Causes of family conflicts
Sun Haiyang's family conflicts are mainly caused by his different ideas with Sun Zhuo's adoptive parents. Sun Zhuo's adoptive parents are traditional conservatives. They think that Sun Haiyang should put family first, not career. They think that Sun Haiyang should get married and have children as soon as possible instead of devoting all his time and energy to his career. However, Sun Haiyang believes that his career is his dream and pursuit, and he hopes to realize his value and achievements through his own efforts. He hopes to think about family problems after his career is successful.
Emotional dispute
In addition to family conflicts, Sun Haiyang also has emotional disputes with Sun Zhuo's adoptive parents. Sun Zhuo's adoptive parents think that Sun Haiyang doesn't respect them and care about their feelings, which makes them feel very disappointed and dissatisfied. Sun Haiyang, on the other hand, thinks that he has done his best to respect and care, but he can't give up his dreams and pursuits, and can't give up his values in order to please others.
operation sequence/order
If you encounter similar family conflicts and emotional disputes, then you can try the following steps:
1. Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with each other, understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and try to understand each other's positions and viewpoints.
2. Compromise: If you find that you and the other party have different views, then you need to consider the way of compromise and find a mutually acceptable solution.
3. Respect: No matter how different your views are from each other, you need to respect each other's feelings and positions, and don't easily deny or ignore each other's views.
4. Honesty: Finally, you need to be honest and sincere, don't hide your thoughts and feelings, and let the other party know your true thoughts and positions.