At the end of last month, a young lady from a Shanghai club mysteriously told me something - her client bought a jadeite brand from her. During the chat, the client said that she This jade bracelet on her hand is very evil. When she wears it, her fortune is very good. If she takes it off or not, all kinds of bad luck will happen. She is so scared that she dare not take it off... The young lady looked at the jade bracelet and found that it was actually a jade bracelet. A B-grade jade bracelet with a very conspicuous red color on it. She immediately thought of the legend of blood jade, but in this case, she couldn't say much, so she had to comfort the customer not to think too much...
< p> Although these things are a bit mysterious to talk about, they are not uncommon in life, especially some personal accessories that have been worn for many years, such as jade pendants suddenly falling off, beads suddenly scattering, jade bracelets broken... are regarded as bad omens, and will cause many problems. We are uneasy. This idea is not unique to China. There are also legends in the West that sapphires can turn white in times of crisis to warn their owners.So are these things psychological, or are they real? Based on my many years of experience, my analysis is that there are causes and effects for such incidents, and most of them are related to Dai Yu's taboos.
1. Subjective importance
People wear jade jewelry, firstly for beauty, and secondly to avoid disasters and seek peace. It is not unreasonable to say that jade can ward off disasters. In ancient times, People believed that jade was the food of the gods. Ordinary humans could only talk to the gods through jade. Later, people wore jade on their bodies, thinking that this way they could get the protection of the gods... And in the ordinary weapon fights in the cold weapon age, the jade huang Such pendants may indeed be able to help the owner block a knife.
Therefore, when we wear jade, we still need to pay attention to it subjectively, especially if it has been opened or is a Buddhist statue. You should also avoid doing illegal things, otherwise the spirituality of the jade will be completely lost. From this point of view, wearing jade has the meaning of self-discipline. Ordinary people wearing Buddha are meant to be pious, and gentlemen wearing jade indicate noble virtues.
2. Mix and match with accessories of other textures
Mixing and matching is very popular in the accessories industry nowadays, and jadeite is the most unsuitable accessory for mixing. Especially jade, the hardness is higher than jade. If worn with precious metals such as gold, the surface of gold jewelry will be scratched in a few days. If you encounter diamond, the king of gemstones, the jade itself will be injured; if you really want to mix it up, you can choose accessories made of rattan or wood.
3. How to wear second-hand jade
Regarding this point, we can go back to the beginning of the previous article. Generally speaking, this type of jewelry, which has a great impact on a person's fortune, is unlikely to be first-hand. Of course, if we are talking about first-hand goods, the place where the goods are placed is rather strange, which may indeed affect it.
So for second-hand jewelry, we still need to be a little more careful before wearing it. For example, replacing it with brand new accessories, deep cleaning, enshrining or consecrating it are all feasible; for example, I like to bring some older ones. The oldest one wore a piece of jade from the Western Zhou Dynasty. The most important thing is cleanliness, but I am a heavy-weight person and can usually hold it down.
4. Pay attention to the subject matter and aura
I have to admit that the utensils do have a matching aura. For example, it would be inappropriate for a burly man to wear a water-hibiscus pendant, and for a gentle lady to wear a large, ferocious lion head. If your fortune drops as soon as you start wearing jade with a specific theme, it is better to take it off quickly. The matching aura (magnetic field) is really important.
5. Pay attention to daily maintenance and accessories update
In summary, if the lanyard of the jade pendant is broken and the beaded elastic rope is worn, it will not only cause damage to the jade itself, but also to our souls. The impact is not small. Therefore, we need to check frequently and replace the lanyard every 2 to 3 years. In summer, we sweat more, so we often clean or replace it, and the elastic rope needs to be replaced every six months.