Of course, the five elements are fine, and the hard life has nothing to do with this. Whether you want to carve your husband or not depends on your horoscope. If a man is incapable, it is also a way to find a woman to live by eating soft food, but he is afraid that he is incapable and has a bad temper.
I think you should be young, don't believe this, live in a happy way, don't care about other people's comments, and don't wronged yourself to please anyone!