1. The process of getting married. What is the process of getting married?
Now the problem is: 1.
Rent a serviced apartment: Rent a three-bedroom apartment with all the furniture, so we don’t need to buy furniture, but the things are not our own, and it feels weird to have the big red word "happy" on them. . Is this good? 2. If you book a room directly at the hotel where the engagement party is held (or use the complimentary wedding room), will you pick up the bride directly at the hotel? How to arrange the things sent to relatives? After putting the bedding covers on, do you have to lift them up and take them home the next day when you check out? It feels even weirder.
Could you please give me some advice on which way to build a wedding room is better? How to handle the specific process of picking up a bride? No need to pick her up at her husband’s house? Or is it directly connected to the wedding room? Answer to the question: You don’t need to be picked up from your husband’s house, you can go directly to your new house. After settling in, just go to the hotel.
Don’t choose the second wedding room, it doesn’t look good. You can use it as a honeymoon room. The wedding room provided by the hotel is not necessarily used on the wedding night.
Normally, you will be given a period of time (such as three months, etc.) to allow the new couple to make flexible arrangements. Whenever I want two people to go out and have some romance on the weekend, I use this room.
The serviced apartment does look like a home, and it is at least passable as a new house. You can also decorate it according to your own ideas, such as putting on a bed cover or laying out a festive tablecloth.
The hotel is not good. Firstly, there is no home-style furniture for you to decorate; secondly, the space is not good. There is no place to put the things you gave to your bride. Whether it's good or not depends on your own psychological effects.
Marriage is actually a marriage for others to see. It is considered a marriage if you get a certificate yourself. So, as long as the appearance is passable.
What is the procedure for picking up a bride directly at the hotel where the wedding banquet is held on the wedding day? Naturally, the groom and the groom's friends should go to pick up the bride. It would be nice if the elders (from both sides) were waiting at the hotel.
Prepare some small red envelopes, including change of ten yuan and twenty.
2. What should you pay attention to when getting married?
1. Departure
On the wedding day, the groom usually leaves from the groom's parents' home or the new house. But please note, if the wedding car requires flowers, it is best to prepare them one day in advance, otherwise time will be very tight. Remember to send a route map to each driver of the wedding car fleet. It is best to have someone on the camera car who knows the bride’s family. Before departure, the groomsmen can take photos to record the beautiful moments and estimate the auspicious time. Set off.
2. Blocking the door
Blocking the door is the most lively and lively moment for receiving a bride. When the groom arrives at the bride's house and when the bride receives her new home, the bride's bridesmaids and relatives will deliberately make things difficult for the couple, making them feel that marriage is hard-won and that they should cherish each other. In order to marry the bride, the groom must of course make his family happy, and red envelopes are also essential. Of course, blocking the door is to add to the festive and lively atmosphere of the wedding, but don’t overdo it.
3. Proposal
After finally opening the door and marrying the bride, of course you need an unforgettable proposal. At this time, the groom should hold flowers in his hands, kneel down on one knee, propose to the bride and say his vows. The actions can be done in one go, so that all the relatives and friends present can become witnesses of your love.
4. Find shoes
The groom should not think that he can marry the bride after proposing. The groom also has to go through the process of finding shoes. Before the groom arrives, the bridesmaids will hide the shoes, maybe in the closet, under the bed, or in an unexpected place. At this time, only the groom takes action. If you are unprepared in advance, then you have no choice but to give red envelopes to the bridesmaids and let them give you some guidance.
5. Serve tea
After you have proposed and put on your shoes, you can serve tea to your elders. The order of serving tea is to honor your parents first, then your grandparents.
6. Going out
When the woman goes out, due to different wedding customs in various places, she can be carried into the wedding car by her younger brother, elder brother or the groom. Remember that her feet cannot touch the ground. The bride should also be careful not to reveal herself.
7. Get in the car
The next step is for the bride and groom to get into the wedding car and head to the love house. There will definitely be photography on the wedding day, so brides who want to take beautiful photos should be careful to sit further out and make sure that half of them are outside the car, because the light inside and outside the car are completely different, and it is difficult to take photos when sitting inside. The photos will look terrible.
8. Arriving at the new house
After finally getting the bride back, the groom asked the groom to take the bride back to the new house. When the bride returns to her bridal chamber, she puts the apple on the bedside, which means bringing peace from her parents' home to her husband's home.
9. Change of mouth tea
After arriving at the wedding room, you should sit on the wedding bed "facing north and south" and eat noodles, drink sweet soup, etc. according to local customs. The makeup artist can touch up the bride's makeup during this free time, and the groom's family prepares tea cups. The bride has to serve tea to her parents-in-law, and then to her grandparents.
3. How to go about the wedding process
1. The process of accepting a bride
1. Both parties get up early to prepare. The bride has breakfast, puts on makeup, and waits for the groom. Arrival
2. The bride prepares red envelopes and gives them to the groom’s relatives and friends, as well as the driver and master, etc.
3. The groom contacts the wedding car fleet and sets off with the receptionists and staff. The bride's house
4. After arriving at the bride's house, the groom needs to use all his tricks to win the beauty back home
5. After entering the bride's room, the groom needs to help the bride After presenting the bouquet, the photographer and videographer can record the beautiful moment
6. The groom needs to find wedding shoes in the room where the bride is
7. The groom After finding the wedding shoes, the bride’s relatives need to carry the bride downstairs and place her in the first car of the wedding car fleet
8. At this time, the groom needs to serve tea to the bride’s parents, and the bride’s parents need to Give red envelopes to the groom
9. When the wedding car fleet arrives at the new house, relevant staff need to set off firecrackers on the road where the wedding car passes. After the wedding car arrives at its destination, the groom needs to carry the bride to the wedding room
10. When the newlyweds arrive at the wedding room, the bride needs to serve tea to the groom’s parents. At this time, the groom’s parents need to give the bride red envelopes as a courtesy
2. Precautions for receiving a bride
1. Candidates for the groom to pick up the bride
Generally speaking, the groom needs to bring his relatives, groomsmen, brothers and his friends with him when he goes to the bride’s house to pick up the bride. Specifically, it is best to have uncles and uncles as the main relatives at home, and try to avoid looking for uncles or uncles to pick up relatives. This has a bad connotation.
2. Selection of the route for getting married
When the groom picks up the bride, he must plan the route for getting married, so as to bring more happiness to his married life. Specifically, To put it simply:
① The road to pick up the bride should be as wide as possible and avoid bumpy paths or difficult roads
② Do not turn back when picking up the bride
③ During the pick-up process, you must abide by traffic laws and do not rush through traffic lights at will
④When planning the pick-up route, try to avoid passing through crematoriums, funeral parlors and other places with strong negative atmosphere
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4. On the wedding day, when is generally the best time to get married?
Different places have different customs. Some brides may have requirements. They may want to get married early in the morning. I wanted to go out, so I wanted to rush to the groom's house before ten o'clock in the morning. However, some brides also have requirements. They want the bride to leave home at ten o'clock, so when the groom picks up the bride, it will be around eleven o'clock anyway. The pick-up time is different here. .
In fact, in some places, the wedding date is calculated based on the birth dates of two people. That is, before the couple gets married, the elders in the family will show the birth dates of both people to the fortune teller first. For a moment, let the fortune teller calculate the most suitable wedding date for two people, and then calculate the most suitable time to pick up the bride, so that we can go according to the time of the fortune teller. Of course, this is done in places that are more particular about pick-up time, and it does not represent everyone.