According to the "Book of Jin", Xiaolian Linghu Ce had a dream. He dreamed that he was standing on the ice and talking to the people under the ice. Suo Mao explained this dream and said: "The top of the ice is yang, and the bottom of the ice is yin. Men go up and women go down, and it is a matter of sexual intercourse. You talk to people under the ice on the ice, and introduce women to men. This is a matchmaking thing. You need to Use your passion to melt the ice, so that both men and women can get married." That's why the matchmaker is called the Iceman.
People say, "Marriage of a thousand miles is tied by a thread." Of course, there are also lustful people who tie red ropes indiscriminately and cause accidents everywhere. According to "Sou Shen Ji", there was a scholar named Wang in the Jin Dynasty who lived in Wu County. One day he took a boat home and passed by Qu'a County. It was dark. The boat was docked on the embankment. At this time, he saw a seventeen-year-old woman on the embankment, and called her to stay with her on the boat. At dawn, he took off a golden bell and tied it to the woman's arm, and then sent someone to follow her. When I returned to her house, I saw that there was no woman there, so I leaned into the pig pen and looked carefully. I saw a sow with a golden bell tied to her arm.
I give such a "little fresh" example just to tell young men with strong male hormones to be self-disciplined and self-cultivated. There are accidents when men pick up girls, and problems when women hook up with men. According to legend, there was a girl in Qi State. The matchmaker introduced two young men to her. The boy in the east was rich but ugly, and the boy in the west was handsome but poor. It was difficult for parents to decide. He said to his daughter: "You can show which arm you want to marry to whichever family you want." The daughter showed her hands and said, "I want to eat in the east during the day and spend the night in the west." This story is the idiom "Eat in the east and sleep in the west." "The origin of the allusion.
Who needs a matchmaker to get married?
The 5th and 6th characters in your horoscope are one of Jiazi, Yihai, Wuwu, and Jisi. Your marriage is guided by your elders. The person your elders introduce is usually older than you. If you are older, if your horoscope is weak and you like Yin Bi, your spouse will have a good family background and be kind-hearted. If the 5th and 6th characters in your horoscope are one of Jiayin, Yimao, Wuchen, Wuxu, Ji Chou, Ji Wei, Geng Shen, or Xin You, you will usually have same-sex relatives and friends of the same generation to match you. The person you are dating has had a relationship experience before meeting you. If the first two characters of a girl's horoscope appear to be "official" or the first two characters of a male's horoscope appear to be "good wealth", the spouse's conditions are likely to meet the standards of the parents, and the person lacks independent opinions on starting a family and a career, and is likely to get married early. Your husband's family and your mother's family are acquaintances or live close to each other, and your spouse has known you before.
Male destiny: Jisi Bingzi Guihai Renxu, great fortune: Yihai Jiaxu Guiyou Renshen Xinwei.
Yuan Guishui is ordered and sits on Qianggenhai water. The body is prosperous and likes to use wood fire. On the surface, the level of wealth in this horoscope is very low, but in fact, it is not the case. If Shenzi and Hai both die in the sky, the parents' palace is used as a favorite. This person's parents are both public servants, and their salary will be very high after retirement. A man's life is more difficult than fate, and his relationship is not going well. This man confessed his love many times and was rejected by many girls. In 2010 (Geng Yin), the wounded official went to the marriage palace together, and he fell in love with a female junior high school classmate in the same community after being introduced by others. The positive wealth is in the parents' palace, and the husband's family and the natal family are old colleagues in the same company. Because Zhengcai (Binghuo) first comes into contact with Bijian (Guishui), it forms the sign of Bijian robbing his wife, implying that his girlfriend has been in love with other men before marriage.