On the scientific level, the initiative to get along with others can be completely controlled by yourself. For example, when the ancient emperors chose concubines, which one didn't decide after finding the national player first, but also chose the beauty audition? However, few emperors have a happy marriage, and even more fat and thin people cuckold their husbands. Empress Dowager Cixi has repeatedly done state affairs and made her husband have a headache.
It can be seen that the eight characters are nothing more than a speculation about the trend, and fate can be completely changed through mutual efforts.
Happiness or misfortune has no door, but people call themselves, which is the best interpretation that attitude determines everything!