If you think you and your wife are compatible in personality, get married. Some fortune tellers are not accurate, but I think generally fortune tellers rarely tell backwards, and they are pretty accurate in telling things in the past.
When I was in a relationship, my boyfriend’s family also used my birthday to get married, but the result was that we were not compatible. So after we got married, my husband always thought that we were going to divorce in the future, so he became pregnant. He didn't want a child, and he never fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband and father. Because of this, we always quarreled. Later, the child was terminated because he was always angry, and the final result was induced labor and divorce. At that time, I felt that I was very innocent. Could it be that he treated me like this just because we were not compatible because of fortune telling. Later, when we got married for the second time, we didn't even marry each other, and now our marriage is very happy. The destiny of a person's life is basically destined, but it is not impossible to change it. As long as we accumulate more virtues and do more good deeds, our destiny will be changed. As long as you fulfill your responsibilities as a husband and father, there will be no regrets. Then even if your wife really wants a divorce, she will regret it in the future.