Living in the present, we are bound to be influenced by the surrounding environment and people around us. Our hearts will be happy or sad because of the external things, as if this is the best gift for ourselves.
After studying Yangming's Mind Theory and Five Elements Theory, I found that if I want to change my destiny, I must look inward, not outward. This reassurance can only be given to yourself, and others can't give it to themselves.
So how do you explore your heart?
I think the horoscope is a good tool, which can help us to look at ourselves objectively. The eight characters are the four-word numerology when you were born. Each of us has a unique genetic code. No matter when you were born, it represents your own unique day. Then the place where you were born is your own geographical location, and then your parents are your own people and friends.
The four seasons of spring, summer, autumn and winter imply four opportunities that we need to experience in our life. Spring is the season when everything recovers, which means that we can only appreciate the awakening of spring in Xiao Su after winter. Only after the gradual warming in spring can we come to the hot summer, and all this is slowly produced in the gradual change. Will not directly transition from ice and snow to hot sun. Only after a hot summer can you feel the bleak autumn wind. So from autumn to winter, the temperature gets colder.
The adversity we experience in life is like the change of our four seasons. Everything is changing gradually, and it is impossible to change suddenly without worrying. How can plum blossoms smell sweet if they are not frozen? Wang Yangming was demoted to Longchang, Guizhou for offending eunuch Liu Jin. It is because of Longchang's enlightenment that we are fortunate to learn the theoretical system of Yangming's mind.
If your heart is not strong enough, you will often be influenced by the chores around you. Therefore, first of all, we must be conscientious and seek inward. When you know that your heart can communicate with the universe, you can get what kind of person you want to be. You will follow your heart to remove all obstacles and reach the destination you want to think about.
I hope you and I can find our own reassurance.