How can I give a good name to my newborn?

Text/Xiaoyao Jushi After the newborn baby comes into the world, the first important thing is to give the baby an auspicious, elegant and pleasant name. There is an old saying: "It is better to teach your son a skill than to give him a thousand dollars;" Give him a good name, it is better to teach him a skill. "This shows that' name' has been highly valued since ancient times, and it is also the best and most precious first' precious gift' that parents and elders give their children for life. Many people think that a person's name is a good name as long as it has good pronunciation and good meaning. People who know a little about "Ming Xue" think that as long as the name "auspicious strokes" is a good name; Some people who know a little about numerology think that as long as five elements are missing from a birth, a good name will be added. Some people even think that a name is a person's "code name", so you can call it whatever you want ... God's will named Zhai believes that all the above views are one-sided and wrong. A person's name is not just a simple "code name", it is a person's "totem" (patron saint), and its good or bad can "affect" a person's life's fate to some extent. Names exist with life, even beyond life. Besides, names are with us all our lives. Isn't it worthy of our attention and study? ! The answer is yes, otherwise, there will be no "name culture" from ancient times to the present, and there will be no numerous "name organizations" and "name networks" that are very popular today. World economic powers such as Japan, Southeast Asia, Taiwan Province Province, Hongkong, etc. These countries and regions with very developed economy and finance all believe in the popular naming method. Since it was introduced to the south of China from the above-mentioned areas in the early 1990s, it has spread all over the country, and the development trend is getting worse and worse. It can be seen that the existence and prevalence of "naming method" has its unique academic status and practical value. Since the establishment of 1996, Tianyi Naming Zhai has accumulated rich naming and naming experience, combined with the theory of "Yi-ology" and "Naming", absorbed the strengths of many experts and the essence of ancient and modern times, and formed a unique system and style. In this regard, the organization believes that the following aspects should be done to name a newborn, and the name is a good name in the true sense of "auspicious mathematics"! The organization believes that naming a name should do the following 10: 1. First of all, according to the newborn's "birthday" situation, we should find out the "god who likes to use" very accurately, rather than the "what is missing and what must be supplemented" in the eight characters. 2. The words in the name of Yin and Yang should have Yin (even number) and Yang (odd number), and the combination of Yin and Yang Can is auspicious; All yin and all yang are unlucky. 3. Mathematics and logic mean that the five elements of mathematics and logic should coexist or support each other (that is, the five elements of mathematics and logic are "shoulder to shoulder" and the five elements between adjacent ones are the same), and the five elements of mathematics and logic between adjacent ones must not be mutually exclusive. 4. Lucky strokes are the "five-grid anatomy" of Tian Ge, Personality, Gege, Gege and Gege, in which Personality, Gege and Gege are lucky, followed by Gege, and Tian Ge is sometimes unlucky because of his surname, which is its own natural defect and can be ignored. 5. There should be no bad pronunciation words that are easy to cause ambiguity in the pronunciation name; There should be a "flat tone" in the name, otherwise it will be uncomfortable to listen and talk. Don't use "polyphonic words" either, it is easy to misunderstand and make jokes. Psychologically speaking, the name is "the first cause effect", which gives people the first feeling. A nice and elegant name can easily make others feel good about themselves. 6, don't use "uncommon words" in the font name, it is easy to make people mispronounce if they don't know it; Don't use words with too many strokes, the font looks bloated and unsightly; Don't use words with too few strokes, the font structure is too monotonous and unsightly. Try not to use full semi-enclosed, full enclosed or full up, down, left and right characters in the font structure. Beautiful glyph structure is also conducive to "iconic design", giving people a sense of beauty and goodwill. 7. Although the word "goodwill" is not necessarily a good name, a good name should still be "goodwill"; We should try to use Chinese characters with elegant and auspicious meanings, and try not to use or use "too foreign" names, which is not in line with China's cultural habits and will give people an uncomfortable feeling. 8. Men and women have different names for "women". Don't use the number of strokes with "leading luck" and "lonely luck", which will affect your character and become a "strong woman", which is beneficial to your career and unfavorable to your marriage; There are many female stars whose marriages "essentially" failed for this reason. In addition, people should try to guess whether it is a man or a woman after hearing the name, and don't say that the man is a woman and the woman is a man; It is easy for people to misunderstand and affect others' impressions and opinions about themselves. 9, sense of the times, a person's name should have the charm of the times, try not to use Chinese characters commonly used by the older generation as names, otherwise it will be easily misunderstood, and it will give people a feeling of "rusticity", which is not conducive to leaving a good "first feeling" and a good impression. 10. When naming by reference to the genus, try to avoid using glyph Chinese characters in the name, and then consider avoiding using glyph Chinese characters in the parent genus of the name. Names from 10 or above, regardless of birth, will have a good "great athletic ability" inducing effect on the newborn's personality, study, marriage, career, wealth, official transport, health, social interaction and other aspects, thus affecting the newborn's healthy development in all aspects. Of course, it is difficult to name the point 10 above. Without a deep understanding of "Yi-ology" and "Naming", it is impossible without a lot of rich naming practice experience. Suggestion: Sometimes customers should not blindly pursue the so-called "nice, loud and eloquent". There is no "quantitative standard" for these statements, so it is hard to say whether they are true or false. Sometimes, due to the overall consideration, the newborn's own surname, the need to supplement the five elements of "Love God", the reference to "Zodiac", the designation of words and pronunciations, and the avoidance of pronunciations by immediate family members, sometimes the names that pop up may be called "unpleasant, loud and eloquent", which I think is a rare natural "fly in the ointment" at best; If we don't consider other matters for this, I think it's not worth the loss to "give up the basics". It is better to look up a name in the dictionary without spending money, thus losing the practical significance of really remembering a "good name". Naming, especially the real name of a lucky math, is definitely a complex and profound comprehensive knowledge. Naming involves many disciplines, such as Yi-ology, Naming, astrology, logic, psychology, temperament, aesthetics and so on. You don't have to know a little fortune-telling and naming knowledge to get a really good name, nor are you a so-called "expert". Of course, my opinion is only my experience and understanding of naming knowledge. If there is anything wrong, please ask my colleagues, teachers and friends who have read my article to give more valuable opinions and make more corrections, so that * * * can contribute a little to the profound "name culture" in China.