How to prevent marrying someone who is not suitable for you?
As the saying goes, a thousand-mile marriage will lead to a marriage, but there will be no chance of knowing each other. In marriage, fate is very important, but personality and other factors Factors also matter for non-correspondence. And horoscopes are given to everyone at birth, so does marriage have anything to do with horoscopes? The answer is of course yes. If your life is unhappy after getting married, or it may be that your horoscopes are incompatible, then let’s take a look at how to prevent marrying someone who is not suitable for you.
Many people are experiencing the pain of incompatible marriages, and many people have experienced the pain of incompatible marriages. Many people are asking bitterly: Can marital incompatibility be resolved? Is there any magic bullet to resolve my marital discord? Is there any magical way to save our love or marriage?
The so-called marriage refers to the spouse of marriage, the matching of marriage, the partner of life, and the sustenance of love. The key issue is not you, but the other half, whether you and your partner have a solid foundation, a good love, a harmonious personality, and a smooth marriage. . So the fundamental issue in marriage is to find the other half that suits you.
How can you know who is more suitable for you and who is the other half of your life?
It is said that marriage is based on fate. This is actually true. First of all, you must get to know each other and understand each other. , fall in love, and then can have close contact, come together, live together, happily and lovingly. This fate is the most important, so where does fate come from?
It is said that fate is cultivated in previous lives and is destined in this life. This is not unreasonable. Although we can't see past lives, we can see this kind of destined thing from your fate, so as to judge whether you two are suitable for marriage and whether you will live happily and long together.
The so-called horoscope marriage must first determine the horoscope of the two people's birth dates, and the fortune of the year. From the year pillar, we can see the depth of the foundation, from the moon pillar, we can see the good and evil of love, from the sun pillar, we can see the compatibility of temperament, and from the time pillar, we can see the compatibility of temperament. Look at future development. On this basis, then check the trend of the two people's marriage luck, whether the marriage news is synchronized, and some also need to judge the pattern, likes and dislikes, and see whether the two people's likes and dislikes are complementary, etc.; after so many complexities Only by calculation can we know whether the marriage between two people will be good or bad. If the good is greater than the bad, it means that the prospects are promising and development can continue; if the bad is greater than the good, it means that the problem is serious and needs careful consideration.
If after calculation, it is found that two people are not compatible in marriage, is there a panacea or magical formula to resolve this marriage disaster? This also needs to be analyzed from two aspects.
In the first case, if the outcome of the marriage is more bad than good:
1. Then I advise you to go back to your mother's womb and be reborn, change the time of birth, and maybe there is a solution. possible.
2. Or simply give up and find someone else who is destined to be with you. Don’t hang yourself on this crooked tree until you hang yourself.
3. There is no fairy prescription, let alone a magic recipe from a goddess, to help you resolve marital differences or win the other person’s heart. Those who forcefully resolve the situation knowing it cannot be resolved will only end up in vain. Sometimes it's not the other person's fault for being deceived, it's just your obsession and wishful thinking.
The second situation, if the result of the marriage is more good than bad:
1. Make up for it through the marriage of the two people.
According to the problems existing in the marriage between the two people, useful adjustments and supplements were made from the aspects of Feng Shui housing, five-element jewelry, color tone, childbirth, etc., to effectively resolve the unfavorable factors and increase the stability of the marriage.
2. Make amends from personal marriage.
Whether a marriage is good or bad depends not only on whether the marriage between the two people is auspicious, but also on whether the personal marriage is smooth. If there are also problems in the personal marriage, such as the wrong day, the missing month, or the loss of an official. In order to suppress or resolve these unfavorable factors and make them beneficial to the marriage relationship, we must take Feng Shui, Five Elements, Psychology, Religion and other measures from the aspects of the zodiac, day grid, occupation, etc.
3. Adjustment method
If the problem is not serious, you can make a written disaster relief plan and implement it yourself. If the problem is serious, on-site survey and adjustment of ancestral tombs and home feng shui are required to achieve the corresponding effect.
In fact, the most fundamental and effective adjustment is psychological adjustment. What is called psychological adjustment?
First of all, you must change your concept and understand that fate is destined, and you can only meet it by chance, not force it. Only by being in love can you be happy. No matter how good the beauty is, no matter how handsome the guy is, if it is not your cup of tea, you will not be able to eat it, or even if you can eat it, it will not taste sweet and it will be extremely painful.
Secondly, we need to change our concepts and understand that marriage and love are sometimes completely different things. Love is stimulation and feeling, and more of a spiritual enjoyment, while marriage is life and dullness. It's more of a material enjoyment. Those who have feelings are not necessarily suitable for living together, and living together does not necessarily require feelings. The essence of marriage is partners, relying on each other, understanding and giving in to each other, and after being together for a long time, they will become dependent, reluctant to leave, and will love each other and stay together for life.
Third, as a woman, finding someone who loves you as a partner is ten times happier than finding someone you love.