Text by Mulian’s mother, original content
After having a baby, “naming” has become the top priority for the family. Parents will be very cautious in naming their children. , intending to choose a name with a good meaning.
A name is a person's "social label". It is not just a person's title. Sometimes, a person's appearance and personality are also related to the name. To put it bluntly, it is what our names should look like, which will eventually be reflected on our faces.
American psychologists once conducted a study titled: "We look a lot like our names." To put it bluntly, the content of the research is that a person's appearance will change year by year according to the name given by his parents.
This statement actually has a scientific basis. When people hear a name, they will not only regard it as a title of a person, but also a cultural concept. This concept includes the text, pronunciation, meaning, etc. of the name. Once people have this "concept", they will default to the fact that the person with this name should have the appearance corresponding to the name.
Just like, if your name is "Tom", you may have a round face; if your name is "Tim", you may have a slender face; if your name is "Monroe", Then you may have a "mole" at the corner of your mouth...
In addition to the impact of names on appearance, names also have a role in developing personality.
First of all, your name determines the first impression others have of you.
When a person knows another person's name, his instinctive first reaction is derived from the impression of the name. If your name is "Zhao Ritian", it is estimated that the other person will give you a "weird" look.
In the same way, for two girls who look similar, one is called "Li Qi" and the other is called "Li Qinghan", one will instinctively feel that the latter is colder, so the name has a more direct impact. people's impression.
Secondly, the name will remind people of other things.
If the name has homophonic or homophonic meanings, then it will remind people of more things. Things, such as those "Du Ziteng", "Glory of the King", etc., generally do not leave a good impression on people.
At the same time, the difficulty of the name will affect people's sense of existence
Strange names will give people a strange feeling. If the name is difficult to remember or difficult to read, Then it will reduce people's sense of existence.
Especially when people need to make quick decisions, attractive names are more likely to be chosen. Therefore, when parents name their children, those good-sounding and attractive names are undoubtedly the best choice for their children. The rest of life is “the icing on the cake”.
Regardless of the impact of names on appearance and personality, a person's appearance and personality will also affect each other. To put it bluntly: those who are often unhappy may grow uglier.
The phrase "love comes from the heart" is not just talk. In life, those who look fierce will always lose their temper easily, while those who look kind will always smile. Even though he didn't show too many expressions, his appearance already revealed his personality "at a glance".
In addition, how a person usually views himself will also change his appearance. When a person thinks that he is young and beautiful, he will do his best to get better and work harder to be positive. , making your life full of more challenges will naturally attract more opportunities.
On the contrary, those negative attitudes make the whole person dim, rejecting opportunities and people who want to get close to you.
So, after knowing the secrets between name, appearance and personality, if you are not satisfied with your appearance, you will have another reason to refute: it’s because your name is bad~ Of course, you want to be more beautiful. It is also important to be attractive and maintain a positive self-esteem at all times.