For various reasons, I may have more contact with the "uncle" that everyone thinks. Let's talk about what they have in common. 1. Compared with us, I am older (30-55). I have a certain position in my field (I have my own mature career). I have a lot of income. I have rich social experience. 5. I have rich emotional experience (many high-quality uncles have divorce experience)
Uncle a is a person who is not outstanding in appearance. He is a typical southern figure, about 170 in height. He is a little fat, but he is well maintained. He has a refined temperament praised by the industry. People who don't know him often think he is a teacher at first sight. I met Uncle A at a gathering of my parents and friends, and attended the gathering for the purpose of seeing the world. After that, Uncle A went home to play occasionally, and gradually got familiar with it. Then through a so-called "man sleeping party" (you know), you can really understand a little.
Uncle A was divorced once (I just met him) and owns several companies. He belongs to the kind of person who has no worries about food and clothing and has a rich life. After the divorce, he was surrounded by many different kinds of women, and occasionally he would take them to all-male parties. . It is worth mentioning that he didn't support anyone. In fact, at his level, you can have no object, but you can't have no woman. And the average beautiful lady, for them, really don't need too much cost. Uncle A has a special preference for white-collar workers in the workplace, so he is basically a white-collar worker in some companies every time, but he basically gets together and leaves. A business expert like this may not have much other skills, but he basically has the ability to see people's dishes, which is really enough for young girls with little experience. What's more, as long as he gives them a little attention properly, it is what they think of as "attention." The relationship between men and women like this is actually not on an equal level from the beginning. Just like playing tuba to give a trumpet to a novice, it is a trumpet dream.
"I pay less attention to these girls than a client" is uncle A's original words. You can't say that Uncle A has no feelings for these women, but the facts are limited. In fact, like many mature uncles, they know what they want in this relationship. It's just that women are always naive but not naive to pretend not to know. Some of them rely on the illusion of short-term social improvement, and then they like Uncle A in order to maintain this illusion. There is also a simple dependence on Uncle A. A mature and steady uncle, like a lost lamb, has found the way forward (it always feels strange).
In fact, we all know that Uncle A is also a family-oriented man, but he lacks love. It's just that marriage is really not that easy. But as a junior, I still hope he can be happy. I can learn a lot with him, and he often teaches me a lot like a teacher. He is one of the few elders who can get along without too much pressure, and one of the few elders who can pull me to tell dirty jokes at will. Oh, and spit on others. . . Ha ha ha ha ha, in fact, a group like Uncle A comes from the upper-middle class in the social biological chain of China today and has everything that many people envy.
What's more, some handsome uncles, an uncle who can properly grasp the distance between women, an uncle who can easily solve women's difficulties, an uncle who can easily take women to experience their level but find it difficult to experience life, an uncle who can understand girls' thoughts and reactions, an uncle who can talk with you humorously, an uncle who is knowledgeable and has his own unique opinions, and an uncle who is gentle and can strongly control them. As a girl, if I don't have someone I love deeply, I guess it's hard to refuse to meet a mature, gentle and handsome uncle with little age difference.
The core advantage of uncles can be summarized as understanding women, which represents charm in the eyes of some girls. The uncles have seen some scenes, experienced love, understood women's minds, knew when to say what was warmest, and knew when to do what was most pleasing to girls. Even during sex, they will work harder and be more skilled. Coupled with material advantages and generous hands, girls are more likely to have love (why do mature women like young boys? The ups and downs of growing up with peers are love, and being carefully cared for by mature men is also love. Someone will remind the little girl to cherish love and stay away from her uncle. Do you know whether his gentleness and thoughtfulness are due to skillful skills or sincerity? However, when interacting with peers, the same risks also exist. Women's infinite longing and yearning for love will make them believe that they can rejuvenate their uncles.