The theory on the internet is usually to speak from the perspective of men. As long as a man decides to break up on his own initiative, it must be the result of careful consideration and it is difficult to recover. Is that really the case?
If you want to save a relationship, you need to know the other person's way of thinking, including all kinds of behaviors and thinking habits. The following three points are the leading factors worthy of reference when saving your predecessor.
1. Estimated recovery probability
Generally speaking, breaking up should not last more than four months. In addition, in the case of unprincipled problems and unforgivable mistakes, family factors and uneven economic distribution can be saved. At this time, you should judge what kind of situation you belong to and whether there is any possibility of recovery.
2. the last blow
When you have finished the strategy and framework of redemption and played all kinds of hard to get and self-presentation, you can finally give it a try.
At this moment, what the other party values most is whether your shortcomings have been corrected, and whether your changes and promotion have achieved the expected results.
Step 1: Avoid sharp edges.
If the reason for your breakup is disagreement, then at this time, you must seize a reason other than disagreement, cover up the real reason, and make the contradiction fair.
You may be smart enough to attribute the cause of personality disagreement to your growing environment, so that the other person will agree with this family-born factor and you will abandon this opinion.
Step 2: Grasp the weakness.
In the process of getting along with feelings, it is inevitable to expose some psychological weaknesses, especially in love relationships. If the other person is a man who is afraid of trouble and pressure, indirect pressure is a good way to save him.
If the other person is a stubborn person, you should take defense as the attack, retreat as the advance, and observe the other person's emotional fluctuations instead of rampaging.
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