1, make a living by kindness. If you enter Lan Zhi's room, if you don't smell it for a long time, you will blend in with it; Living with poor people is like entering the place of abalone. If you haven't heard of it for a long time, you will melt with it. What Dan hides is red, and what he paints is black. Gentlemen should be careful where they are. -Su's Six Books on Confucius' Family Language
Communicating with people of noble character is like entering a room full of delicate orchids. Over time, you can't smell the fragrance of orchids, because you are integrated with the fragrance; Associating with people with bad conduct is like selling smelly salted fish in the market. Over time, you can't smell the salty fish, which is also because you are integrated with the smell. The place where cinnabar is hidden is red, and the place where pigment is hidden is black, so people with moral cultivation must carefully choose their friends and environment.
2, in the bitter fleabane bitter fleabane, not straight; White sand is nirvana, and it is black. -Pre-Qin Xun Kuang's "Xunzi Persuasion"
Vernacular translation: grass grows in hemp field and can stand upright without support; When white sand is mixed with black soil, it will become as black as soil.
Meaning: metaphorically speaking, living in a good environment can also be a good person. Metaphor is the influence of environment on people.
3. People are divided into groups-"The Warring States Policy Qi Ce III"
Meaning: Used to describe that similar things often get together, and people with similar interests get together, and vice versa.
English explanation: Birds of a feather flock together.
4, look at all directions, listen to all directions, learn nothing. -I wrote an inscription for Qinghe County Public Housing Cemetery.
Vernacular translation: ears often listen, eyes often see, unconsciously affected, can do it without learning.
5. A gentleman must choose his neighbor when he lives, his scholar when he walks, his scholar when he lives, and his scholar when he seeks. -Spring and Autumn Yan Ying's "Yan Zi Chun Qiu Za"
Vernacular translation: a gentleman must choose a good neighbor when he lives, make good friends when he walks, seek virtue when he chooses to live, and avoid disaster when he seeks virtue.
Baidu Encyclopedia-Live a good life with others
Peng Sheng Ma Zhong, don't help yourself.
Baidu encyclopedia-birds of a feather flock together.
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Baidu Encyclopedia-You must choose your neighbors.