"An enter a door, is a family. Add my son's name. " Should I promise my mother-in-law's request?

My husband and I have been married for five years, and finally we can't escape the curse of divorce. I looked at the home where we had lived together for five years and thought about what the marriage between my husband and me was. I don't seem to be happy since that marriage. From the moment my mother-in-law moved in, the family fell into endless quarrels, and my husband and I finally divorced with the help of my mother-in-law. To tell the truth, I have to thank my mother-in-law, otherwise I will never know what my husband thinks in my life.

My name is Jingjing. My husband and I met through acquaintances. Because I am old, I dare not be too picky about marriage, because everyone around me told me that if I don't hurry up, I won't find a better person in the future, so I married that better person.

In fact, my husband is not a very nice person, just a small company employee. When we got married, I paid the down payment for buying a house, but my husband is also a reasonable person. He said that since I paid the money, I could only write my name on the house, not my husband's name.

After getting married, my husband treated me well for a few days. At that time, our feelings were still harmonious, but I didn't expect my husband to change after my mother-in-law came from the countryside.

My husband said that it was not easy for his mother to provide him with education, so he asked me to be filial to my mother-in-law. I understand this truth, and I know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult to deal with since ancient times, so I know that I must have a good relationship with my mother-in-law and not let my husband be embarrassed in the middle.

But unexpectedly, my mother-in-law came, and my nightmare followed. My mother-in-law is a very picky person, but she only finds fault with me. At one time, she thought that my cooking was not delicious, and at the same time, she thought that I couldn't wash clothes with the washing machine, so the clothes couldn't be cleaned, so I had to wash them by hand. My husband and I have mentioned the difficulties of my mother-in-law several times, but my husband thinks that I deliberately said that my mother-in-law is wrong, and he also asked me not to say these words again.

At that time, I understood my husband's attitude towards me, and he would never take my side when I had an argument with my mother-in-law. Sure enough, when my mother-in-law learned that I was the only one on the property certificate, she said, "As soon as I entered the door, I was a family, plus my son's name" and even crossed out my name. I was confused at that time. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to make such excessive demands.

I asked my husband, and he also said that we are husband and wife, so I should add his name. But when we got married, it was clearly agreed that my house would always be my house. Now my husband and mother-in-law have made this request. Don't you think it's too much? Didn't you just accompany me to repay the loan for several years? Just give it back to him when it's a big deal

Later, after our divorce, my mother-in-law came to see me again and said politely that she would give me another chance. As long as I do what they say, then I don't care about anything. I said directly, "Mother-in-law, we are divorced." I sent her away on the spot. I would rather not get married than get back together with such a person.