For example, Cantonese people are very traditional and superstitious. They believe in China's traditional eight-character theory and that they belong to each other.
For example, in the zodiac, each zodiac has its own zodiac. Guangdong people think that life will be more prosperous and smooth if they marry their own suitable zodiac. However, if you marry your own zodiac, your life will be restless and it will be very easy to go downhill.
This view is hard to accept. If this is in ancient times when science was not very developed, many people may believe this statement, but in today's situation, many people will think this statement is superstitious, which will bring great difficulties to blind date, because it is impossible to have such a suitable person standing in front of you. Even if two people seem to be very suitable, whether their personalities can match or not is two different things.
Of course, apart from this most important reason, there are two other reasons:
1, Cantonese people are divided into local and foreign areas.
Most Cantonese people have a clear concept of locals and foreigners, that is, they usually don't let their children or relatives marry foreigners. In their impression, there are only Cantonese and foreigners, and it is best for locals to marry locals. Without extremely special circumstances, the elders do not advise the younger generation to contact foreigners, which directly causes the difficulty of blind date in Guangdong, because if these thoughts always exist in the brain, prejudice will follow.
2. Attach great importance to proper collocation.
In addition, even if Cantonese can accept foreigners, they value their suitability. Simply put, it depends on whether your family conditions are good or not. We all know that the per capita income of Guangdong people is relatively high. After the reform and opening up, Guangdong's development speed is also relatively rapid. No one wants to combine their descendants with people with less favorable conditions, so this has gradually formed their insistence on this concept, but not all local people have such good economic conditions.
In fact, marriage should be the sublimation of love and should only be based on feelings. Although material conditions are important, they cannot be more important than the feelings of two people, and they cannot be superstitious. It is actually our biggest mistake to interfere in marriage with superstition, so we should treat this problem rationally.
Whether the other two people can be together, I think it depends mainly on their three views. If two people have different views, they will often quarrel over trivial matters, and may even fight, so these two people are certainly not suitable. However, if two people's three views are more consistent, their marriage will be very smooth, which is what we should admire.