Lucky people use childhood to heal their whole lives;
Unfortunately, it takes a lifetime to cure childhood.
1. Parents are the most important feng shui for a family.
-the father's model determines the direction of the family. Mother's mood determines the temperature of the family. Father's general pattern and mother's good mood are the best feng shui for a home.
A family where parents don't love each other is the root of all misfortune.
-husband and wife can't fulfill each other, or they hurt each other.
3. Every preference has a price.
The root of disputes in families with many children is not the love between brothers and sisters, but the injustice of parents.
It is said that love is unreasonable, in fact, family is the most unreasonable.
-It is said that Su Daqiang washed white, and the whole Su family washed white. Actually, it's not a white wash. This is often the case with a family. Things that you think will never be reconciled will eventually be reconciled. There is no reason. It is said that love is unreasonable. In fact, family is the most unreasonable.
Divorce when it is time to divorce, otherwise the biggest victim is the child.
Someone said, "I can't divorce for the sake of my children." However, everything tells us that estranged parents and contradictory families are more harmful to children.
6. Getting married is really not about two people, but about two families.
-"Everything is OK" tells us that getting married is actually equivalent to setting up a joint-stock company. When to set up, when to raise, when to buy, when to disintegrate. Therefore, it is very important to find a wife and marry into a rich family.
7. A good marriage needs a good man too much.
Su Daqiang, Su Mingzhe and Su Mingcheng, any one of them is enough for you. If men can't do it, no matter how good a woman is, her family can't be happy.
8. Home is often the most hurtful place.
It is often not society, the workplace or others that can easily crush people, but what we call a safe haven home. Everything tells us that not all homes are homes, and not all relatives are relatives. It is often the closest person who hurts you in the most cruel way and makes you the most powerless to resist.
If I treat you like you treat me, I'm afraid you have left me.
-"If I had treated you like you treated me, I'm afraid you would have left me long ago." This sentence applies to anyone and any relationship. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and look at the same problem from the other person's point of view, and many things that we can't understand will become simple and clear.
10. Lucky people use childhood to cure their whole lives; Unfortunate people spend their whole lives healing their childhood.
-Being born in a family really has a great influence on a person: if you are born in a happy family, congratulations, it will be a cure for your life; If you come from a bad family, the damage you have suffered may take a lifetime to heal.
1 1. Everything is bitter, just to die.
If fate gives you a bad hand, there is nothing to do but try to play it well. And hard work is the last card in our hands. Only it can make the pain given to you by the original ecological family only temporary, not lifelong.
12. The weaker you are, the more bad people there are.
-"Everything is fine" tells us a truth: people really have to live up to expectations. The whole world will be happy for you as soon as they make achievements.
13. If you feel unfair, it is only because you are not strong enough.
-there is no fairness in the world, and even time can't be done. If you think it's unfair, it's only because you are not strong enough. Only when you become stronger and stronger, things you encounter will become more and more fair.
14. If you think people in the world are good people, it's because you haven't met all of them.
-Some people say that Su Mu is selfish, others say that Su Mu doesn't distinguish right from wrong. But all this just shows that many evils in the world are unreasonable. No matter how well you do, someone will hate you. No matter how well you do, someone will hate you. Even if you haven't done anything wrong, there are still people who can't help you. Flies don't bite seamless eggs, and it takes a slap to make a sound, which is often not true.
15. You can choose not to forgive many things, but you can choose to let go.
-Many people don't understand why Su Mingyu, who suffered so many injuries, finally chose reconciliation. I remembered a scene in the story of seven pa. Ma Dong said: "As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us." Cai Kangyong said, "That's not forgiveness, that's forgetting."
16. People who have a lot of hardships in their hearts can drink a little sweetness.
-Why is Su Mingyu getting softer and softer? Thinking of "A Wonderful Story"-Bai Bangni sighed: "How much sweetness does a person with a lot of bitterness need to fill it?" Xu said, "You are wrong. There are many bitter people in your heart. Just a little sweetness can fill them. "
17. Su Mingyu with money, Fan without money
-"Everything is OK" tells us a truth: there is always a period of struggle in a person's life, and only with a material foundation will there be more opportunities and rights to choose.
18. Money can't solve all problems, but it can solve most of them.
-half the things in this drama are settled by Su Mingyu's money. So we should make more money while we are young and maximize our energy. As long as the wallet is warm, life will not be too cold.
19. Good people need to go through 81 difficulties to become Buddhas, and bad people can become Buddhas by putting down their butcher knives.
-Su Daqiang did evil in 43 episodes. In the last three episodes, only a little kindness was released, and everyone immediately forgave him. This drama tells us that the cost of being a good person is very high. Never be a good person: "If you give someone candy every day, he will hate you." Know how to restrain and refuse to do good deeds, don't let others expect too much of you, and don't cultivate the habits that others have been asking for, otherwise your living cost will be high.
20. The most terrible discrimination and persecution against women often comes from women.
-Su Mu's injury to Su Mingyu tells us that women often discriminate against women more than men. We always think that men discriminate against women. In fact, in the camp that discriminates against women, women are always more ruthless than men. The biggest enemy of gender equality is not men, but women themselves.
2 1. Don't take face too seriously
This drama tells us through Su Mingzhe: Don't take face too seriously. I'm too proud, and I'm the last one to lose.
22. Never look for male chauvinism when looking for a man.
Everything is fine tells us: when looking for a man, don't look for that kind of male chauvinism. In order to save face and reduce the quality of life of your family, you like to pretend to be rich in front of your relatives, friends and colleagues.
23. Know how to refuse, know how to refuse, know how to refuse
Agreeing to all the requirements of others is not a "good" performance. Those things that you promise without considering your own endurance will make your life worse.
24. The essence of man is a repeater.
-"Everything is fine" once again shows that the essence of human beings is a repeater.
Su Daqiang: Yingming, I can't live. Mingcheng, I can't live any longer. Mingyu, I can't live.
Su Mingzhe: Mingcheng, I'm so disappointed. Mingyu, I am so disappointed. These two brothers and sisters really let me down.
Su Mingcheng: Dad, what do you mean? Dude, what do you mean? Su Mingyu, what do you mean?
25. If you want to succeed, it is very important to follow the right person.
-Su Mingyu If he hadn't met Meng Zong, he might only hand out leaflets in the street all his life. Therefore, choice is more important than hard work. Success means following the right person, going the right way and doing the right thing.
26. Never go against your boss.
-"Everything is OK" tells us: If there is no mine at home, don't go against the leader, or the outcome will be miserable.
27. Don't reason with girls, just spoil them.
-"Everything is fine" tells us that it is difficult to win by reasoning with women, but once a woman is coaxed, her IQ is zero.
28. The best filial piety is filial disobedience.
-people should be filial, but not stupid. Filial piety is our duty, but "obedience" is not necessary, because parents are not always right, so we should choose the good ones to follow them and abandon the bad ones. Only if you don't understand filial piety can you better honor your parents.
29. You can look at the five senses when you are in love, and you must look at three views when you get married.
-All harmonious and long-lasting relationships in the world are essentially comfortable. Only people with the same three views can be together for a long time.
30. It is the most powerless sorrow in the world to raise children and not be with their relatives.
The finale of Everything is Fine tells us that all children, when their parents are too old or seriously ill, will regret why they didn't treat their parents well.