Female Cancer, male Capricorn, they are so clingy that I am exhausted
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If you don’t understand Capricorn, don’t criticize them. :
Capricorn is also called Capricorn, but compared to this mediocre title, Capricorn can actually express the personality of people born in this constellation more appropriately. Whether in the East or the West, the explanation of the word "Demon" is related to a mysterious, strange, powerful and ferocious evil force; and when looking at the Xinhua Dictionary at hand, the explanation of Jie is as follows: Gongyang, specifically refers to being Castrated. As we all know, no matter how aggressive an animal is, it will remain docile after being castrated, and this docility is so repressed. This is Capricorn, the gray people in everyone's eyes.
In almost all articles about zodiac signs, Capricorn seems to be a wily and wood-like character who kills people without using a knife. This makes any other zodiac sign inevitably feel disgusted in their hearts after seeing it, although there are also some There are only a few words describing their love and righteousness, but they still do not hide their flaws. However, what is surprising is that no matter how indifferent or angry Capricorns are after seeing those posts that comment on how sinister and vicious they are, they are actually a little bit happy in their hearts, even though they know that they are not that kind of person at all. , but subconsciously, he has a strong desire to one day play the ruthless role of the leader of this demon sect. At the same time, they are also deeply confident that as long as they want, they can become such an evil and evil leader at any time. A powerful character. This confidence made him a little complacent. At this time, Capricorn will laugh in his heart with a bit of contempt at these personal attacks, his eyes will be slightly narrowed, and his eyes will be slightly fierce. But when he closed the computer and walked out of the room, he saw a fruit seller. He suddenly remembered that the person he was going to meet today (this was someone of the same or opposite sex he liked or loved) had said that he liked to eat fruit, so he started to stick his butt out and start buying fruit. : We only select the best and freshest products, no matter the price.
Capricorn is a contradictory body made up of a mixture of extremes. There has never been any zodiac sign that has struggled so frequently and painfully with the thought of being a good person or a bad person as they have. On the one hand, he fervently hopes that he can turn into a warm spring light and revive all things. On the other hand, he crazily hopes that he can turn into three feet of ice to freeze the world. But for people born in this winter, the pursuit of warmth is so persistent, so in the end, they always jump back and actively cultivate their own bright qualities like spring, and the pleasure of being a good person brings them It seems easier for them to feel intoxicated. Relative to their own feelings, they do not want to get stuck in any negative and dark emotions. But at the same time, I feel that there is nothing wrong with being a bad person. Generally speaking, when they were children, they were the most well-behaved and lovable babies. However, young Capricorns always tend to appear withdrawn and unsociable. The older Capricorns are, the more comfortable they are in society. When they get older, they often become A rare kind and tolerant representative (although this tolerance and kindness come like the considerateness of the imperial power rushing towards the face, making people feel warm but afraid to approach the arrogance when they face it). Although they devote their lives to the harmony of moderation, and They yearn for any bright temperament, but this deep-rooted extreme is always easy to lose control, making them feel inexplicably unhappy in society. Many horoscope articles describe Scorpio as being very similar to the word extreme, but the description of Capricorn is completely incompatible with these two words. They often only pay attention to the external manifestation of the constellation, but rarely consider the root cause. The extreme of Scorpio is a stable state, either very loved or very hated. The extreme of Capricorn is a contradictory state. They love and hate very much. They are always jumping between the two ends and cannot find the middle balance. Therefore, Capricorns are also confused about their emotions, so they are here. In this intense psychological state of conflict, he showed the same indifference as before, otherwise he would not be able to think, "What are you thinking about? Which side are you on?" In this disguise of indifference, Capricorn is going back and forth. Sort through your conflicting emotions and thoughts, and this becomes what the world sees as deep thinking. Presumably Capricorn will sometimes envy Scorpio and Libra: one's love and hate have a direction (either love or hate), while the other's love and hate are completely coordinated (there is no favorite or most hated).
You want the Capricorn around you to analyze a person’s strengths and weaknesses. If he wants to say something, then you will find that this person’s strengths and weaknesses are all hidden. You will find that he may analyze I also use my sixth sense to pick up on other people’s words and actions. You will admire Capricorn's amazing ability to analyze others, and at the same time secretly break into a cold sweat, thinking that Capricorn actually analyzes others in this way? ! It really feels a bit wily. If he doesn't want to say it, you will find that he seems to be indifferent to everyone and indifferent to everything. If he is in a high mood, you may see two other images: maybe he is very mean to him, maybe he is very mean to him. approval. But most of the time, what you see is just a silly Capricorn who is dumbfounded about your problems and talks all kinds of nonsense.
This is because Capricorn is a very sensitive zodiac sign. He can see through a person through a small thing, and he also knows very well what is good and what is suitable for society. At the same time, Capricorn is a sign that loves self-doubt. He is aware of his own dark temperament, so he often dare not be completely sure of his own analysis. When others reveal their beautiful temperament, he will immediately discard his analysis of other people's shortcomings. So speaking of it, Capricorn is actually very easy to be deceived. Also vulnerable. However, on the other hand, because of their natural sensitivity, they can easily detect that they have been deceived. At this time, their extreme personalities come into play again: when they see others showing good sides, their trust in others is Absolute, unadulterated; and when they discover that they have been deceived in even a trivial matter, they will never trust again.
Few people start with absolute trust when interacting with others, but Capricorn does. This really doesn't sound like something done by a Capricorn who analyzes human nature so thoroughly every day, but it is absolutely true. Capricorn always easily defines a stranger whom he has never interacted with before as a good person, and he will believe whatever others say. And once they establish a good impression on others, it is difficult to eliminate it. He is very easily moved and has the most urge to repay kindness: if you help him unconditionally, he may not show any emotion on the surface, but secretly wants to take care of you for the rest of his life. (Many people say that Capricorns don’t like to take other things, and are most afraid of others asking them for help. This is absolutely right, but it is not because Capricorns are selfish, but because they always take their responsibilities too seriously. Once he helps, he will work hard to do it perfectly and cannot tolerate others being dissatisfied. So although it is difficult to ask them to do something, once you agree to it, feel free to do it. )
This seems to be a saint from Taoyuan. But he is not. He is just used to hurting himself! His tendency to go to extremes in everything is his Achilles heel. They have to live at least until they are 50 or older to learn, "When dealing with others, you should move from suspicion to trust, and don't pursue absolutes too much." This sentence has only half a star, and only occasionally. Come out and use it. Although they often used this sentence to warn others when they were only ten years old. Their trust comes too simply, their love comes too pure, and their dedication comes too precious. Because of this, their eyes became particularly keen and cautious. Even a small matter of betrayal and deception cannot escape those bright eyes. When they saw it, they felt overwhelming disappointment, shock and shock, and they criticized all human nature. It was obviously a trivial matter, but they stabbed a knife in their hearts. They won't say anything, but they begin to wonder if their efforts are worth it. However, he forgives so easily, it's true forgiveness, and all the hurt seems to be forgotten. Then, one more thing stabs me in the heart, and I forgive again. Once they decide to give their emotions, they are always too turbulent, and it is usually easy to let go but difficult to take back. However, then, one thing after another, one knife after another... (As for how many times he can bear the injury, it depends on how long your relationship has been cultivated and how deep it is.) Finally, once, all of his The wounds burst together, and all his memories of the injury suddenly came back to life - and before that, his devotion to you was uncompromised. Although he was always trapped in the contradiction of love and hate for you - he was deeply attached to you. You suddenly had no feelings at all, and even if it wasn't a break up, you could only deal with it. Your complete indifference quickly froze his heart. He feels humiliated, used, fooled, and deceived. All the emotions after that will cease to exist, the relationship you once had will disappear, and he will feel tired when he thinks of you. Many people who finally reach this state with Capricorn often wonder: Why did he endure so many things without saying anything, but he suddenly became so heartless about a small thing in the end? Capricorn will not tell you that he was the camel that was crushed by the last straw. He is likely to be silent in the end because he no longer feels the meaning of saying anything. There is no room for change in the decided things, and there is no suggestion at all. A person who has nothing to do with him needs to explain. Don't hurt Capricorn, this is my advice. They can't stand a little bit of deception and betrayal. If you can be honest with him and show your sincerity, he can leave his soul to you for safekeeping. He is fearless in swords and fire and is definitely the most worthy friend to keep. People who say that Capricorn is indifferent, selfish and practical, etc., please recall it and don’t let go of the details. Have you ever been indifferent to Capricorn, selfish or practical? As long as you have this thought, stop complaining. Your actions, eyes, words, and expressions have already been clearly seen by them. They have already rejected you in their hearts as a person who does not want to treat him sincerely. You don't deserve to give them 100% of your emotions. And he never knows how to divide feelings into parts. Therefore, Capricorn may become worldly, but he will never be tactful in his life.
(Will Capricorn retaliate? Rarely. Although he often feels that he has been hurt, he rarely really remembers it. Unless you really break through his bottom line, it is difficult to motivate him. Aroused by his desire to take the initiative to retaliate against you, more often than not, they are just passively resisting, becoming indifferent to everything about you, and just stand by and watch. But - if he really decides to take revenge on you, he will have to do it for you. Unfortunately, you will be with you from heaven to earth, silently looking for your fatal wound, and will not hesitate to use any means to achieve your goal.
If you are still fine, it's just that he is not sure yet that he can beat you to death with a stick, and is waiting for the opportunity to gather strength. This pessimistic zodiac sign always looks back 800 years, convinced that retribution will come soon, so he will ignore it as long as he can. Once he takes revenge, he will definitely eradicate it. Once he has done his job of eradicating the evil, he will never give you a chance to make a comeback. Another chance to get revenge on him. So where is his bottom line? They are usually buried very deep, maybe less than 10,000 meters. Because he always fantasizes about being a good person with good intentions. Therefore, those who have experienced it must say that it is a kind of luck. )
.........They are so simple yet so scheming, they are so selfless yet so self-centered, they are so yearning for light yet so addicted to darkness, they are so confident yet so... So inferior, they are so generous yet so stingy, they are so sensitive yet so insensitive, they are so passionate yet so cold, they so worship power yet so despise authority, they are so They stick to the rules but are so thirsty for freedom, they are so pursuit of success and fame yet so indifferent to fame and fortune, they are so absolutely trusting and yet so suspicious, they are so faithful to their promises yet so broken, they are so romantic and gentle yet so incomprehensible to the charm. , they are so ever-changing yet so unchanging. Their zodiac sign is Capricorn.
There is no middle ground for Capricorn. It is their fate to endure the conflict between conflicting extremes throughout their lives and not be able to express themselves clearly and absolutely. Is it good or evil? Is it good or evil? He is doomed to feel misunderstanding, loneliness, vacillation and confusion. He was destined to become increasingly silent. Every moment when tears fall, they are hugging themselves gently. He is like a Kuafu who chases the sun, spending his whole life looking for someone who can use up all their good or all their evil, so that human beings can no longer struggle with choices, but in the end he will die in vain.
However, I think that when reaching the end of life, Capricorn must be smiling when he looks back: All good and evil are mine, and my conscience is still clear and fresh all the way. I'm a Capricorn, you don't need to understand.
Water sign--the water sign makes you elusive and transparent
Cancer with changing emotions
It is a well-known fact that Cancer is emotional. But some people will say that everyone has emotions, but the emotional changes of Cancer are really incomprehensible to non-Cancer people. Their emotional changes change their faces faster than the sky changes. They may have been very happy one second ago. , he may fall out in the next second, and you will never guess what his next expression will be, but you can still find it if you observe carefully. Because Cancer's mood changes have reasons, and they are not so neurotic that they can change their moods without any reason.
Think about it, did you say something wrong just now? If not, then think about it further. Sometimes Cancer will not react immediately when he hears an unpleasant word, he will I hold back and pretend to smile on the surface to joke with you. I have analyzed this mentality. The main reason is that I don’t want to bring you bad emotions and anger you. But if you don’t find out in time, let him If you continue to hold back this emotion, it won't be long before it explodes.
When he gets angry, he usually doesn’t say anything and remains silent. If he is on the phone, he may hang up the phone and then turn off the phone so that you can’t find him. This is still a problem. You are afraid that your temper will be vented and hurt you. If you continue to talk to Cancer at this time, then they may say something very hurtful, exaggerate the facts, be very extreme, and even some Cancers will also say some things that are contrary to their true thoughts, such as I actually don’t like you that much. They will realize it themselves, but they can’t help it. When they calm down, I think they will regret it, but People who don't understand them, or people who are passionately in love, often take their extreme and inconsistent words seriously, and may even quarrel because of this.
The correct approach is that when he is silent or clearly tells you that he is in a bad mood, you should analyze what is wrong.
If it's your own fault, then don't provoke him. If you can't help but not provoke him and let him say something sad, don't take it seriously, because it's what he brought. What you say emotionally is an exaggeration of the truth. If you really believe it, then you must refrain from quarreling with him. Wait until he calms down before talking about all the issues. Once there is an quarrel, he may run away immediately, or he may If you say more hurtful words, it will be difficult to deal with all the old debts, so if you can't help but still quarrel, please don't say hurtful words (especially if you don't want to break up, don't break up on the lips) because the bite of an injured crab will be more painful, even if he will regret it afterwards.
But if you really say it, you must take the initiative to apologize afterwards, explaining that it was a momentary remark and not your true thoughts (even if the incident was caused by his being unreasonable), because he may not regret it afterwards. He will apologize, because he feels that it hurts his self-esteem. The biggest way to express an apology is usually to approach you proactively, call you, but say nothing about his mistakes. There are also people who say sorry, but only sorry. If he I have really sincerely apologized to you, then you must accept it. If you act petty at this time, he will immediately walk away, because it will greatly hurt his self-esteem. If you can even tolerate a little temper, congratulations, you have found a Crab with an absolutely great temper! Excellent!
If someone else pisses him off, he will usually hide away and lick his wounds at this time. Of course, he will not tell anyone that he was hurt, including you, because he feels that It's his own business and he can handle it by himself. At this time, just let him calm down alone. He will find you after he has figured it out, but if you don't know what's interesting and bother him, he will hide somewhere. I went to a deserted place and found no one. If the relationship between him and you is very close and there is no way to avoid it, then you can give him some gentle comfort. Cancer is like a child sometimes. At that time, he hopes that you are his mother and can be with you. Vent his emotions in your arms, and all you have to do is touch his head, hold him tightly, wait until his mood stabilizes a little, and then comfort him with words. Occasionally, he will vent the anger he received from others to For your part, you must be considerate of him at this time. Don't quarrel with him just because he said a few emotional words. If he is angry with others and cannot get comfort from you, then It will have the same result as mentioned before. Of course, your performance in his heart will be reduced by one point.
I saw a post before, saying that Cancer doesn’t care what kind of person you were before, even if you were a prostitute, but as long as you are with him, he will not let you Randomly.
In fact, Cancer will care about what kind of person you were before, but this has nothing to do with the virginity complex. Sometimes Cancer will care about whether you are a virgin, just because he wants to know what kind of person you were before. Whether a person is carefree will make him feel safe, so I think that post is only half right.
Of course, as long as Cancer is sure that you are a very emotional person and not bothered, he will not care about your past, but at the same time he will control you and prevent you from having any trouble. Opportunities and excuses come, so those freedom-loving Sagittarius and Gemini girls, as well as Libra girls who like to make friends, will have a big headache, because they don’t like to stay at home and like to go outside to play with friends. At this time, conflicts arise. On the one hand, Cancer wants to know every move of his girlfriend, especially not to have too much contact with the opposite sex. On the other hand, girls have to have necessary social interactions, otherwise wouldn't life be too boring?
Usually when a Cancer doesn't like what you do, he will only say it once. If you are not careful or don't care, he will feel sad privately and will also lose points for you. So for the Cancer you love, you have to reduce your social activities and stay at home. This is indeed a difficult decision, but you have to make a choice. And even if you go out to play with friends, you'd better report every move you make to Cancer, otherwise he will have random thoughts.
One more thing I would like to add is that you may not be able to find him at any time, but you must let him find you at any time. This is a good way to make him feel at ease. It is undeniable that Cancer is very possessive, so he will not let anyone touch his things. If you force yourself to break free, then he will give up.
When you are not sure about your feelings for him. It's obvious that he loves you very much, but he seems to be hot and cold when he speaks. He will also say things like, in fact, I am not worthy of you, or you can find someone better, etc., I I remember I once told him that I love you a little hard, and he said, you don’t have to work hard. Another time, I said, it’s too far to go to your place and it’s hard to take the train, and my family didn’t agree. He said, then don't come. This was his false idea, because I confirmed it in my subsequent conversation with him. I asked, don’t you want me to go? He said, if you don't want to, you won't bark, but if you work too hard, forget it. Then one day, I told him that sometimes I felt so humble when I was in love. He immediately admitted that he felt the same way. I asked if that was the way he felt when he asked me to go there last time. ? He hesitated and said, yes, if I ask you to come and you don't come, I will feel very undignified.
Then it’s time to get emotional.
As mentioned before, the angry words he says when he is emotional are not to be believed. Whether it is that he doesn’t love you anymore, let’s break up, or you should find someone better, or list your faults in detail. , your shortcomings, these are not what he really wants to express. What he really wants is a gentle comfort and a warm hug
Security is what Cancer is pursuing all his life, but it is very difficult to express it. Few Cancers can feel a sense of security
From a material perspective, money is a great guarantee for Cancers, because this is a materialistic society and everything requires money, good-looking clothes, and a safe house to live in. , a stable family life, the expenses of life, old age, illness and death, everything is inseparable, so Cancers who have no money will feel that they have lost everything. But on the other hand, Cancers are generally very generous in spending money, to their friends and to themselves. Cancers who don't have a wife generally don't know how to save and save money. However, there are also some Cancers who are stingy and tend to worry about everything when they are with friends and girlfriends. These Cancers are usually aware of the importance of money, so they should be more insecure in comparison
Compared In terms of material, spiritual security deserves more attention. A crab cannot lose love. No matter what kind of love it is, as long as there is love, he will feel fulfilled. A crab without love is like an empty shell crab, which will be a little crazy and may fall in the madness. Not necessarily.
Because Cancers know how important love is to them, after they get love, they will be very, very afraid of losing it, but they sometimes hide it very deeply and only show it through certain behaviors. For example, when asking about your whereabouts, some people will always ask, do you love me, how deep is your love, etc. If the crabs don't get a timely response, they will have random thoughts, and those who have been ignored by you will When they are most lacking in love, they will do things such as going on dates with other girls, drinking tea, etc., to relieve the neglect they receive from you and to prove that they are men from others. In the end, he may not cheat, but he will maintain an ambiguous relationship with others mentally. There are also some career-oriented Cancers who will focus on work and distract themselves, but this does not mean that they will resist the tenderness given to them by others. Therefore, you must not neglect your Cancer. You must let him feel loved and safe at any time. This is a stable foundation for your relationship.
Every crab should be quite narcissistic. Generally speaking, they are very confident in their appearance, abilities, and IQ, even if they are actually relatively average. I actually admire this, because I am Virgo, and I am the kind of person who feels that I am not good enough no matter how well I do. I have an inferiority complex, so to a certain extent, Crab is very confident, but no matter how confident Crab is There are still not many people who are confident in love, and this still comes from a lack of security.
So when getting along with Crabs, Crabs don’t like others to expose their shortcomings. For example, if you say that a Crab looks like a frog, he will He will definitely be very angry, and he may even hold a grudge, but if you praise him for his good temperament, tasteful clothes, and good cooking skills, he will definitely think, well, this person is still discerning. But don’t praise him when he doesn’t feel good about himself. For example, he feels that he is ugly and you say you are so handsome, then he will be even more angry. Haha, it feels a bit like coaxing a girl. Children, if you are beautiful, you must say she has a good temperament, if you are average-looking, you must say she is pretty, and if you are ugly, you must say she is cute.
Crab crabs will have their own secret space. The kind that others can’t easily break into. Maybe I can’t break in. Maybe what’s hidden in the secret space is just trivial things as big as sesame seeds and mung beans. , but that cannot be known by others. In order to hide it, they will not hesitate to lie. Sometimes it becomes a habit when they say it. In fact, when it comes to lying, I think Crabs love to lie. And It's the kind of unintentional lie, the lie that comes casually. Sometimes you can't imagine his motive for lying. Maybe it's just to play more games... Damn, although this habit is not good, as long as he doesn't make a big mistake. Wrong, it should be forgivable. I originally wanted him to change it, but later found out that it wouldn't work. He kept doing the same thing N times and still plausibly said it was a white lie...forget it, let him. Go ahead, you'll get used to it... Uh... I seem to be off topic.
For this secret space, if you find any clues, be sure to do it in secret, don't do it openly. Ask him first, otherwise he will be unhappy and say that you have invaded his privacy. This seems to be a very serious problem. Of course, the best thing is to give him trust. After all, everyone has a little secret.
Everyone knows that Crab is very nostalgic, so if you accept Crab, you must accept Crab’s past. Fortunately, Crab’s past is reassuring. Crab generally does not look back. , so you don’t have to worry, just let him nostalgic, and he will smile at your tolerance. If you are jealous because of old things, it would be too unfair. If it is really unbalanced, then you Nostalgia for the past and a little hug, hey, but don’t do anything to betray the crab because of this, the crab will be very sad. And obviously, this is also an unwise move.
Can’t say It's everyone, but most Cancers are ambitious about their careers, especially those who have no confidence in love. They usually focus on their careers, and Cancers usually mature earlier than others, and they develop their careers at a very young age. You have the idea of ????working hard for the future, so if you are looking for a career-oriented Cancer, then you can only be a woman who supports him from behind, but this is also good, Cancer should like this kind of person.
Crabs who have not been seriously hurt in their relationship will not be afraid of marriage. Generally, those who are in love but are reluctant to get married have been hurt, betrayed or abandoned by women, or with their former lovers. There have been times when we got along with each other, such as making trouble every day, and just because I was afraid of being hurt again, I would only fall in love and not get married. Even if you asked again, he would always think about him. When you are with this kind of crab, it is more difficult to get married. All I need is patience, maybe I can use some small tricks? But I don’t know, because my crab is still a small crab, so he is not afraid of marriage, right? Let me remind you, if you are not very sure, don’t be a crab. They use small tricks in front of them. They are smart and sensitive. Their sense of smell is very sensitive. If they know that you have made your own decisions, the consequences can be imagined.
Hey, don’t mention it. On the surface, crabs look like They are generally quite serious (with the exception of Big Flower Crabs) and are willing to give people the image of a gentleman, but in private, Crabs are very perverted, and they are so possessive that they feel that you only have your body and soul to give them. Now, you are 100% with him. If he makes a request to you and you refuse to respond, he will think that you don't fully agree with him. Of course, I am not certain, after all. You need to think this through clearly, and you can't do it casually, otherwise you will be looked down upon by the crab. However, if he is really the one you love most and you want to be with him forever, then why not, I think. If you are too conservative, getting along with a Crab (unless the Crab is not fully developed? Or you are really the angel in his heart?) will have a big disagreement on this issue. However, the feeling of being with a Crab It's quite easy to say, he will be very gentle, and he will usually satisfy you with your requests. I believe that girls who are with crabs should feel this~ I won't say this, otherwise I will be banned.