There is a kind of woman who can work hard for her own career outside. She has independent thoughts and abilities, and can handle complex interpersonal relationships in the family. Everything is arranged properly, and women with prosperous husbands often have these four characteristics. Once you get married, you have earned it, so you should cherish it.
First: Being diligent and frugal in housekeeping will help you live a better life
Some people think that women are too frugal and stingy, but in fact this is not the case.
This is the case for Gao Hong. Since she got married, she has habitually remembered her family's financial expenses clearly. In addition to the monthly mortgage and necessary expenses, she will also save money. .
Because her husband Haoran is very lazy, sometimes when Gao Hong works overtime, Haoran doesn’t want to cook, so he will order takeout. However, Gao Hong thinks that takeout is expensive and unclean. Every time Gao Hong watches When you get the takeout box, you will talk about him. Haoran, who gradually became afraid of nagging, also learned to cook a few side dishes, which reduced the number of takeaway orders. When Gao Hong worked overtime, he could still cook them for his children.
Most industries have been affected by this epidemic, and so have Gao Hong and Haoran’s companies. If they hadn’t had the habit of saving money before, the high mortgage and car loans would have made the two of them miserable. Word.
A woman with a prosperous husband will not spend money lavishly, nor will she tear down one wall to make up for the other financially. Of course, she will not worry about small things, but will focus on the overall situation. , regardless of whether you can master the entire economy, you will be able to allocate and utilize your funds reasonably, and you will also have detailed plans for your future. You will not only know how to be diligent and thrifty, but also be able to give you a comfortable and warm life.
Second: Know how to think from someone else’s perspective and reflect, and be self-aware
Writer Xi Murong said: "Marriage is not about two people facing each other face to face. Marriage should be about two people holding hands and sharing the same feelings. Facing the world. ”
It is very important for couples to put themselves in perspective. If they cannot do this, it will be difficult for couples to get along.
I have a friend, Chen Lin, whose family conditions are very good. She has been favored since she was a child. Her personality is a bit domineering and extreme, but she has outstanding appearance and has dated many boyfriends in college. .
Later she married a senior who was one level older than us. The two of us had perfect looks, a talented man and a beautiful woman. However, they divorced within two years of their marriage. The reason for the divorce was that Chen Lin was not only domineering, but also unreasonable. In the two years since the two were married, the senior had been trying to accommodate Chen Lin, but Chen Lin didn't know how to put herself in someone else's shoes.
Because Chen Lin has an unpleasant personality and is lazy, her relationship with her mother-in-law has always been bad, and the seniors tried their best to stand by her side, but Chen Lin not only refused to bow her head, but also threatened to He was unwilling to take care of himself in old age. In the end, the senior chose to divorce Chen Lin because he couldn't bear her princess disease.
If two people get together because of love, can they really live a peaceful life and go on smoothly?
That’s not the case. In fact, there will be many complicated interpersonal relationships and many trivial things in marriage. In these aspects, if two people cannot accommodate each other and understand each other, it will be difficult to be able to do so. Stay together for a lifetime.
It is important to know how to think differently and reflect on yourself, so that you can continue to mature. A person should have self-awareness. Only in this way can he recognize himself clearly.
Third: Be able to educate children to be filial to the elderly
As the saying goes, a child’s first teacher is the mother, and a mother’s character can easily affect her children. The most vivid example is in "Knowledge", Lin Xiaoniang and her daughter Mo Lan are carved from the same mold.
Lin Xiaoniang comes from a humble background, but she is deeply loved by Sheng Hong. She is very shrewd and knows how to accept weakness. No matter what mistakes Lin Xiaoniang makes, as long as she cries, Sheng Hong will become soft-hearted. It is also because of this, Even though the eldest lady has been dissatisfied with Xiaoniang Lin for a long time, she does not dare to attack Xiaoniang Lin casually.
Mo Lan successfully inherited this characteristic of Lin Xiaoniang. When the three sisters of the Sheng family were learning etiquette, Ru Lan and Mo Lan had a conflict and were punished by Sheng Hong, but Ru Lan refused to give in. Like the eldest lady, she was a bit "domineering" and even almost contradicted her father with words, but Mo Lan knew how to bow her head and shed tears, and Sheng Hong softened her heart when she saw it.
Mo Lan is exactly like Lin Xiaoniang, and Lin Xiaoniang’s bad behavior also harmed Mo Lan.
Therefore, every child's character will be influenced by his mother, and the mother's body hides the shadow of the child. A woman who can educate her children to be filial to the elderly will also educate children. She can also make the family harmonious, warm and prosperous.
Fourth: A woman with a prosperous husband must be her own
I never think that a woman with a prosperous husband must sacrifice herself. If a woman is unhappy in her own life, then she It will definitely not affect men. A person with positive energy can influence the people around him to become positive, while a person with negative energy can also influence the people around him to become negative.
So, a woman who prospers her husband must prosper herself instead of blindly sacrificing herself.
A woman with a prosperous husband is a woman who pays more attention to self-improvement. She will have a good arrangement for her life and also have a good plan for her work. She will have a good mentality, which can make her life full and rich.
She must be a woman who loves life, has positive energy, and can also see the beauty of life.
A woman with a prosperous husband must have a beautiful temperament, have her own small career and life interests, and have a good personality.