Lin died on April 0, 1955 at the age of 5 1 year. It's really not longevity. She was ill all the year round and eventually died of tuberculosis. This is not only caused by long-term fatigue and environment.
Although Lin's marriage is beautiful and successful to outsiders, it is not perfect. Lin was born with a strong personality, and also had trouble in marriage and family. He also experienced small things at home, and Lin was in front of his friends. I once lamented that her poor health was caused by Liang's relatives, that is, her husband's family.
Lin is very talented. She is like a goddess, but she is a woman after all and must get married. Lin and Liang Sicheng got married through their father. Lin's father and Liang Sicheng's father Liang Qichao are good friends and colleagues. Because of the same interests, both sides want to form a family with children, so they link marriage together.
In Liang Qichao's view, Lin is the most perfect daughter and woman. Liang Qichao once wrote to his daughter that he could marry Lin as his daughter, which was a very successful thing he did. As a father-in-law, you will naturally meet talents. Two-faced Lin is very satisfied with the woman, but Liang's woman is not satisfied with Lin 100. This person is Liang Qichao's wife Lin He's mother-in-law Rosanna.
Liang Qichao's ex-wife, Li Huixian, was a lady in the old society in the late Qing Dynasty. She is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and can be called a talented woman. In her opinion, Lin is not the woman image she expected, so Lin is not popular, and she doesn't think Lin is both talented and beautiful. She doesn't think her son Liang Sicheng should find such a thin woman. She wants to find a woman who can go to the hall or kitchen, likes to do housework and can take care of his marriage.
Lin is an intellectual woman in the new era and naturally doesn't want to do housework. This is disgusting. Meanwhile, Luo Shana is a traditional lady, and she can't adapt to Lin's new style. Lin is full of prejudice and dissatisfaction.
The dissatisfaction of the prospective mother-in-law made Lin very depressed. Fortunately, Liang Sicheng insisted on marrying Lin, and Liang Qichao tried his best to maintain the relationship with Lin. Lin did not join Liang Sicheng. Although Lin was not optimistic, she died young, and so did she. Later, Lin and Liang Sicheng had a lover and finally got married, which also avoided the tension between mother and child after marriage.
1936, Lin wrote to her good friend Fei, saying that she really envied Fei marrying her only son, because Lin was not only tortured by her mother-in-law before marriage, but also depressed after marriage. Marriage and family conflicts made her miserable. Liang Sicheng is not the only child in the family. He also has four brothers and four sisters. Among Lin's four younger brothers, he is still very respected. Although Lin was a public enemy in women's hearts at that time, he still had sex with his wife. Handle it harmoniously, because the wife and the wife don't live together, and there is not much trouble between them.
Lin has a good relationship with her princess, but what bothers her is her sister and younger sister. Among them, Lin's sister is Liang and Liang Sicheng's sister. Liang is the eldest daughter of Liang Qichao and has a good relationship with her mother. His mother disapproved of Lin entering the house all her life, so Liang was biased against Lin.
Liang saw that his father Liang Qichao attached great importance to and praised his daughter Lin as his wife. He is inevitably a little jealous. He often speaks ill of Lin. Both Lin and Liang are anxious. Therefore, two very powerful people get together and often have conflicts. Liang even criticized Lin with other sisters, and so did Lin's other sisters. They often speak ill of Lin in front of Liang Sicheng, and sometimes say a few ugly words in front of her.
Whenever there is a conflict between Lin and Liang Sicheng's sister, Liang Sicheng never talks. One is his sister and the other is his wife. Lin was very disappointed. The other side would not make any noise, and the other side would not coax. Lin Xuan, Lin's younger brother, once told me that Liang Sicheng's silence made Lin uncomfortable, so he often felt depressed.
Not only did Auntie and Anzi have conflicts, but they were not treated by their mother-in-law before marriage. The shadow of her mother-in-law will accompany Lin for the rest of her life, so Lin has accumulated a depressed knot in her heart for many years. In addition, she has a strong nature and cares about other people's opinions. The trouble brought by her in-laws made her physically and mentally exhausted, which is also the reason for her poor health.
Lin is a goddess with both talent and beauty. Therefore, for many women, they must learn to adjust their emotions and maintain a happy mood in marriage in order to have a healthy and happy life.