The child's name is the same as grandpa's. No one wants to have a good name, and the rate of duplicate names is high when there is a large population, so many parents will invest a lot of time and energy, even money, to give their children a unique and meaningful name. Let's share the child's name in grandpa's words.
The child's name is the same as Grandpa's 1. According to the custom of our country, children only need to talk to the elders of their father's family. Besides, your children are more important, and the people among your elders have long passed away, so there is no conflict. In addition, according to the tradition of Chinese genealogy, elders put a word in their surnames, such as the word "Fulu Changcun", which is used in the middle of names. If each generation uses one word, it can be distinguished from several generations.
This is the arrangement of China Kong's family. Therefore, it is good to repeat words with the elders of your father's family. So, don't worry, your child's name is very good. Please feel free to use.
In fact, names are not only pleasant to listen to and easy to remember, especially in our country with a history of 5,000 years, and there are many rules for naming. Some young people think that these rules are unnecessary, but in fact, the experience of the older generation is still very worth learning and inheriting. All books teach you to take the essence and discard the dross.
In the past, there were strict genealogical rules for choosing names. For example, if you are Chang, you should have Chang in your name, and if you are a senior, you should have a high surname, so that people of the same clan can get to know each other. You are a senior, and your qualifications are higher than mine. I have to call you uncle. This naming method has solidified the clan blood relationship better.
In addition, it is very useful to choose roles according to the five elements. If you lack gold in your life, then your name will be marked with a gold word, or beside it, as will wood, water and earth. Of course, there is no such rule now. You can write whatever you want, but the general rules should be respected.
Grandpa wants to name his grandson "Tianlong", but Eva's grandfather strongly disagrees.
There is a Mr. Gu in Anhui. As the saying goes, people are happy when they are happy, and he has a successful career. This is a very happy thing, but he didn't expect to have a big fight at home. The reason is that Mr. Gu's father, the ancient patriarch, wants his grandson to have a mighty and domineering name.
Think of this upcoming baby as Gu Tianlong. The name sounds mighty and domineering, but the grandfather of the child and the father of the mother are not reconciled. He thinks that the name Tianlong is too big for children to bear, which will affect their fate.
The young couple didn't complain, but the two old people quarreled over the name. Grandpa thinks the name given by grandpa is too corny, and the name given by grandpa is too big to grasp. However, the young couple can only temporarily shelve the naming of their children, which can be said to be a very headache.
Why don't elders want to give their babies too big names?
1, an exaggerated name gives people the feeling of being inaccessible.
Imagine that your name is exaggerated, will it give people a feeling of being inaccessible? For example, the protagonist in the novel, such as He Ye, is the standard adult template. On the contrary, if Li and Ge Eryan are grounded as soon as they listen, of course, we are definitely not asking people to name their children Eryan and two dog.
2. Invisibly let children rely too much on the role of names.
Naming represents the good wishes and yearning of the elders for the younger generation, but sometimes too many names may make children depend on it invisibly. For example, if I succeed in naming, I will succeed. If I am appointed as a general, will I become a general? This feeling of fate is actually not very good, because everything is the result of hard work.
3. The ending is disappointing.
A name that is too big, if it is not successful, will probably make people even more disappointed. Most people have a mediocre life. This is not to say that mediocrity is not good. But from the actual situation, it is impossible for everyone to get ahead. On the contrary, only a few people will succeed. If the name is exaggerated, children will inevitably be disappointed in attending ordinary schools in this life.
Parents should be careful when naming their babies.
Parents must be careful when naming their babies. This is not to say that the name is too big or too small, but to consider the reality of the child. Some parents may just want to be novel and eye-catching.
Especially for babies, there are too many such cases, such as the glory of the king, Lei Zhenzi and Fu Baoshu. They think it's fun when they are free, but it's really a headache for their children after they come out to study.
Summary:
Names are written for a child's life. Parents must be cautious when naming their children. It is not advisable to have a whim. If you think this name is good, please think twice and ask talented people around you. Of course, the decision must be in your own hands, because he is not someone else's child but yours.
I believe that parents are good for their children, but don't do bad things with kindness. Feudal superstition is not desirable, but the good wishes of the older generation to their children deserve our respect and admiration, and you can communicate with the elderly more appropriately. I'm sure your parents will be very happy.
The child's name is the same as grandpa's. 2. Names should be taboo.
The Book of Rites Qulishang, one of the Five Classics, has a special discussion on how to name a son. The original text is as follows: those who name their children are not based on the country, the sun and the moon, hidden diseases or mountains and rivers. It means that the name should not be named after mountains and rivers, administrative place names, official positions or diseases.
These reflect the ancient people's worship and awe of nature, so these names should be avoided. In fact, taboo customs are more widely used in reality. For example, since ancient times, people have avoided addressing emperors and dynasties regardless of their names or other writing methods. And since ancient times, there has been a custom of avoiding parents' surnames. When it was extended, there was already a custom of avoiding the names of family elders or neighbors, and it is still the case in many places now. Therefore, if you want to choose an elegant name, the first thing is to make clear the words that should be avoided.
Second, the basic requirements are beauty in sound, beauty in form and beauty in meaning.
We can grasp it through these aspects.
1, mouth, the name should be Shun. The requirement is that the name you want to call out is normal and high-pitched, and you feel that the pronunciation is smooth and not awkward.
2, ears, the name should be nice. Asking for a boy's name sounds very tall and decisive. The girl's name sounds crisp, soft and implicit.
3, eyes, names should be written well. This is based on the morphological structure of words, which requires the choice of words with easily balanced and stable structures.
4, sense, the name should have artistic conception and emotion. This requires that the name should have a certain cultural accumulation, which is why many people like to choose from the classic poems such as the Book of Songs, Chu Ci, Tang Poetry and Song Ci.
Others require that names should be easy to remember and write, and strokes should not be too complicated (otherwise, children will be psychologically hurt if they don't write their own names at school).
Third, the balance and complementarity of the traditional five elements of Upanishads.
Let's watch a movie clip first. In the movie "Dinner Madness", there is a segment in which Tan Dashan, a Jianghu expert played by Fan Wei, named Jia Ming, a little star played by Bo Huang. According to Jia Ming's birthday, Tan Sitong said that it lacked five elements, so he changed his name to "Golden Jujube Wood". This name was complete, and Jia Ming was really angry after changing his name.
Look at the following twenty names: Zhu Biao, Zhu Shang, Zhu, Zhu, Zhu, Zhu Zi, Zhu Qi, Zhu Tan, Zhu Gui, Zhu Zhi Zhu, Zhu Xi, Zhu Quan, Zhu Yun and Zhu Xi.
The child's name and grandpa's words are the three knowledge points that a baby must see when naming.
1. If you really can't think of an ideal word, you might as well look it up in the dictionary.
2. It is best to buy a related book and learn some knowledge about mathematical naming and the five elements of birth (if you don't know numerology, you can find a professional master of Zhouyi).
Generally speaking, boys' naming words should contain the spirit of Yang Gang, and girls' naming words should contain the meaning of virtuous, and sometimes men and women use them in reverse, so that children will be better in all aspects when they grow up.
4. Now, it's best to name your child in three or four words. Three-character names and four-character names are not easy to duplicate, unique and have many benefits, and will gradually become popular.
No matter what name you choose, don't have vicious and unlucky words, meanings and mathematics.
The configuration of name, personality and case is equally important to the meaning of life. We must never omit the configuration of names, people and cases in order to include auspicious numbers in names. The relationship between personality and personality is called basic luck, and the relationship between personality and personality is called successful luck. If restrained, the foundation is unstable, success is hard to be expected, and health may even be endangered or sudden disasters may occur.
It should be noted that the above points are not comprehensive and are for reference only. In short, the general principles of naming are: pleasant to listen to, easy to remember, simple and easy to draw, elegant and meaningful.