I wonder if you have noticed such a phenomenon:
The more people around you post on WeChat Moments to complain about their emotions and share their happiness. They come less and less; whether it is social media or video programs, the content of the nonsense is often more attractive than the in-depth emotional analysis; the Yuncun Shudong gathering place where people spoke freely is now also called "the Internet suppresses the cloud";
We seem to reject the expression of emotions more than any other era, especially negative emotions.
A group of people who shout "Xiao Zhen Mang" always use sand sculptures and half-jokes. Di Cai expresses a series of sadness, grievance, frustration and dissatisfaction with his mouth; but what he really cares about and is sad in his heart is always well hidden, and he dare not reveal anything to others.
You will find that contemporary people are more free and easy to deal with emotions, and they are also more indifferent.
We no longer choose to tell and express, but choose to pack them up and close them up. We will only secretly vent in the circle of friends in the early morning when no one is around and delete them secretly;
We Only by watching a movie can I dare to "cry my own tears while watching other people's stories", and I have to quietly shed these pitiful tears in the shadow of the huge 3D glasses under the dim lights of the cinema.
We are afraid that others will see our little entanglement and think we are indecisive, we will be afraid that others will see our outburst of complaints and feel that we are an unapproachable person, and we will be afraid that we will be criticized for expressing inappropriate feelings. Joke, you will be afraid that the character you have managed to build will collapse;
So you no longer dare to express it easily and no longer dare to invest easily,
So the more often people cry in the middle of the night ,
I will often hide my tears in the morning, listen to your complaints and complaints with a smile, and then say a few ridiculous words to ask for a beating from you.
In an era when security is scarce, every emotional investment must be fully assured. At least you have to make sure that there will be no bullying, incomprehension or ridicule, no parting or betrayal, then you can dare to tell others the joy or sadness in your heart gently and carefully.
Because once you establish this kind of non-funny, non-relaxed, non-frivolous relationship,
but a truly serious relationship of telling and listening, even strangers you meet on the Internet can be considered to have established a relationship. Got in touch.
We are easier to express than any other age, but we are therefore more sensitive than any other age.
Afraid of establishing a connection, afraid of being hurt accidentally, afraid of listening to other people's emotional expressions and being forced to take on a responsibility, even if it is just an accidental interaction with a stranger.
The fox taught the little prince: "You spent time on your rose, which makes it so important to you."
The fox said that this is called "domestication", "Assuming you come at three o'clock every afternoon, my heart will start to feel anticipation from one o'clock."
In this era, once you are serious, you will have such expectations.
Sometimes it is the viewer’s expectation for the expresser, hoping that he will get better.
But no one is willing to bear this expectation. Life is complicated enough, and no one is willing to bear it again. Another person’s sadness or misfortune;
So people are more and more willing to spend an entire night scrolling through Douyin without thinking;
They are more and more willing to see three points on their faces Ridiculing the two-part cold-blooded and four-part careless CEO who trains his little wife;
Becoming more and more willing to get excited about a funny but mindless joke and welcome the crooked-mouthed Dragon King;
These are all a kind of escape, a kind of self that does not dare to take it seriously or face it and chooses to escape pressure and emotions in a mindless atmosphere.
Who knows whether this is right or wrong, but maybe when there are more and more 996 or even 007, and when the public opinion becomes more and more violent,
Maybe this can really become The so-called "Internet" new normal may not happen,
But if it does come then, at least I will mourn.
What about you?
Producer: xxl/Very Ruthless Lao Yang
Creative Provider: xxl/A Certain Mysterious Partner
Visual Director: Social My Brother Fei
Design Director: Long Ye
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