I said the sea is beautiful, but you said many people died in the sea. If they can't get along, they won't get along. The three views are different, so there is no need to force them to merge.
I think every college student should have a similar situation to me: I look up and see my roommate every day, but we hate each other. At first, I would think about changing such an awkward dormitory relationship, and forcefully change my words, deeds, and attitude to cater to the other person. But after a long time, I found this very tiring. So, if we can't get along, forget it. We are here to learn, not to please or cater to anyone.
If you and your roommate often quarrel, you can try to stay away from her. Normally, you can spend time in the library, study and read, and then go back to the dormitory when it's time to go to bed. Out of sight and out of mind, and the less time you spend together, the less chance you have to quarrel. On Saturdays and Sundays, you can go out with good friends, or work part-time to make money and exercise your abilities. Believe me, the longer you spend in the library and the more part-time jobs you do, the more mature and calm you will be. Slowly, when you face your roommate again, you and she are no longer on the same level, and you will not care about her.
Of course, if you think the other person is a pretty good person, there is no problem with his character. You can have a good communication with her. During the communication, you can get to know each other and know what you dislike about the other person, and then you can correct it. Maybe an effective sexual agreement will make you two friends.
In short, I feel that in college life, we don’t need to focus too much on dormitory relationships. Four years is a long time and the school is very big. We can’t just make friends in the dormitory. We should expand the scope of making friends, go to clubs and make friends at work. We cannot regard making friends as the purpose of going to college. We should still improve ourselves, learn more knowledge, and live a fulfilling and meaningful four years.