Let's talk about an example of "eight-character incompatibility" but sticking to it.
When Sanyi and Sanyu got married, "eight-character marriage" was still very popular. Before getting married, his uncle's family found a local teacher who is said to be a god, and all the characters were removed, resulting in thunderous results. If two people have to go against the trend and get married, someone in the family will suffer a catastrophe in the future. So of course, this marriage was strongly opposed by the two families. At that time, free love was just emerging, and parents' life was still the key factor to determine a marriage. Everyone thought this relationship would end, but his uncle eloped with his third aunt.
Six years later, the two came back with their children.
Thirty years later, three aunts and three uncles quarrel and bicker every day, and they are accompanied by love every day.
Not long ago, I went to my third aunt's house for dinner and talked about this little story of that year. Third aunt went over and mentioned the "eight-character disagreement". Because I don't know how long I have left by my lover's side, and I don't know what kind of ending I am waiting for two people, I cherish every day together as if it were my last, and the days have slipped smoothly and happily for 30 years.
God's fucking "eight characters don't match"
My boyfriend and I have a "eight-character" that someone quietly worked out. The result is also very unsatisfactory. I haven't told him yet, but no matter what the final result is, love is getting happier and sweeter every day, and I don't know how long I can stay with each other, so cherish the moment.