weapon in the hands of parents, then at present, Kun thinks that horoscope is an auxiliary tool that everyone can master. The most fundamental reason is that now everyone's love is relatively free, and there is also a buffer period for the two sides to get along. In the past, everyone was a stranger before the wedding night, but now everyone is-
Nowadays, no one is holding a horoscope to force us to say what two people must do, but the more we can master some horoscope skills, the less confused we will be when considering the relationship between two people. Whether you are a stranger in front of you, have a certain emotional foundation, or even married, as long as you can know each other's birth information, you can spy out some relationship passwords that belong to you two through the combination of the two. Although the level of detail depends on your eight-character skills, for the average person, the general direction and trend can be judged.
Kun wrote in How to Use Eight Characters to See if you can get back together? The article mentioned a lot about the combination of the two sides. At that time, many small partners asked, what do you think of the compatibility between the two sides? So Kun, today, I'm going to talk to you about the eight-character marriage and some problems that need to be paid attention to-< P > Before the marriage, we should take out a person's eight-character to make a general judgment. Some people are born with some configurations that are not conducive to love and marriage, such as too many men's lives than robbery, and women's lives hurt officials. If there is such a situation, then no matter who you are with, the result will not be particularly good. It is equivalent to deducting a basic score before closing. However, you don't have to worry too much about this situation. There will always be people who are suitable for you, but the probability of meeting them may be reduced.
In fact, the eight-character marriage itself can also be called a "zero-sum game", and the content displayed by the two characters is as close to zero as possible. If the five elements of both sides can learn from each other's strengths, just like the meshing of gears, they will naturally have a strong attraction to each other, and they will reach the ideal state of love within a period of time after being together-
Then we will take this as the starting point and introduce several judgment methods-
For the eight-character marriage, the most impressive thing for everyone may be to look at the zodiac signs of both sides. Especially the old people, always pay special attention to this.
It makes sense to just look at the animal sign, such as cattle and sheep, tigers and monkeys, monkeys and snakes, dragons and chickens, etc. In addition, it is not necessary to have an accurate date of birth only by looking at the animal sign, and it is more convenient to have a low threshold. However, too many people only regard the cooperation of the genus as the basis for judging marriage, which leads to the result that is often quite different from the actual situation.
to be exact, the animal sign is actually only the annual expenditure of both parties, which is one of the eight characters. It can be used as a reference factor, but it is not accurate to judge only by this.
For both sides, the four pillars are just like the different modules of the textbooks when we were at school, each of which is in charge of a category and a period. Therefore, we should comprehensively compare the eight characters of both sides, four pillars against four pillars, in order to get more accurate results.
Among them, Nianzhu (parents' palace) and Rizhu (couples' palace) are the most important. Focus on the combination of punishment of the two pillars and the five elements. As Kun said above, the four pillars represent different modules, so if you want to see whether the ideas and views of the two sides on their children in the future are compatible, it is necessary to judge by the time pillars.
Generally speaking, Nianzhu represents the foundation of both sides' feelings, is also the parents' official of both sides, and reflects the relationship between parents of both sides, because to a certain extent, the combination of two people is also the combination of two families. Generally speaking, when looking at the annual column, it is best to be masculine and feminine. The Japanese column represents the core attraction of both sides. When looking at the Japanese column, it is best for the Japanese stem to be male and female, such as men born on day A and women born on day B, or men born on day G and women born on day B.. The gram here is not the "gram" of a wife and husband, but the dependence of a man's life on a woman's life. Because men and women are honest, we are officials. Therefore, ancient women called their husbands "officials". Here, women's lives are "wealth" for men's lives, and they will be particularly loved by men's lives.
in addition, besides "male and female" (other than each other's spouse stars), there can also be a mutual relationship, which also means circulation, tolerance and love, but it is also best to have one yin and one yang, and the yin and yang are coordinated.
next, there is the Japanese branch, which is the most important basis for judging the depth of their fate as a couple's palace. The Japanese branch of the couple (the couple's palace) is best matched and semi-matched, and at worst, it is also born together, most afraid of colliding, punishing and harming each other.
Finally, you should be extra careful if you encounter a situation where a woman is like a man, or if the four pillars of men and women are almost the same and their lives are roughly the same.
continuing our "zero sum principle", we can also judge whether the two sides get along harmoniously by comparing their horoscopes. If the two sides complement each other with gods, then it is ok that the eight characters are a little blunt.
When it comes to the Ten Gods, for both men and women, it is best to have positive stars, for example, men have positive wealth and women have positive officials. If not, it is better to unify the partial stars. If there are many positive and negative confusions, it is not conducive to the stability of both sides' feelings.
in addition, men's lives should not be more prosperous than robbery, and women's lives should not hurt officials too much. It is not appropriate to reveal the wealth of men's lives, otherwise they are not expert in their feelings, and women's lives are not suitable for official killings without food injury.
We often see some words like "thunderbolt", "big post soil" and "big sea water" when we use the eight-character dish arrangement software. This is called "Five-element Na Yin", and it can also be the basis for judging the eight-character combination.
when closing the plate, we can focus on the notes of the two sides' annual columns, such as restraining white gold by fire in the furnace, restraining gold in the sea by thundering fire, fearing big trees in the sand, fearing big post soil in the spring, etc ... This is not decisive, but it can also be used as a basis for judgment. Because there are many syllables in the five elements, everyone is interested in the relationship between the five elements.
The gods and evil spirits in the eight characters of both sides are also an important basis for the closing.
Generally speaking, men should not have too many peach blossoms, while women should not have evil spirits such as "flowing clouds" and "red flowers". These gods and evil spirits are all factors that will lead to emotional instability between the two sides.
in terms of physical weakness, it is best for both sides to be in a balanced state. If the male strategy is strong, the female strategy is weak. The worst case scenario is that the woman is extremely strong and the man is extremely weak.
If you find that all the points mentioned above are in good condition after the closing, then don't think that it will be stable. If the fortunes of two people are different or conflict, it will still cause a lot of turmoil to their relationship.
For example, the man is lucky to be an official, and the woman is unlucky to be an official. The more disciplined one is, the more unwilling one is to be bound. Contradictions between the two sides will gradually arise.
In addition, an important point in Universiade is that both sides should "synchronize their fortunes". Once fortunes are reversed, both sides will not be on the same channel. Because of this, some girls did not get any benefits during their husbands' wealth, and they were gradually rejected. Misfortunes cannot be shared, and it is inevitably not conducive to the stability of feelings.
First of all, it's the point mentioned repeatedly above. Never prejudge the quality of the relationship between two people just by their affiliation. This is just as unreliable as looking at the constellation only looking at the sun constellation and looking at the horoscope only looking at the sun Lord.
another thing is, don't think that the result of the two sides is very good, and then there will be no emotional problems. The eight-character combination can only roughly reflect the sTate of you and ta together, and can't influence the outcome of your relationship.
In the exploratory stage, there is actually a lot of room for choice. If the two sides are found to be incompatible, they can choose not to be together. Those who are already with each other, or even married, should not have too many negative thoughts if they find that the result is not very good after the closing. Whether the eight characters fit or not can only determine the lower limit of your emotional relationship. And the process of running in with each other and managing feelings with heart is the decisive factor that can constantly refresh the upper limit of emotional relationship.
face up to the result of the eight-character combination, regard it as a reference manual for the optimization of the relationship between the two people in the next stage, clear mines in time, and know how to cherish it, which is the positive solution.
Let's stop here for some tips on marriage.
Actually, it's not just a love relationship.
You can also use it flexibly to analyze your relationship with anyone else.
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