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Children are always the most important thing for parents. From the moment they are born, parents want to give all the best things to their children. They are hands-on in all kinds of things, and parents also put in a lot of effort in order to make their children successful.
Newborns also face various problems that need to be solved after birth, and naming is the first problem that parents face. Only after the name is chosen can all the procedures after the birth of the child be completed smoothly.
When naming their children, parents often choose a name that sounds nice and has a good meaning. This is also because they hope that the child will be as expected by the name in the future, and hope that a good name can bring good luck to the child. .
In different eras, children's names often have the meaning of the times, such as "Jianguo", "Yaping", "Guiying", "Heping", "Heping" in the 1970s and 1980s. Build an Army" and so on.
After the 1990s, naming began to focus on individuality, such as "Shuai", "Hao", "Jun", "Xue", "Ting", "Qian" and so on. In the past ten years, children's names have become more personalized, with more references to celebrities and novel characters.
In the past few years, when many parents named their children, they often focused on whether the name sounded good, and there were more and more names with the same pronunciation for men and women, such as "Zixuan", "Zixuan" Such as "Zixuan" and "Zhixuan".
Perhaps it is due to the herd mentality of some parents or the influence of film, television dramas and novels that children’s names have become homogeneous, which can be regarded as a sign of the times.
However, they often ignore the negative impact these names will have on students, such as names with too many strokes, homophones with certain things, uncommon characters, etc., which are not conducive to students' learning and life. .
For example, a child with a name that is too special may be rejected by other children because of the name, and the child may be given a nickname. These are not conducive to the child's future development, and may even leave a mark on the child. shadow.
I once read a report about a student whose name was "禤靐龘". He often complained that the name given by his parents was too complicated. No matter how few people knew these two words, in the It also takes a long time to write your name during the exam.
"禤靐龘" has only 3 characters, but it has 103 paintings. Although the meaning of this name is very good, it has brought great distress to the student, and many netizens also ridiculed him. : The name is too difficult, and the grid given is not enough.
However, such a name is also a kind of "torture" for school teachers. These words are not very common, and it is normal for teachers not to know them. But showing this in front of students will also hurt the teacher's self-esteem, right?
At the beginning of the new semester, a primary school teacher complained on the Internet that there were more than 30 children in the class, and I didn’t even recognize half of the children’s names.
A person's name often lasts a lifetime. Even if they want to change their name later, because the procedure is too complicated and there are too many things that need to be changed, many people will give up changing their name. Therefore, parents are choosing to name their children. Also be careful when choosing your name.
First of all, when choosing a name, you can pursue individuality but not too much, and be as concise as possible. If a child is isolated by other classmates because of his name, it will develop an inferiority complex in the long run.
For us adults, it is easy to not care about other people's opinions, but for children with young minds, others' ridicule will affect their lives.
As the old saying goes, "A person is what his name is." If no one knows the name, how can it leave a deep impression? Take school as an example. If a child's name is a rare character or a homophonic character, the teachers will not be willing to ask questions in class, right?
Even if you go to work later, leaders and colleagues may automatically stay away from this person after seeing this name, because they don’t know what the name is. It would be even more rude to just call him "hey".
It is recommended that parents try to avoid uncommon words and homophonic names when naming their children, and do not deliberately pursue personalization, which will have a negative impact on their children.
A name is not only a pronoun, but also the first impression others have of you. A good name can also bring more opportunities to people. Nowadays, the era of "zi xuan" has passed, but new naming methods are still popular, which also makes many teachers feel helpless.
There is a lot of knowledge behind names, and parents should also take care to give their children a good name as much as possible. If you don’t know, you can also look through ancient poems, classics, etc. The names in them are also very nice.
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