?Not long after I got pregnant, I was thinking about how to give my baby a shocking, unforgettable, literary, or fresh...nickname (a big name is too brain-consuming) ).
However, when the book is used, I will regret it. The sleepy and tired pregnancy always provides a good reason for me to delay thinking of a name.
When I was 6 months pregnant, I was given a name. This restless element began to take root in my heart like a seed. I had to think of it all the time. I wanted to push it away, but I couldn’t. It's like scratching an itch.
At this time, I naturally thought of the partner who negotiated a business deal a few months ago. The child’s father, Mr. Li, how could he not be included in the name?
So I approached him to discuss the matter. I decided to give him a couple of male and female names before giving birth, and then decide based on the actual gender after birth.
However, he replied: "It's only been a few months, so there's no rush." ??
After two months of wandering, I even had a period of time. I forgot about this, it’s just a nickname after all.
His grandfather mentioned this when the baby was still a child. On the other end of the phone, after the daily greetings, my dad suddenly asked:
"How many names have you thought of for the baby?"
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"I haven't thought about it yet, don't worry."
Dad was excited, "Great, hurry up and listen to my opinion. Although I haven't read it yet I have read some books, but I also have some knowledge of classics. Based on the baby's expected delivery date, I asked Uncle Zhao, the fortune teller next door, that the baby's name must have the character "德" in the middle. Since it is a dog, he must have a treasure hijab, and he will definitely be rich in the future. Your Majesty..."
Before he could finish speaking, a famous man named Debao fell from the sky.
In order to prevent the situation from changing too quickly, I quickly persuaded my father to leave it alone and let us, a young couple, decide. After all, we had gone through nine years of compulsory education and had gone to school. University, how could a science student with a university diploma not be able to think of a good name?
I told Mr. Li that as parents, we are going to name our baby. I will choose 10 names and he will choose 10 names. We will discuss the results after a month.
Men’s Songs of Chu, women’s Book of Songs. Following this line of thought, I ignored the exhaustion and fatigue during pregnancy and read the poem from beginning to end using a dictionary and a translator. I prepared myself for the college entrance examination and worked hard all night long.
A month later, I finally sorted out ten names that I am very satisfied with, and they are full of meanings. At that time, I felt that my whole body was exuding the brilliance of maternal love, and I felt that my knowledge base was much richer for my baby.
When I brought my name to Mr. Li like a treasure and asked him to participate in the evaluation, he took on the posture of an emperor selecting a concubine: < /p>
"This has no depth, I don't like it."
"This is too girly and not suitable for baby boys."
"This does not read smoothly."
Several names were rejected by him one by one.
Holding back the anger igniting in his heart, he squeezed out a smile from between his teeth, "Oh? Really? Then let me see what name you gave me."
< p> "I haven't thought about it yet, there is still time, you can think about it again."Mr. Li is really a pig teammate on the road to partnership. An unknown fire strings from the soles of his feet. This is Are you playing with me? Didn’t we agree that everyone should name ten? Doesn’t he care what the child’s name is?
Hmph, then I don’t want a name either.
I suddenly felt happy, this piece of wood finally came to my senses, and I started to think about it.
However, I was still too young. When I opened the file, a dense group of words rushed towards me, placed like ants in the document, one to five files ( Later, several more files were sent in succession), including boy's name and girl's name.
Zixuan, Haoran, Zihan and other high-profile names are impressively listed.
I probably counted, there are about 20,000 names, no more, no more, pick ten out of 20,000.
Sure enough, the straight male science student is full of magic when he gets serious.
I replied to him decisively.
Seeing that the due date is approaching and the name has not yet been decided, as an old mother, I am naturally very anxious.
So I organized a family meeting. The participants were Mr. Li, my mother-in-law, and my parents and father-in-law on the other end of the video. The whole family discussed the naming matter together.
The meeting was well organized, and people from all parties spoke actively, expounding their beautiful yearnings and expectations for the naming, which contained full blessings.
After the meeting, the naming matter was still unresolved. Mr. Li was ultimately solely responsible for the naming. As for me, I was able to take care of my baby while others cheered from behind.
The result of the meeting was completely in line with my expectations, and it was a qualitative leap in promoting the naming matter. The birth was imminent, and a birth certificate must be obtained within two weeks of birth, which means that the name must be Make sure in the meantime.
Pushing things until they can’t be pushed anymore, and on the day when things are completed and due, can often bring out a person’s maximum potential.
Mr. Li, who is slow and slow in doing things, all the pressures I had made before were getting twice the result with half the effort, but on the day of my due date, he actually listed several nicknames for me: Xiao Qiqi, Qi Qi, Xiao Bao, Yang Positive.
"Actually, I was thinking about it before, but I didn't think it was good enough. I need to think about it slowly..."
An explanation Finally, the previous doubts were solved one by one, and I felt relieved. He, whose silence is golden, should have told me his thoughts earlier, so that I wouldn't have to be so entangled and indecisive.
Before I had time to confirm that day, the baby started to move. It took a day to decide on the baby's nickname, Xiao Peanut, which means a flowery and peanut baby. Everyone voted unanimously in favor of it.
That’s it? Can you be more serious?
What is gratifying is that even the name has been confirmed, and the efficiency is comparable to that of Made in China.
After giving birth, I lay weakly on the bed, looking at the sleeping baby, murmuring his name, my family sitting beside me, and happiness surrounding me.